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What is it about the text messages and emails sent by older people that make me feel like I'm having a stroke?

Maybe they're used to various shortcuts in their writing that they picked up before autocorrect became common, but these habits are too idiosyncratic for autocorrect to handle properly. However, that doesn't explain the emails I've had to decipher that were typed on desktop keyboards. Has anyone else younger than 45 or so felt similarly frustrated with geriatrics' messages?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 14 points 7 months ago (2 children)

What? Who are you communicating with, and what shortcuts are you talking about? I text with my kids and they use more shortcuts and abbreviations than I do.

In work emails, I try to think of the recipient when writing them. Some people are chattier and prefer a nice introduction and thorough explanation, but my boss likes to just see messages like:

Posted on 13-May, thanks.

So if that's what you are talking about maybe you just have a more social communication style.

Though I will say my husband uses the ominous ellipses too often, like...

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[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Never been called geriatrics before. I can retire now! Nice

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (2 children)

@MissJinx @asklemmy I wasn't sure of the right word to use. Geriatric seemed correct enough. To be clear, I don't think there's anything especially wrong or bad about my elders. I just think there might be some kind of technological and cultural collision happening that makes me feel like I'm crazy sometimes.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago

"Couldn't reply to message on Lemmy, was written like it was typed on a keyboard. Literally can't right now. Too many words."

What an asshole.

[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Assuming you're under 45, this won't make sense, because you've never experienced a world

Nah. 45 is '78/'79. You can easily run up to '85 on the analogue migration

[โ€“] [email protected] 44 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (2 children)

Younger than 45

Oh OK that actually makes sense.

45 year olds and above are digital immigrants. In short, they had an off-line childhood and an online adulthood. They have different speech and writing patterns to you because they learnt and communicated in a different way to you.

Assuming you're under 45, this won't make sense, because you've never experienced a world which doesn't have this sort of interaction. You're a digital native, digital tech has always been there.

In twenty years time, children born or educated after the advent of chat gpt will have the same problem understanding you. The way you write, post and interact will seem clunky and old fashioned. It's already happening - we're having to adapt the way we interact, in order to be able to 'be understood' by AI.

The wonderful thing about humanity, tho, is that we do adapt and adopt! Consider this - everyone over the age of 50 had to learn something completely new to them in order to be able to communicate with you via email, sms or messaging app. They used to just talk, or write letters. Sharing media was a physical act. Yet here they are using the same texh as you. Awesome.

[โ€“] [email protected] 27 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Take into account that those 45 and older were the ones with disposable income when the internet took off

We fuckin invented the digital world, and memes too!

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Not sure who the "we" is in your post but Imo the biggest influence on meme culture was 4chan and similar dumpster fire communities of the early/adolescent Internet.

[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Yes and were in our 40s now. Those teenagers grew up, at least chronologically.

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[โ€“] [email protected] -4 points 7 months ago

Your timeline is straight up fucked. In short, you don't know what you're talking about.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 7 months ago (2 children)

45+ is "older people" to you?

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 7 months ago (1 children)

In the US, the average life expectancy is 79.7 years old. Half of that is 39.87, and looking at demographics the median age is even lower.

So yes, 45 year olds are easily older than most people in the US at least. I think that's a fair statement.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 7 months ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 7 months ago (3 children)

And spelling.

And knowing that 'e-mail' never gets pluralized with an S, and a host of other simple things that were lost when they seemingly stopped having Grade 3.

We can drive a stick, make a campfire, tie a bowline or a splint and make an igloo and a lean-to. We fought with sticks, we wore no helmets and if we didn't learn at school they held us back. Fear us.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 7 months ago (1 children)

So you would say that you received 3 e-mail today?

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 7 months ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Did you also walk to school uphill both ways, barefoot on snow and broken glass?

[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 7 months ago

no, they were our parents, and they never let us youngins (now around 50) forget it

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