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[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (3 children)

Apple Vision Pro headset. It’s way too expensive but the quality is so damn amazing. I’m a VR developer so I appreciate its power.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

Gaming PC, PS5, VR headset...

Shit now I feel bad cuz I'm imagining some starving kid covered in flies just watching my fat ass play games in awe and anger.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (2 children)

Lawn. I have a lawn. Just grass. Takes water and space. Makes a little O2 and that's it.

FWIW, I'm trying to get rid of it. Plans to build a solar array in the back yard, cover the patio with a greenhouse that connects the house to the garage, side yard is going to be raised planters, and the front is going to be mostly wildflowers with some small pathways and nooks for reading and relaxing. I'd like to get it to the point where I can "mow" the whole property with just a string trimmer.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago

A back yard lawn (and a deck in our case) is a luxury for sure. I really like having a big fenced-in area where the dogs can run around and get some good exercise even on days when we can't walk them. We traded a more urban life for things like that, although we're still relatively close to town. We also have a dog door, which, again, an absurd luxury but I really never want to live anywhere without a backyard and a dog door again if I can help it.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago (3 children)

My absurd luxury is probably my PC. I had a pretty decent one but saved for 1yr and built a $2,600 one. It was unnecessary in almost every sense of the word.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

I have a smartwatch, which I got for my birthday. I have no real need for such a thing, but I really do enjoy it. I spend most of my time at home, and it's nice to not have to do stuff like go find my phone and take it outside with me if I want to sit on the deck in case I get an important text or call or miss an alarm.

Also, because other people are mentioning audio and music- my dad was born in 1931 and died in 2016. He absolutely loved classical music and was a real expert on it, especially the Russian composers. He pointed out that in his lifetime, if he wanted to listen to recorded classical music, he had to go from multiple 78 records, about 3 minutes per side, which you had to just keep flipping over and switching to the next one if you wanted to listen to something long (this is where the word 'album' came from, it was originally a literal album full of 78s) to a smartphone or mp3 player that could hold virtually every CD in his massive collection.

That was definitely a luxury, but a luxury that gave him a whole lot of comfort in his old age.

Edit: I just hung up on a telemarketer from my wrist. God, that was satisfying.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I just hung up on a telemarketer from my wrist. God, that was satisfying.

Like slamming down the receiver of an old land line, I imagine you did this by slamming your fist through drywall.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

Sadly, I am a little weakling.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Fiber. In addition to my cheerios every morning, the kind that gets me reliable gigabit symmetric internet service with lag consistently only a couple ms. You could argue I overpay since I don’t use anywhere near that bandwidth, but it just works. Internet use is so much nicer than neighboring towns with shitty Comcast monopolies

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

I got it how couple months ago and am in love. The perfectly consistent low ping and fast as fuck bandwidth is just so nice.

Though, at first I thought you were talking about dietary fiber and was going to agree there as well cause I'm in the US and the average diet does not include any fiber but my diet has plenty.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (1 children)

No human had a hot shower before a hundred years ago and now I have at least one a day

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 months ago (2 children)

About once every 3-4 months I take a 4hr hot bath with, phone in a waterproof sandwich-bag, bluetooth speakers, tunes, Epsom salts, and reading material.

It's excellent self-care. (No, the water doesn't go cold, I let out half the water and top it up with more hot, when needed).

Highly recommended.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Am an American in my mid 30s. Recently bought my first and almost certainly only house. There is so much stuff about homeownership that feels like a luxury vs renting.

I'm a somewhat tall guy and my house's only bathtub is too small to do this. God knows when if ever I'll have the money to renovate that.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Isn't this how we all watch movies nowadays?

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 months ago (1 children)

From a person with no bathtub, I wish.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

I guess I should add daily (sometimes double) baths. Love my bathtub

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Depending on where you live my almost daily trip to the bakery for fresh baguette or croissant could be a luxury I guess?

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I work 24 hour shifts but also get paid to sleep. This results in 6-7shifts a month to cover a full time job. It allows for a lot of free time and also easilly able to add extra shifts if needed during tough times

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago

I would so do this

[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 months ago

A bidet seemed like a luxury until i started using the one that was installed in the house that we rent.

Now it seems more like a requirement

[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 months ago
[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (3 children)

does anyone here know what absurd or luxury means

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

An absurd luxury is something either super indulgent (possibly to the level of impractical) or something seemingly commonplace that you otherwise personally value immensly in your life and have taken note of.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 months ago (1 children)

i meant the comments didn't seem to be appropriate for either of those terms. But I appreciate your genuine answer and inclination to help.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 months ago

The problem with the relevancy you indicate, is everybody has a different standard. Quite frankly most people on Lemmy have very privileged lives compared to the mean life on the planet.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I eat a grass fed steak every day

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Hows your cholesterol, weight etc?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago

No idea, don’t own a scale. The aspects of my health I can detect are better when I do this.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 months ago

Clean water, a place to live, a doctor, able to vote in a free election, driving a car,

[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 months ago

Reduced work hours and work from home with good salary.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 4 months ago (2 children)

I live in a tropical humid place that regularly gets 40+Celsius temps even during "winter" (it is currently "winter")

But I can afford air conditioning. A lot of people in my country cannot, and have just an electric fan and a lot of water to get them through the days.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 months ago (1 children)

Even in humid areas, evaporative coolers can work and significantly cool things off. I imagine a combination of those (which tend to be much less expensive than AC and don't require any installation), a decent fan, a home painted white and a decent amount of shade trees would work quite well.

Of course, a lot of those things are luxuries as well.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 months ago (1 children)

I can afford air conditioning

"No pleasure, no rapture, no exquisite sin greater; than central air." -- Azrael, "Dogma" by Kevin Smith.

We live in a more temperate place, but with the summers going increasingly more smoky and hotter - dry 49.6c temps caused our town of Lytton to burn to the ground - we took advantage of new, aggressive building code that stipulates one room must not get above 26c, and the cooling it mandates, to move to a new qualifying building.

The A/C units - even these lesser VRFs - are fantastic. Truly it changes the mood when I can work morning and night (WFHx2) without me or the nerd gear being too warm. It's worth this $4/sqft/mo price tag when the rent rebased.

I'm SO with you on this one.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 months ago

Not even central A/C here. Just Split units on the bedrooms/home office -- But it already makes life so much more bearable

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