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[–] [email protected] -4 points 2 months ago

Whoever wrote the caption doesn't understand shit about masculinity or frailty

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Aw wish I thought of this when I was married to that violent a******. We could've had so much framed art all over the house. Picture frames wouldve cost a lot less than hiring a repairman every time angry husband punched a hole in the drywall.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago

That would be great if he came back to sign it. 😊

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

I find the asymmetry of the mortar joints to be visually bothersom.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

how do you punch a wall into a toilet

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago

I have a suspicion that it wasn't a punch, but a big ol' fart.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I've seen this reposted at least 3 times now, and it bothers me each time because we have no idea the story behind it. We only know what's written down, we don't even know if the person who wrote the caption witnessed the event. Was it fragile masculinity? Perhaps?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 months ago (2 children)

I'm pretty sure punching a wall because your fantasy football league is losing is an unhealthy way of processing anger.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago

Guys point is, we don't know the why. We only know the what. Sure, I think everyone can agree it's not the healthiest coping, but I don't know too many people who choose the healthy option in a state of extreme emotion. Is there ANY scenario you could imagine this being understandable, even if not good or healthy? Lots of people listing scenarios where I could TOTALLY see getting a rather reasonable person into such a mental state.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 2 months ago (1 children)

This week I found out I am losing medicade, food stamps and unemployment because one of my previous jobs won't provide the right paper work. That feels pretty wall punch worthy

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I feel you bud. Sometimes life just blindsides you and you need an outlet. I hope things improve for you soon.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Probably not. I got my own mental issues to. I almost begged for the job on my last interview. Did not go well.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Sounds like you're in a very rough spot at the moment. Keep going. I won't promise you everything will be solved, but things will change, inevitably, and change could be better. Good luck.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

Username checks out

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 months ago (1 children)

For all we know, guy had just received some horrible/devastating news.

The assumptions leading to both the 'framing' act and the gleeful posting of it on social media are just a manifestation of thinly-veiled misandry.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Is it normal to you to see people punch walls when they get devastating news?

I'd rather think maybe someone tripped and fell into it if we're looking for charitable ideas.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Yes. I once saw an episode of Maury where a man found out he wasn't the genetic father of his 1 year old daughter, and he started crying and then punching the floor. Is that toxic masculinity or is that a person being sad?

[–] [email protected] -2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Ah yes, male emotions are "fragile masculinity"

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

When your emotions are reduced to 'rage' and your reactions reduced to 'commit violence against inanimate objects in a public setting', yes.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You have no idea what prompted the emotions, you just happily assume whatever will give you the excuse to express your misandry.

I'd bet anything that if you read one of the many accounts of women getting genuinely angry at their SOs, even striking them (which is way worse than striking an inanimate object, by the way), based on what they dreamt the guy did, you wouldn't be blaming her "fragile femininity".

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago (1 children)

You have no idea what prompted the emotions, you just happily assume whatever will give you the excuse to express your misandry.

I’d bet anything that if you read one of the many accounts of women getting genuinely angry at their SOs, even striking them (which is way worse than striking an inanimate object, by the way), based on what they dreamt the guy did, you wouldn’t be blaming her “fragile femininity”.

Really just immediately do what you accused me of doing, huh.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 2 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

It suggests that the objection is not made in good faith or on principle, even if one accepted the original accusation as true. "Our True Faith vs. Their Heathen Superstition" energy, lmao.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

(3/3) -Alas, I uploaded them in the wrong order!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I think some of your formatting / image embed may have gotten lost in translation between Kbin and Lemmy. Looking at your comments on your home instance, there are images. Here, they're just the (1/3) counter text. I'm guessing that would explain the downvotes.

For reference, the Lemmy format for embed images is ![Alt text](image url)

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Thank you @[email protected] ! I try again : chronologically first then the,

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 months ago
[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 months ago

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