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Edit: What do you judge them for?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

Negatively: Almost any clothing with more than a couple words of text.

Clothing with a prominent brand.

Clothing with right-wing political connotations.

Dyed blonde hair or hair dyed brown/black that should, obviously, be gray.

Tramp stamps. Japanese writing tattoos on non-Japanese. Face tattoos. Neck tattoos. Tattoos of pop culture themes.

Expensive cars. Dodge pickup-trucks. Harley Davidson motorcycles. Dodge Chargers. Teslas.

Police officers.

Positively: Normal clothing. Well-dressed but obviously not expensive clothing. ‘Funky’ style clothing. Clothing that would just look stupid on me.

Wildly dyed hair. Subtlety dyed hair that isn’t covering something up.

Tattoos that are, at least, fairly unique.

Glasses. (I don’t know, I’m prejudiced for people with glasses.)

Old women.

I could probably come up with a lot more. We’re all prejudiced in some way. It’s the things that we’re prejudiced about and how attached we are to those prejudices that define us.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Pop Figures

I judge them for shitty spending choices.

Why buy a piece of plastic that sits in the box, and that box sits on a shelf. Theres literally no point to them. You can walk into the mall, look at all the pop figures in each store, and you just had the same experience as you would have if they sat in your house.

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[–] [email protected] 43 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

I'm Brazilian and live in a hot coastal city, so I usually pay attention to people wearing hoodies at weird times of the day. Bonus points if they're wearing a hoodie and shorts (it usually mean that guy is concealing something in it, if the guy was actually cold they wouldn't be wearing shorts).

I also tend to be kinda annoyed at people with christian stickers on their cars.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

Oh man, you'd hate the Midwest. Aside from the obvious reasons, there's a baffling culture of white dudes who only wear shorts and hoodies no matter the temp outside.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago

If someone carries a gun and they have a normal low-threat job and live in a normal low-threat suburb: wow, that person lives in a fantasy world, and is just looking for an excuse to hurt someone. What an absolute loser.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 week ago

If someone has a good quality bicycle that they actually use: you got your shit together!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

Someone normal looking wearing clothing that references a nerdy hobby/interest: this person is self-confident enough to not be afraid to admit to having a nerdy side.

If someone seems extremely socially awkward and is wearing that kind of clothing it's different. But if it's someone who looks like a soccer mom but she's wearing a Critical Role tee shirt, she's cool. Or if it's a guy who looks like a construction worker with an Anime character: nice one, dude.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago (11 children)

Harley Davidson clothing: they're very insecure.

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[–] [email protected] 69 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Cigarette smokers. Mostly because I hate the smell and smokers have their sense of smell damaged so much they don't notice. And sometimes when it sticks to their clothing I just can't be around them at all.

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[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 week ago (3 children)

One of those giant stickers meant to make it look like there’s a tied up woman in the back of their pickup.

At best, it’s advertising that they think abusing women is funny.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

A cross necklace

One who wants others to think they believe


A vest over a button up

One who aspires and has not yet achieved


An oversized suit and padded heel shoes

One who is orange

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

There's a LOT of things. Those are mostly shallow and me being a bad person though. I really judge people when they have super Christian clothing with tiny pieces of random supposedly important Bible verses. Those "don't tread on me" stickers. Really tacky shit in general. I wear a really obnoxious Goku/Vegeta hoodie sometimes, to make sure that the shallowest people will avoid me. I'm a hypocrite lol

[–] [email protected] 40 points 1 week ago (5 children)

A portable speaker. What public space are you going to pollute with your noise?

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[–] [email protected] 57 points 1 week ago (14 children)

MAGA gear. A Tesla, esp a Cyberdump. A Calvin Pissing sticker. A Jesus shirt; crosses display faith but a shirt or hat says "this is my whole entire identity". Any Suburban, F150, Super Duty, or similarly oversized American SUV or pickup. I know you never haul anything and your groceries are all in the cab.

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[–] [email protected] 102 points 1 week ago (3 children)

If I see a bumper sticker that mentions jesus, I definitely assume that car is driven by the least christ-like person imaginable, and give them space.

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[–] [email protected] 124 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (6 children)

Cybertruck drivers.

ETA: Regular Tesla drivers I give the benefit of the doubt to, because they might have bought their car before they realized Musk is a Nazi dickhead man-child. But cybertruck drivers basically knew and didn't care (or still fanboi'd over him).

[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I saw a cybertruck the other day with a "Bought it before we knew Elon was crazy" bumper sticker on it. I wanna give them the benefit of the doubt, since I myself was pro-Elon once upon a time, but c'mon. I know not everyone stays plugged into the news cycle, but you didn't know until after you bought the cybertruck?

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (5 children)

A certain little moustache was generally popular and harmless before Hitler came along, but after the war it forever became the Hitler moustache and shaving one's face in that style nowadays invites the comparison whether or not one means it that way.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 week ago

I think it was actually fairly common after WWI, since it's about the only facial hair you can really have with a gas mask.

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[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 205 points 1 week ago (4 children)

MAGA shit, thin blue line, black US flag, etc...

In case a civil war actually happens, it's good to know the enemy.

[–] [email protected] 98 points 1 week ago (3 children)

All of that plus any "Punisher" logo on clothing or vehicles.

[–] [email protected] 54 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Especially that punisher skull motif with the Trump hair. That takes the cringe to a new level.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 week ago

So far, I’ve only seen one of those. They’re so stupid looking that if it had been by itself, I wouldn’t have been able to tell if it was meant as a joke. They also had one of those “thin blue line” American flag stickers, though, so that cleared it right up.

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[–] [email protected] 27 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm about to get a LGBT punisher logo for my car. 🤣

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[–] [email protected] 119 points 1 week ago (7 children)

For me, it’s a “thin blue line” sticker. I immediately think the person is racist.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

I can let that one slide if it's on their car. They could be just trying to get out of tickets.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

I see that sticker and I think is this an actual human capable of empathy?

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 week ago

Or a Punisher sticker.

[–] [email protected] 61 points 1 week ago

On two occasions I made a louder-than-necessary comment to my kids to stay away from those people (MAGA hats too) while they were within earshot and then listed reasons why. Got some dirty looks, but no one ever approached me. Because they're a bunch of feckless cowards.

[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 week ago

Same if they wear a MAGA hat, have a MAGA bumper sticker, or fly a Trump flag.

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