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Do you drink the cereal-flavored milk straight from the bowl? I grew up doing this because my parents taught me how good that milk tastes. As I’ve gotten older, I feel a little self-conscious about doing it in public. It’s not something I notice other non-children doing.

Editing to add: I do drink the milk from the bowl. As to when I'm eating it "in public:" hotels mostly. Self-conscious was probably the wrong word. I'm more wondering if people silently judge a grown person drinking cereal milk from the bowl. Not losing sleep if they do, just curious.

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

I absolutely do, but I also generally don’t eat cereal in public…I could count on one hand the number of times in the last 30 years or so (since I was a teenager)…no real reason why but I don’t think it would give me pause if I were eating cereal in public.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

Aw man. Get me a bowl of cocoa puffs.

Free chocolate milk after you're done. Yes please.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

I'll feel more self-conscious if I'm wasting food. And no, unless you're particularly loud, no one is judging you for how you're having something.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 8 months ago

Do you… not drink the milk from the cereal bowl…?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

Tangentially related: Where I grew up (Eastern European country in the communist era), the staple appetiser for dinner was chicken broth with noodles. I loved noodles as a kid os I would always want to eat them last. So, I would always first eat all the broth (although with a spoon rather than drinking it straight from the bowl) pushing the noodles aside, draining all the broth from them to spoon it up, and then eat the noodles. Even now, when I go to Asian restaurants and order some form of noodle soup, I eat it in a similar way.

But cereal, no. Every spoonful has to contain a balanced proportion of cereal and milk.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

It's the best part

[–] [email protected] 5 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Lots of cultures drink things from bowls. It's perfectly acceptable IMHO. I don't know why Americans have such a problem with it. I always drink my pho and ramen broth from the bowl after I eat the solid stuff. The broth is the best part of those dishes on purpose, so leaving it behind is dumb.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

My milk-to-cereal ratio doesn't leave much milk behind, so generally no. But if for some reason I still have milk left over, then yes.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Yes. I'm 30. I do this, it's not weird, and anyone who says otherwise is a poser.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

I'm 46 and I do this.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago

Unequivocally, yes.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

It’s actually one of the reasons I switched from milk to yogurt in my cereal- I can more easily eat it all with my spoon

Another is the sofa. I can eat breakfast on my own sofa without worrying about a spill

[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago

Do you feel weird in the strip club?

Enjoy things. Don't not enjoy things for social reasons, unless you're a pedophile.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

When i was a very young kid I didn't like it. .. but after like 3 I really like it.

.. and no it wasn't thrown away: someone else would drink the remaining milk.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago

The idea of drinking someone else's cereal milk makes me quite squeamish

[–] [email protected] 25 points 8 months ago

I definitely judge the kind of person who leaves milk in the bowl as if it were a waste product of cereal consumption and not half the point.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 8 months ago

I'd rather not let milk go to waste.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (2 children)

If you were asking this to a global audience, it would definitely be an extreme minority. About 70% of the adult population of the world is lactose intolerant.

I just like mentioning that statistic because white people usually don't believe me. 😁

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I'm not lactose intolerant but I've ibd and depending on how my disease is going I might not be able to drink milk, I'm also white. I thought lactose intolerance was widely known about?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

Most people don't realize that lactose tolerance is the unusual condition. I do think most people know lactose intolerance exists though, yeah.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 8 months ago

I'm white, lactose intolerant, and drink the oat milk from the bowl when I have cereal.
I encourage the kids to do the same with their cows milk.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago

Cereal isn't meant to be eaten in public.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 8 months ago

Late 30s. Hell yes I drink the milk. That's the whole reason I ate the cereal.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

We have a routine going: I get the last piece of cereal from the bowl and hold it on my spoon while I drink the milk from the bowl. Then I give that piece of cereal to the dog, and then it’s time for his walk.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 8 months ago (2 children)

I'm so confused by this whole thread. I'm quite upset that some people are throwing away this food. Just use less milk FFS! I volunteer with a food-waste-prevention environmental group. Over 1/3 of all food that's grown is wasted and so it really annoys me when people don't eat everything they put on their plate. Plus I grew up poor so I still can't fathom people being so wasteful.

As for everyone else, you ate most of your milk with the spoon, why can't you finish the job with the spoon? Do you all have strangely shaped bowls that make it impossible or something?

I'm feeling an intense culture shock (given how minor this thing is) from this. Kinda reminds me of the two ways to wipe thing from a while back, where it never even occured to me that there's a different way than just using your spoon. Crazy.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Moving (reluctantly) past it sounding like you wipe with a spoon - what are the two ways to wipe? I had no idea there were other ways...

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

Standing up or sitting down

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Kinda reminds me of the two ways to wipe thing from a while back, where it never even occured to me that there’s a different way than just using your spoon.

This sentence makes it sound like you wipe with your spoon.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Don't do this to me, I thought everyone wiped with their spoon. Please tell me you're joking

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

I use a knife. Butter knife specifically.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago

I drink the horchata in the bowl that's left over after cinnamon toast crunch.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 8 months ago

What's the alternative? Just pour it down the drain? Absolutely not.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Of course. I'm 43. I'm past giving a fuck what anyone else thinks.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

Huzzah for being in your 40s

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 months ago

Of course I drink it

It bothers the hell out of me that my roommate doesn't

He also barely puts any milk on his cereal

I grew up not having a lot of food so I guess you could say I grew up to be a bit of a bougie bitch with my food now

[–] [email protected] 13 points 8 months ago

Worse to waste food (milk in this case) than to be seen drinking it from a bowl.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 8 months ago

I actually hate the milk left in the cereal bowl, it's so interesting to hear people enjoy it, but I do it because my parents would scream at me if I ever left a crumb of food (we were quite poor to be fair).

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

I only drink the milk from the cereal bowl. I don't bother with the eating part. Thing is, I only do this in the street before I start the getting dressed phase of my commute to work, right after my morning curb squat. I've never heard of this eating cereal "in private". But after reading all the rest of these replies, I'm starting to wonder if I'm the weird one.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 8 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago) (1 children)

I gotta ask, what situation are you in that you're eating cereal in public? It's just not that kind of food generally

[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 months ago (1 children)

Driving I'm guessing. Just pours the milk into the bag inside the box and sticks a spoon in.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 8 months ago

Spoon? I'm sure they would just wear the bag like a helmet for hands free eating and driving

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