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  1. never signed up for anything like this,
  2. never donated to or signed up for emails from the DNC, et al.,
  3. political texts like this come all the time, and
  4. I hesitate to reply “stop” because I don’t want them to know this is a live number (is my instinct here outdated/inapplicable?)
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[–] [email protected] 52 points 10 months ago (10 children)

Got 9 in one day. If they include a name it’s never mine

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

My wife gets a ton of political texts intended for me. Best I can tell is because her cell phone number is under my name with T-Mobile. (Used to be a Sprint account before the merger) I've never used her number to sign up for anything under my name. So it would seem either Sprint sold it or an employee leaked it or something.

I have a Google voice number and pretty much don't get political texts. The Google voice number rings a T-Mobile prepaid phone, that number doesn't get political texts either.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 10 months ago

A few different things contribute to this and, unfortunately, there’s very little you can do to fix it. I’ve spent (wasted) a ton of time trying to prevent it on my end.

  1. If you used your phone number on your voter registration, reregister immediately without your phone number. This is public information and it’s where these things start.
  2. Find contact info for your local, county, and state parties. All sides. Call them up and ask that your information be removed from their database(s). You might have to escalate a bit because usually phone bankers don’t know how to do it or don’t understand why you want privacy. Worst case scenario you can pull out a sob story about an abusive ex and how your information isn’t supposed to be public at all. That will usually get your shit pulled.
  3. While you’re on those calls, try to find out where they either send or pull their data from. Next go there and do step 2 again.
  4. Repeat step 3 as many times as it takes.

However, individual candidates who may have received a copy of your data or canvassed you might not get the notice. Eventually their copies of your data might get leaked. You have no control over this and no recourse. I know this from personal experience. Through a unique mixup with a name, I have slowly watched my data go from politician to politician to now general spam. It’s not coming from data brokers because the only place the mixup happened was with political data.

Best of all, the FTC doesn’t give a shit. If someone “manually” sends you a political text, it doesn’t require prior consent. The “manual” setup for this is a bunch of VoIP shit that doesn’t actually go back to a real human ever and is about as “manual” as the fully automated assembly lines from How It’s Made where a human is standing nearby with a clip board saying “yup that’s a widget.”

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

I keep getting emails from some republican Colorado group and I don’t even live in the US!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (4 children)

Good thing my browser doesn’t keep cookies, or that might’ve leaked my Google info. But here’s what the link goes to:

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago

I have definitely seen an uptick in these over the last two weeks. Multiple times a day, some calls, too. I was involved in some activism 10-15 years ago so I accept it (still baloney tho). It has started on my work phone as well...

[–] [email protected] 10 points 10 months ago (3 children)

White dudes for Harris? This name seems a parody

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Political organizations and non-profits are exempt from this list.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago

True, law needs to be updated.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

That looks like a desktop app. You can send SMS from your non mobile computer?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago

It seems to be the SMS integration that MacOS can have when you also own an iPhone.

You can do the same on Android on any other operating system

[–] [email protected] 7 points 10 months ago

I just got this same bullshit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

There really is a white dudes for Harris group that's doing an event this week. A friend (who's crazy smart and i would trust him above most) share info about it. I was initially skeptical because of the name but looked into it because it came from him. I thought they had an interesting writeup about changing the white dude image.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 10 months ago

Still not a good idea to cold text people about it.

[–] [email protected] 128 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

Hey there we’re the krazy kaucasians for Kamala…

Wait a second, let’s just go with White dudes for Harris

[–] [email protected] 21 points 10 months ago (1 children)

You ever see the show Modern Family? I want a new show starring the husband from that show, about a wholesome totally not racist white guy who goes about life COMPLETELY oblivious to how his actions are percieved by other people.

Almost like a not racist version of Mr Magoo.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

that could be any of the 4 husbands on that show, to varying degrees. you'll have to be more specific.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 10 months ago

The white one

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

Your number is on a list of real numbers with real identities associated with them that was sold to them. Data brokers sell this information daily. They already know your number is real, but in order to comply with the law, they have to provide you with a legitimate option to opt out, so you will actually stop receiving correspondence from them if you ask them to stop (it is legally required). If not, they could be subject to a fine, but you'd obviously have to file a complaint with the relevant regulatory body for that.

If you do not attempt to opt out, they cannot be fined for spam if this is part of a legitimate donation campaign. If you don't reply, they will continue sending messages to you in the future. It costs them almost nothing to do, so even if they didn't know your number was real, they would do it anyway. Most of the people who donate from these messages don't reply through text message anyway. And if this were an actual scam, then there is nothing they gain from receiving a text back so long as you do not open their link. But again, in order for legal action to be taken (since these political reach outs are legal and not spam so long as there is an option to opt out), you must first try to opt out.

EDIT: Feel free to block the number after opting out. If they are legitimate (though the name is really fishy), then opting out will remove your number from all of their solicitors' lists, so you won't get texts or calls from different numbers working for the same campaign. Again, replying doesn't give them anything even if it is a scam, as your number was obtained from a real list sold to them by a data broker; they already know the number is in service. Just don't click the link in the text, and don't reply with anything other than stop.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

In Australia laws like what you describe exist, but political parties are exempt. I doubt that we're the only country where that is the case.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (2 children)

While I would have to find the US law and examine it more closely to tell if that is true here, these groups are not actually representatives of political parties. They are groups of self-proclaimed political advocates that try to raise money to host events that raise awareness of their causes for local voters. But they would not qualify for an exemption due to association with a political party, as they are not officially connected to or endorsed by a party.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, no.

That's covered by political activity in the same laws. The list of exemptions here is pretty broad and goes well beyond actual officially registered political parties.

Here's the list for the Australian Privacy Laws: https://www.alrc.gov.au/publication/for-your-information-australian-privacy-law-and-practice-alrc-report-108/41-political-exemption/exemption-for-registered-political-parties-political-acts-and-practices/

And here's the restrictions around spam: https://www.acma.gov.au/political-calls-emails-and-text-messages

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

Interesting to note, though another user pointed out that this does not work the same way in the United States (political organizations still have to provide a means to opt out).

[–] [email protected] 3 points 10 months ago (1 children)

Political Communications to land lines are generally exempt from do not call. Cellular communications require prior consent, but the “consent” could be as flimsy as being registered with a certain party. You must be able to opt-out from the communication, and that’s why they have the “reply stop” verbiage. If they don’t honor your request, you should report it. Failing to actually make an effort to stop the communication (as is strangely being suggested) should be the only reason you would continue to receive them.

The direct affiliation with a party or campaign is not a requirement.

Here is the relevant information from the FCC https://www.fcc.gov/rules-political-campaign-calls-and-texts

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Yes, I believe all of that is in line with what I have stated. Just to clarify, my interpretation of the previous comment was that political parties were exempt from the requirement to provide an opt out in Australia for political parties (by my interpretation, just the official parties and not unrelated political organizations), and they implied they believed it to be the case in many other countries. I have not recently reviewed the relevant laws, so I was not 100% certain if that implication would prove true in the United States (though was pretty confident that was not the case by my previous experiences with messages from officially endorsed organizations), but I went on to explain how these are not officially endorsed by political parties anyway, so if such an exemption did exist, it should not apply to this particular message.

Thank you for the clarification!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago

Yeah, I was adding clarification, not disagreeing!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 10 months ago (6 children)

Pretty sure they won’t keep messaging me after I blocked their number and reported spam

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 months ago (2 children)

True, but if you get a new phone and your blocked numbers list is reset, or they send messages from a different number, then you could get them again in the future. I see this often because there are multiple people in that campaign that will all reach out to people with their own phone numbers. Opting out prevents that for legitimate donor campaigns (you are removed from the list for all of the solicitors associated with that campaign), but obviously not for scams. There is no harm in doing both, and I would recommend that (it's what I do).

[–] [email protected] 6 points 10 months ago (1 children)

It’s ALLLLLLWAYS new numbers and my long-curated block list already has hundreds of numbers.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

In that case, you're best off opting out and seeing if it works. If you get a text from the same group at a later date, then you can report them to the FTC. Please do not do this unless they do not honor your opt out request, as politically affiliated groups are legally allowed to market in this way so long as they provide a means to opt out of communication. Falsely reporting puts strain on the already incredibly underfunded system and prevents real scams from being caught and dealt with due to a lack of resources. I recommend you keep a list of groups you have opted out from that is easily searchable to track this. 4 years ago I got multiple of these texts per day. I have been opting out every time I receive one, and now I have not gotten one in over 2 years. Eventually you will run out of groups to opt out of, and will only be messaged by newly created groups, which will happen much more slowly than all of the groups constantly texting/calling.

Beyond that, there isn't really much you can do. Your number is on a list, and people are buying that list. Although you could see if putting your number on the national do not call list would help (EDIT: though apparently political organizations are exempt from that on further reading). I have not done this personally, but I came across it while looking up how to report scam texts. Perhaps it could be beneficial to you (who knows?)

[–] [email protected] -1 points 10 months ago (2 children)

Why would my blocked numbers list reset?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 months ago (1 children)

New phone, new carrier, new sim card, wiping your phone to refresh it. If you haven't specifically backed up your blocklist and imported it then it could reset.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 10 months ago (1 children)

I can see you have never owned an iPhone before.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Why am I supposed to assume you own an iPhone? I'm trying to list out all the potential cases in general for you and for other people. If you switch from Android to iOS or vice versa this would be the case. Seamless backup solutions aren't exclusive to Apple either.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago) (1 children)

Mine reset when I switched phones a couple months ago, and I had to manually add them to my new phone. If I hadn't noticed, then my blocked numbers list would be empty. Not saying that is a common issue, but it doesn't hurt to opt out before blocking; just don't click any links or say anything other than the opt out keyword.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 10 months ago

They have an iPhone, so they are going to be fine.

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[–] [email protected] 89 points 10 months ago (4 children)

For sure don't in any way respond, just report spam and block the number. Lots of these things are phishing attempts, trying to get you to give personal information (or even money), and aren't connected to the things they mention.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

~~Lots Most~~ Pretty well all of these things are phishing attempts.

Follow parent's advice.

Never, ever, ever respond, even reverse-uno.
Otherwise, you've helped them.

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