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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

My fiance has the same name AND same birthdate as her mom. Has really fucked her up, we had like 10 extra calls essentially calling her the wrong person and asking about her property when we were buying our home.

We get her fucking mail all the time. Like literally same name and dob make life pretty fucking annoying, just pure stupid.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My mother has the same first name as her mother. I don't at all understand why, she has always just been called by her second name.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

Would you call them junior?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago (1 children)

My partner has the same name as her mother.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago

Well, I've never met her.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

Do middle names count?

Becauae I think all Swedish women have the middle name Anna.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago

obviously no one in your family is named Elizabeth

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 days ago

I agree with all the sentiments in this thread about giving a kid their own identity and would never name my kid with my name even tho it could go to either sex depending on spelling. However the exception I would have to this sentiment is when someone names their kid after a deceased loved one. Usually would be the soon to be born kid's grandparent or great grandparents. So like if someone is best friends with their dad and their dad passes before their grandchild is born the person will name their kid after their late father. I dont think I know any specific person who did this with the first name, but I have seen it a ton with a person's middle name. I think its sweet and is a nice story to tell a child.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 days ago

You've obviously haven't met every woman.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 days ago (1 children)

This got me thinking about how there is no female equivalent of junior or senior

[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I always assumed it would just be the same, but now that you mention it I've never met a female junior

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

That's what I was thinking

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago

Good shower thought!

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 days ago (1 children)

My mother, grandmother and great grandmother all have same name, but used different short forms to differentiate.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Same, but also add my aunt and great aunt.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

Margaret, Marge, Greta, Peggy, etc. ad infinitum.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I know someone who has the same name as her mother, and her grandmother. They all lived in the same household. Imagine, you call her name and all three of them listen.

I never understood this practice in general, regardless of gender. There are so many possibilities, sure it takes some creativity, but it's not that hard, come on.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Never have I ever met a family with a shared name.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

My family shares 5 names among everybody. 2 for the women, 3 for the men.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 4 days ago

I believe every woman is named after their mother. Usually by about 20 years or so.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

Me wife is a woman with her mother's first name as her middle name.

And of course my father in law is a fourth generation jr

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Do middle names count? My grandmother's first name became my mother's middle name. Then my sister and her daughter also got that middle name.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

My sister was given my Grandmother's middle name as her first.

But I don't think those count. Many men are "Jr." OP's right, very few women are "Mom Jr." What would the suffix be? Junior? Is junior non-gendered? I think of it as a masculine suffix.

Good shower thought.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

My mother was named after her mother, although she used her middle name. My sister was named after her. We're white midwesterners in the US.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

My mother's name is María, so are three of my sisters. Their middle names are different though.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 4 days ago (1 children)

My wife's g-grandmother was Mary. Her daughters were Mary Margaret, Mary Agnes, Mary Elizabeth, and Mary Alice. Newfies.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Newfies are Irish in the same way that Quebecois are French

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago

welcome to the rock

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

I know one, but it’s a little complicated. The woman is named Ann, and this is because when she was adopted at birth, the adoptive parents named her after the biological mother, also Ann. So yes and no.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 days ago (1 children)

The weirdest combination I've ever met was a set of female twins. One was named after their mother. The other had a different first name. Must have been really odd when growing up.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago

Should have given them both the same first name, and dressed them the same as kids. Taught them to speak together in the same voice. Then used them to committ tax fraud.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 days ago

Yes you have. They're just better about it.

I've met so many mother daughters, including my own mother and grandmother, who just alter their own name a little bit instead of going for a "Junior" type deal.

For instance, my Nana's name is Elizabeth but goes by beth. My mom is Eliza Beth-Ann but goes by Eliza or Liz.

(Also yes I'm from the south)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

My mother was named after her mother. It's the only instance I can think of though.

[–] [email protected] 71 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Tell me you don't live in a Hispanic Country without telling me you don't live in a Hispanic Country.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 days ago (2 children)

It's not a thing in Brasil.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Damn, I really messed up. Thanks for the heads up.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)

You're good. My wife is Mexican and she has the same first name as her mother.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Brasil is in Brasil America. We are talking about where all the latins live

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Brazil is in Latin America. All the other countries are Hispanic America

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Poor Suriname, always forgotten...

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

And my guess is we completely eliminate Guyana, because it considers itself Caribbean instead of South American anyway.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Good. Let kids have their own identity. I've always cringed at the Ebeneezer Gortlegump IV's of the world.

What I have seen is it is much more common to have the firstborn daughter have a middle name of an ancestor, often grandmother.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

Can confirm myself, my mother, and my maternal grandmother all have the same middle name. Call it a southern thing I suppose. I killed the tradition by being childess and my younger sister refused to pass it to my niece.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago

Yet I'm sure they exist.

From some random article:

Naming a daughter after a mother isn’t a modern phenomenon; in some cultures, the tradition of matrilineal naming goes back centuries. In Ireland, and several other European countries, it was commonplace to name the first daughter after the maternal grandmother, the second daughter after the paternal grandmother, and the third daughter after the mother.

The practice is also prevalent in several Spanish-speaking countries, where it’s common to carry on both parents’ last names as well.

And then there's Iceland.