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I’ve already mailed in my ballot, and I volunteered to be a poll worker (though they haven’t gotten in touch). With a week (maybe two) to go before we get the result, I feel caught in a limbo. It feels more important to me to be copying my important documents and organizing go-bags to be ready for a crisis than it does to do anything at work. I also recognize that that is probably a reaction to stress and anxiety and isn’t helping me. That said, I’m part of many groups that the right-wing hates and is openly threatening, so feeling unsafe doesn’t feel unreasonable either.

How are you all holding up out there? And tips for me to deal with this better?

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 days ago

I've been writing postcards and letters to voters. It's a little too late to jump on the postcard wagon but letters can be written until 10/29. It's super easy, you're provided templates, instructions and addresses, you just need paper, envelopes and stamps.

https://votefwd.org/

I wrote a ton of both and it did wonders to distract me and give me something of purpose to do at the same time.

I'm pretty sure text banking and phone banking is still going on too.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

if trump steals the white house again i'll be going to buy more security cameras and guns before they add an "acceptable voting history" requirement on those purchases

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

I've literally been registered as "independent" since his first win because I could see the bloodlust even then. I'd rather not have myself on a registered "enemies list"... :(

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago

I've already voted. I don't have the ability to volunteer for anything, so I'm working on removing all the doomer posting and adding blocks on my feeds. No point in stressing about something I have no more ability to help with.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I'm playing a lot of pinball, but that really hasn't changed.

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[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 days ago (3 children)

People outside of US have the right to worry about this election as well imo. It's one of many currently on-going battles of autocracy vs democracy and this election will heavily shape the battlefield.

I wish all of the luck to my American friends and really that's all non-americans can do so I'll just grab a joint and catch up on the new season of What We Do In The Shadows until this blows over.

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I figured out who to vote for and mostly lost faith in the American people. I deeply understand that the system is broken but electing a fascist is not the way to fix it unless you want it completely broken. Honestly pretty depressed about the whole thing because prospects are grim and I have little hope for the future after the past 10 years.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (4 children)

Doomscrolling, exercise, and looking up firing ranges near me. Been a few decades since last I went

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Not great... I'm not a US citizen yet so voting isn't possible. Only thing I could do is vote with my feet... so I moved out of Texas for good earlier this year. I think my current location is as safe as it gets in regards to avoiding political violence (since I'm not exactly in a group that the right isn't threatening) so there's that

Other than that? Nothing... If the worst happens I'll just hole-up in the building and ask my boss for permission to work from home

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[–] [email protected] 140 points 2 days ago (9 children)

You gotta get to the point where you worry about the things you can control, and let go of the things that you can’t.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago (8 children)

This is actually a big message in the dharma of the Buddha.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I used to be much more into meditation and reading Buddhist literature. I reflect on that time in my life as being happier and more peaceful (I was also exercising a lot more then too). I’ve started going to a yoga class a few times a month, but I wish I had an easier time getting back into the rest of it.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I've already resigned myself to the fact that a) my candidates of choice likely won't win, and b) the results will be contested with complaints, nit-picking, tantrums, and probably violence across at least several states, and a final decision won't be known for a few weeks.

I'm trying to avoid political topics and articles a bit more than usual. I also have a lot of things going on in my personal life (not necessarily bad things, but lots of responsibilities) that are keeping me busy right now.

I had also saved up a couple of TV shows that I've been wanting to watch, to fill in some of the little free time I have right now.

Edit: fixed a word.

[–] [email protected] 43 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Honestly, other than voting and trying to get those around me to actually give a shit, I'm not. Like in the past two elections, I'm having trouble grasping the fact that half of the (voting) country wants to elect a fascist. My mother told me over the phone that one of her neighbors is voting for Trump because "his wife is absolutely gorgeous". Like, how do you even respond to that, especially in any calm way?

Oh, and someone here reminded me: cannabis. Lots and lots of it.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago

If you vote for someone because you think their wife is hot I don’t think you should be allowed to vote.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago

Reminds me of some French women who voted for Macron because he married a woman 25 years older than him (formerly his highschool literature teacher).

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[–] [email protected] 60 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Alcohol, cannabis, and limiting my exposure to news/politics. It's working wonders, TBH.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 2 days ago (10 children)

That actually sounds like you're not doing well at all.

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