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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

I pick crit role every time, those goddamn Wizards lost the plot. They got Rincewind at the damn helm.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I love Christ Perkin and Jeremy Crawford. Who is even running D&D now? They are literally the only people I knew still on the project. They are both great. Were they forced out of WoTC?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

ChatGPT give some pretty generic DnD advice. I can't wait until they make a terrible automated DM. I can't wait to play the most generic DnD of all time.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Every single game is just the plot of Monty Python and The Holy Grail.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

That would be fun. Every game would just be a series of different fetch quests with a rotated list of the same enemies. Like a MMRPG but worse and more expensive

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

"the corporation" is running it now. It's not about people any more, it's all procedural and goal oriented operations now.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Gross. I was really excited for 5.5 for a while but don't really want to get it anymore. I liked the PHB class upgrades when I read it but don't own anything from it yet

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

5.5, in my opinion, is a very corporate edition of the game. There wasn't any actual change or reason for a new edition other than Hasbro wanted D&DBeyond and the money it got, and the way to do that was make a "new edition". But people liked and were playing 5e so, make a backwards compatible system that's totally the same thing.

The 2024 version of D&D, in my eyes, doesn't fix any of the actual issues with the game. They change some wording and change some abilities but none of the core issues are dealt with. So to me, it's a pointless cash grab.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

I like the changes with weapons properties and I like some of the updates with various classes for some improvements to the weaker subclasses and feats. I overall enjoyed the majority of the changes.

However, from what I have heard and seen I did not enjoy the changes to the Monster Manual and statblocks.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Shoutout to Chris Perkins! I got to help playtest parts of 5E back in the day and he was the DM. Getting paid to play D&D is nice work if you can get it!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

Ok now do Magic

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago

They got the good ones

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

You know, I'm not surprised about that, and not in a good way. CR is part of RPG culture I'm not good with, and I'm totally unsurprised that people who were part of 5e are joining them.

All I can hope is that seeing Hasbro lose people will draw attention to other systems - or for Hasbro to make a marketing push on the Essence20 system in addition to (or instead of) d20.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Could you elaborate on the aspects of the RPG culture you have a problem with? I'm just curious.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

The commodification and the desire for mass appeal are the top-level issues I have. I feel uncomfortable when I see the modern D&D branding on stuff in "normal" stores. It takes away the community and puts Hasbro in the central role, rather than the network of GMs who should be the majority influence. If I wanted a hobby with a company in charge, I would play Warhammer.

Now, on the community side, my biggest issue is with things I see as derived from CR. The lack of respect for simple theatre of the mind is a direct issue with the way I've always run and played since I left D&D. The tolerance and even acceptance of paid DMing also pisses me off in ways that make it very hard for me to remain civil.

Those are the big ones. There's also the fact that D&D doesn't seem to have the offramps it had since AD&D1 (and which admittedly went downhill when the Forge went out of the spotlight).

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The lack of respect for simple theatre of the mind is a direct issue with the way I've always run and played since I left D&D.

What do you mean by this?

The tolerance and even acceptance of paid DMing also pisses me off in ways that make it very hard for me to remain civil.

Why? Running a game is work, and not every group that wants to play has a good GM. How is it any different than commissioning art of your character or buying an adventure module? Don't get me wrong, I prefer unpaid friends, but I'm blessed with multiple potential GMs in my group. Not everyone is so lucky, do they just not get to play? Or are they forced to nominate a GM who won't enjoy it and won't run an enjoyable game?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What do you mean by this?

I mean that every time I've tried to run a game, either on tabletop (exceedingly rare now) or online, the demands from players are ridiculous compared to my expectations and what I set out as my intentions. I am not a voice actor. I'm decent at improv, but sometimes do need a moment to contemplate. I do not use images, music, battlemaps, miniatures, or any other equipment. Just dice, words, and imagination. This has gone from being the standard mode of play in the communities I'm accustomed to into a very niche thing that no one seems interested in anymore.

[Defense of Paid DMs]

At best, we'll have to agree to disagree. I'm going to address the points I think I can without overcoming apoplexy first.

There are hundreds if not thousands of GM guides available. If you cannot or will not put in that level of investment, then run something GM-less, or work together to GM the game. Gary called DMs 'referees', and I think that model still holds up - no ref in a game is responsible for the whole field at every moment. Real referees switch up and have things like VAR or other systems. If one guy in the group is good at designing traps, let him design the traps and run them. If one person is good at storytelling, let them present the story. The person who knows combat best should adjudicate it. This is a game of cooperative fun. So, cooperate. Either that, or try something like Fiasco, Shadowrun Anarchy, Microscope, Space Bounty Blues, or something like that, and then move into refereeing a rules-light system like The Black Hack or a PbtA. Don't be hemmed in by modern D&D (note that this ties into the 'D&D has fewer offramps' point above).

As far as the paid DM part, it's very simple: This is a creative hobby. This is the time we have free together as friends, and RPGs have been some of the very few things in my life that has been an escape from the soul-crushing burden of working and money changing hands for every damn thing. Paid DMs turn it into a business, not a fun experience, and I consider their existence toxic to the community. Because after all, if some other schlub is making money doing a thing, why shouldn't I charge money to do that thing? Why should I be the one doing free labor? And that's the problem. It turns what should be creative, cooperative, storytelling with guard rails into a discussion of labor and capital and investment and all the crap that I want to avoid in the world via the escapism of RPGs. That paid person isn't my friend anymore, he's a paid service provider. But what KPIs is he measured by? 'Fun' isn't quantifiable (much to Friend Computer's chagrin), so, what? XP per session? Loot? Some other valueless measure which inevitably means nothing?

In short - no. I will reiterate, I believe that paid DMing is toxic to the community as a whole. It turns what should be an exercise in building and developing friendships into building and developing a business. It takes the party away from being a group of friends or fellow-travelers into a group of customers receiving shared service from a provider. It's no different from the people you meet at the big table of a hibachi restaurant.

That's before we get into how incredibly elitist it is by definition. Paid DMing takes away from the grassroots elements of the game. It puts a paywall between the player and the game. Any of the paid DMs I've seen have their players basically sign non-compete agreements, so they can't just turn into a normal group without that DM - which means those players don't join the larger community. So in every way I can oppose it, in every way I can hate it, I do.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I mean, this just seems really gatekeepy. You're obviously allowed to play however you like, but I don't see how the way others play affects you.

the demands from players are ridiculous compared to my expectations and what I set out as my intentions

That sounds like a communication issue. I've played fully tactical with battle mats and set pieces, and I've played fully theater of the mind, and I've never had an issue with player expectations as long as I communicate my intentions pre-session zero.

As far as the paid DM part, it's very simple: This is a creative hobby.

So is art, so is adventure design. I still don't see how it's different from commissioning art of your character or buying a module.

Why stop at DM? Every group should invent their own system, carve their own dice, design their own adventures. It's not very grassroots to use a system designed by an elitist corporation.

I'm into 3d printing. When the hobby started, there were not commercial printers, you had to build one from scratch. Are we supposed to hate manufactured printers to preserve the creative integrity of the hobby?

I just don't see the rationale of your preferences for how you like to play metastasizing into hatred. You're allowed to play how you want, so is everyone else.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm in a mood right now, so I'm just going to cherry-pick. I'll come back and give you a better response when I'm in a better mindset.

It's not very grassroots to use a system designed by an elitist corporation.

You're absolutely right. D&D past AD&D1 should never have been the center of our hobby.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

You're absolutely right. D&D past AD&D1 should never have been the center of our hobby.

Oh I switched to GURPS years ago. I don't think D&D is a particularly good system for anyone with any real TTRPG experience, but 5e is actually pretty accessible as an introduction to the hobby. Plenty of canon content to work from, or just buy modules from, and it's fairly simple to play. Plus D&D is the OG, so it's the default TTRPG in media.

And I'm fine with media. I like media, temporarily. It introduces the hobby to people who might otherwise remain at a perpetual distance, and while a lot of them aren't really right for TTRPGs, some of them are, and I'm happy they were introduced to it.

The reason I don't mind paid DMs is because the people that want them are new to the hobby, probably a whole group worth. The alternative is that they elect one of their own; personally I'm down with sharing the GM's chair, but I don't think it's practical for most newbies without an experienced GM present.

Now someone totally new has to figure out how to run a game, and odds are they're going to suck a bunch, and that's going to lead to a game that sucks a bunch, and everyone's going to think D&D actually sucks, and all TTRPGs as well by extension. Players who might, under an experienced GM, see what it can be, will see it instead as a trainwreck.

The market for paid GMs is newbies, and I don't mind it. This isn't the 80s, there's other stuff to do if their first campaign sucks. I don't mind paid GMs as the starter to get a group moving. Once they get a little wind in their sails one of them will step up and adopt the mantle.

Especially since I assume a decent GM is probably in the neighborhood of $100/session, so about $25/person for a party of four. I think that the instant one of them feels confident to give it a go, they will have that conversation.

Sure, there might be a bit of an expectation adjustment, as you said, but that actually seems easier to accommodate. It would be obviously unreasonable for the party to expect, for free, the same experience they were previously paying $25/person/session for.

And even if they don't, and they keep the paid GM, it's not like WOTC has a DM Uber app. Those aren't corporate stooges, they're experienced enthusiasts like yourself getting a little kickback for the years of development they've dedicated to their craft. I'd reckon a fair segment of the people who would take the job are veteran GMs with no parties to play with. They benefit doubly.

I just think new players in the modern age benefit more from a good first impression of the hobby, and the cost provides a natural incentive for the unpaid alternative to evolve.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

TLDR I liked dnd before it was cool

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 weeks ago

Paid DMing infuriates me.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

What do you mean by RPG culture that you're not good with?

[–] [email protected] -2 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm sorry, I only feel like typing it once, please look up-thread, or here:

https://kbin.melroy.org/m/[email protected]/t/995294/-/comment/7944352

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

This link goes to some login page for me when I click it

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