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It's so bad that my fiancée has some bras that say she's a B cup and others that says she's a D cup. In order to go bra shopping, you have to actually try them on to find out if they fit.

If I had to try on underwear to see if they fit, I might not bother with underwear at all!

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 hour ago

They aren't?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I'm sad I missed the days of girls wearing no bras. Must have been nice.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 35 minutes ago

You don't live in Australia then.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 hours ago

No clothes shit in my country is standard so why would the bra's be?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 hours ago* (last edited 3 hours ago)

Most of the bras that my girlfriend gets fits on her first try, although she does tend to prefer sister sizes over her real size. If your girlfriend is having issues with bras fitting, it might be worthwhile to read up on how bra sizes are actually calculated and do a measurement yourself. Funny enough, most girls don't seem to know how the bra size system works either and they just get their sizes through trial and error, which seems like what has happened here.

The letter by itself is fundamentally meaningless. A 32D is equivalent to a 34B! And most girls severely underestimate their actual size. What would colloquially be called a B or C is actually an E

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 hours ago

I'm gay, so current age I guess

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 hours ago

Teenager. I'm an artist. I was drawing some characters. Had to find some references.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

Men's clothing sizes are a little dumb sometimes but I can usually take a tape measure to my waist and correctly order pants. Your guess is as good as mine what the difference between "boot cut" and "relaxed fit" are, and I would swear T-shirt sizes have shrunk since I was a teenager. As in, I can compare a Medium I've had since the Dubya administration to an XL today. But getting fitted for a suit, they measure me in inches and the clothing is more or less sized in inches.

Women's clothing sizes have had two different ice pick lobotomies. Women come in a wider range of sizes and aspect ratios, women's clothing is pretty much universally designed to fit tighter, but on the rack they're given one meaningless size number. a 12 is bigger than a 10, who knows by how much, and there's nothing on the girl you can measure with a tape to get that number, and there is no standard here at all. Why they haven't revolted I have no idea.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 hour ago

There is a whole NPR episode on women sizing and history of sizing in general.

Eye opening how stupid it is

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 hours ago

I would swear T-shirt sizes have shrunk since I was a teenager.

I thought that too, but it turns out I just got fat

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 hours ago

Grade 9- girlfriend at the time was "blessed" so to speak. Learned e women have a much more difficult time finding bras and underwear that "work" than most men do.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 5 hours ago

Well, today years old. Thanks.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

@ThisIsAManWhoKnowsHowToGling I don't remember exactly, but I was well into adulthood.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 hours ago

Oh hey, a Mastodon user! Nice to see ya

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago
[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

It is well standardized around here.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

This is the case with all clothing.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago

All is a strecht... But yeah once marketing took over that function, it got turned into whatever the fuck we got now in the US🤡

[–] [email protected] 4 points 6 hours ago

I think this is filed in my head under "no two manufacturers' sizes are the same (even if they're supposed to be to a standard)", and "this is especially true of women's wear", so while I may have known about bra cup sizes specifically at some point in the past, I'm not sure I did at the time I arrived at this post, and yet am thoroughly unsurprised to (re)discover it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago

Probably around 14 or something. For whatever reason, people will often name DD as a large bra size around here. It also doesn't exist in our bra size system. Some girl pointed out that non-sense at school.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 7 hours ago

The cup size SHOULD be the difference in inches between the circumference below the breast and circumference around the breast.

3" difference would be a C cup

5" would be DD.

Why they double up some letters and not others, I couldn't tell you. 🤷🏻‍♂️

My ex used to sell underwear.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 hours ago

Europe, my beloved...

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I really want a law that requires clothing sizes to include actual measurements. And it's insane that I would have to specify that these measurements must be accurate, but the clothing industry has made lying about sizes the norm.

There shouldn't be anything preventing me from figuring out women's bra sizes with a tape measure aside from the fact that I don't know them and they probably don't want a stranger obsessively measuring their boobs.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

I really want a law that requires clothing sizes to include actual measurements.

Men's pants are sized based on the number of inches around the waist and the inseam. The inseam is stupid because it ignores the height from the waist to the crotch so relaxed fitting jeans will have a shorter inseam than a regular fit. I'm sure it is because it was standardized when higher waisted jeans and overalls and that kind of stuff was popular.

But it doesn't matter any more because the waist sizes can be off by a few inches anyway. It was literal, then became kind of close. Not as bad as women's clothing, but it is brand specific depending on how hard they lean into vanity sizing.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 58 minutes ago (1 children)

waist sizes matter less because theres at least a commonly used bandaid fix for it, a belt.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 52 minutes ago (1 children)

Unless they are tighter than expected, especially when they shrink.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 50 minutes ago

of course, hence when given the option, always buy the waist oversized rather than perfectly matching. because youll never know if it decreases.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago

Yet another reason why I don't wear pants.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 hours ago

This might go some ways to explaining why I've never known a woman who liked buying or wearing bras. I'm comfortable blaming the patriarchy, which can absolutely get fucked.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 7 hours ago* (last edited 7 hours ago)

It was a long time ago that I realized that women’s clothing sizing was largely fiction. Trying to buy clothing for a girlfriend or (later) my wife based on the tag of something they already owned was an exercise in futility.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 hours ago

The same time I learned it was like that for all women's clothing. So about 18

[–] [email protected] 4 points 7 hours ago

My understanding is that some European countries have laws standardizing bra size.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 7 hours ago

I always figured it was like pants where a 34 waist from company A wouldn't fit like one from B.

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