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Right wing extremists targeting men = panik
There are more women in the world = kalm
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A meme in text format:
Right wing extremists targeting men = panik
There are more women in the world = kalm
Feelings man weak, oil cowboy strong!
The majority of asshole pickup truck owners are men, and Poilievre ran political ads that looked like they were selling an F150. This isn't a mystery, the conservatives appeal to men who think they are being oppressed by "The Woke," and that is not a message that is going to ring true with a lot of women.
Hey I have a pickup and didn't vote conservative.
If you have a truck, you know your crowd better than anyone. Dudes on trucks are the core conservative demographic.
As a man, I believe we're more easily attracted to flash and bravado even if we already know it's from an absolute cheese ball.
I'll hazard a guess. It's because male culture and masculine values are fucked. Older men are lonely because they either cannot find friends, or already reached the conclusion it was time to both stop looking and lose the ones they had, for various reasons. Younger men left in a cultural vacuum are reinventing masculinity as a toxic caricature guided by the only affirming male role models they can find outside the home: social media influencers.
Meanwhile, the predominant message from the left, as observed in generalities and absent nuance, is all the ways having a Y chromosome makes you evil. With an apparent choice between self-flagellation and asserting a sense of inherent superiority as both an emotional shield and path to an in-group with shared values, I really can't say I'd choose any better in my younger, immature form.
So here we are, in 2025 where the battle of the sexes is now a political movement and even one that's quite happy to pick your side for you if you dare present ambiguously. We're just a little fashion subtlety away from wearing arm bands, either to declare for the feminists or the anti-woke, or just to dodge social conscription.
the predominant message from the left
Meh people keep saying this, but this comes mostly from the right that likes to amplify the most fringe leftist stuff for rage bait. The predominant message from the left is that men need help. Leftist outlets, influencers, thinkers and communicators routinely try to bridge that gap, but the "fuck your feelings" crowd is only interested in hate-watching the tiktoks of a random punk saying that men are shit.
It's not just the right. It's anyone willing to associate systemic and natural (power imbalance) issues with some particular outgroup. Show me someone who doesn't do that and I'll show you someone who's a minority in every demographic they occupy.
Case in point: last I checked, it wasn't the "fuck your feelings" crowd that invented slogans like "eat the rich."
You can always tell when someone's in a propaganda bubble by "the predominant message is" .
Women are more liberal usually.
Because women are smarter than us men on matters of importance.
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You mean the guy who said women need housing so they can have babies before their biological clocks run out didn't get many women votes??
Shocking, I know.
It's actually sad that any women voted for him at all π€·
The alt-right propaganda being firehosed onto social media is particularly targeted at and effective against young men. All our information spaces are under direct and sustained attack by enemies foreign and domestic, and most of them have the goal of influencing or simply destabilizing our democracy. I don't think this is really in question at this point, I think the only open debates are about exactly how much of these attacks can be attributed to what sources, but my belief is that any sort of adversary who's been accused by anyone is probably legitimately involved at some level.
We also don't seem to have any idea what we can do about it or we're going to do about it other than accept that it's happening and apparently continue to let it happen.
I think the critical question here is why are these men vulnerable to it? Then take this knowledge and use that to fight back against bad actors.
My 2 cents on the topic is that many young men feel unimportant and lost and are therefore looking for someone to guide them. Unless society takes it seriously they will continue to follow those that seem to listen and acknowledge their issues even if they are using it to manipulate.
It's not like we're not trying, but building stuff is harder and costlier than destroying stuff. In this case, the "stuff" is kinship. For this vulnerable audience, it's easy to break into self-centredness and in-group thinking.
Men are lonely have no friends and want to belong to something is my guess. It's why we have all this stupid stuff.
It kinda feels sexist to casually put the "why" in the headline like the answer is even remotely a mystery.
The answer is people are scared of violence and violent threats and will tend to prefer people who don't behave that way.