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[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Still got a pretty good body count, though. Can’t have a sex scene, but films of virtually non -stop violence is cool.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (4 children)

So basically in the ~~distant future year of~~ year 2000 movies mostly had it all?

Like fast food (chains) - products topped with sugar, fats, and salt, so there is no need for actual quality?

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 days ago (1 children)

So sex is a vice now or just when its in a film?

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Early 2000s were full of horny teen films.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago

Oh, lol, good explanation actually.

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[–] [email protected] 40 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Let's make a movie about the creator of the nuclear bomb! We can explore the moral implications, the political drama of communists in the USA during and after WW2, the creations of Los Alamos, the interesting science of...

Random corporate head: "Let's have a sex scene! That will make things interesting!"

[–] [email protected] 21 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Now I am become death, the destroyer of...... Ooo... titties!

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

This is exactly what came to my mind. It was so unexpected.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 5 days ago

Oh, wait, Fappenheimer the war criminal really has a sex scene? Lul

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

Roughly correlates with the rate of decrease in people 18-30 having sex. I'm not sure of the order of influence there, or if there even is one, but it's possible the declining presence of sex in media is a result of it being less relatable for something like 30% more young people than previous generations.

[–] [email protected] 82 points 6 days ago (1 children)

What bothers me more is that violence gets a PG rating here, sex gets an X rating. How in the world is it more inappropriate for kids to see people naked than for them to watch someone hack someone else to death? The graphic violence should get a more restricted rating than on screen sex.

[–] [email protected] 33 points 5 days ago (3 children)

When your nation always needs to be at war, it's helps to repress sexuality and normalize violence. This isn't so much a conspiracy theory, but an observation of an emergence behavior that reinforces itself.

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[–] [email protected] 26 points 6 days ago (3 children)

It's due to easier accessibility to porn. It both reduces demand for the relatively timid sex scenes in films and also reduces their edginess/shock value.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Sex scenes were usually forced in by people screaming sex sells. These days there are different ways to see breasts than going to a cinema.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 6 days ago (1 children)

All the colors in the fucking universe and they pick three shades of gray.

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[–] [email protected] 52 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (4 children)

Sex scenes in movies are a combination of this weird shameful "I want to show I'm having sex but I can't actually show it" and "It's almost like porn if you removed all the porn."

You're really stuck in a pointless awkward middle ground that satisfies nobody. And 95% of the time it isn't even plot relevant so you're just wasting time. The decline basically just coincides with internet access to the masses.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

I want Dennis Reynolds to direct. That way any sex scenes will show full penetration and actually be worth having in.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago (2 children)

To hell with bra-on sex, duvet covering the lower half of the bodies sex, very dark room sex. Depict it artistically with full nudity and penetration. Show the sex in a way that people actually have sex.

That would be refreshing in a mainstream movie.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 6 days ago (1 children)

I correlate it with the weird feelings that religion introduced about sex and let Al Pacino speak my feelings in Devil's Advocate:

"let me give you a little inside information about God. God likes to watch. He's a prankster. Think about it. He gives man instincts. He gives you this extraordinary gift, and then what does He do? I swear, for His own amusement, His own private cosmic gag reel, He sets the rules in opposition. It's the goof of all time. Look, but don't touch. Touch, but don't taste. Taste, don't swallow."

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago (3 children)

My question would be how much of this is actors no longer being completely subjected to the gross wims of the director. How many scenes had little to do with a story and felt more like the director using the opportunity to make pretty people obey them.

We have intimacy directors now and what may also be happening is individuals having more say in production and in their bodily autonomy and I don't see that as an issue particularly.

Did random sex scenes really hit the level of art for you folks? Is pornography art the same way? 🤔 You know both are made for mass sale and consumption usually, the same way, much more than trying to make content to say anything.

But um "it so bad we block the titties!" or whatever is popular to say. Even though i personally don't remember many that added anything story related. Show me them bonding in a real way, sex doesn't cement anything if you've ever had a cheating partner, but a real collection of moments spent together between them that shows understanding and sacrifice for each other can really have an impact.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 6 days ago

The kids who watched Titanic with their parents are growing up and making movies now

[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 days ago

Funny how the peak of sex in movies was right around the time Tommy Wiseau blessed the world with 3 sex scenes the first 30 minutes of one movie.

That man has a glorious ass and anyone who got turned off to sex in movies because of it deserves shame

[–] [email protected] 13 points 6 days ago

Sex scenes are goofy af

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