Ehh, all brains kinda work like that, though
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Well yeah. Most ND stuff is just normal stuff but turned up to 11.
"Normal" people worry about having locked their door, but OCD will make you go back three times and double-check, even if you're late somewhere.
"Normal" people get thoughts by association, but ADHD will make you throw the original thought over your shoulder while you're still having a conversation about it.
"Normal" people may have issues interpreting unfamiliar social cues, but autism is socialguessr on hard mode.
etc.
Everyone pees, but if you pee 50 times a day see a doctor.
They do, but not all the time. Most people can stay on one subject. With some ND individuals, particularly those with ADHD, one subject is every subject depending on what you are thinking at the time.
Carnivals could have easily become candy making videos, because spinning cotton candy is like the process of candy making on a tiny level, but hey, have you seen them break a candy bubble in this vid?
Candy like that is actually really hot and I bet those burns suck if you get one. I grabbed a stick in the fire once and didn't see the hot coal on the end, so I could only imagine what molten candy would do to you.
Its basically molding edible magma. Speaking of magma, did you know that Old Faithful is an underground volcano and if it erupted it would probably destroy half of North America? At least, that's what I heard.
From here we could go onto apocalypse talk, National Parks, or even the Yellowstone TV series. The world is your oyster and your brain will not stop.
I followed that like a train tracks.
Like, people will call this neurodivergent but this is literally how all brains work.
The neurodivergence is in failing to read the social queues of your dad, who was clearly very invested in talking to you about the carnival.
https://imgur.com/a/brain-is-annoying-alHOPXC
Thread that explains it pretty well.
I think the "why can you concentrate on video games?" thing is really missing the whole point of TV as a medium. The sight/sound combo, particularly with bright colors and crisp volume and lots of rapid movements (graphics, camera work, etc) is explicitly designed to grab and hold your attention.
Asking why a TV/game can hold your attention but casual conversation / dry educational instruction cannot is like asking why you got here faster on a car than by hiking with a broken leg. Or asking why you can eat a gallon of ice cream or a bucket of fried chicken, but shy away from canned spinach. Like, ffs, that's the whole reason the thing exists.
I often find myself in restaurants or bars, forcing myself back to focus on the people I'm there with even when the TV playing in the background is showing something I viscerally do not want to watch. It can be total slop, but I'm still drawn to it, because it is bright and loud and attention-demanding.
Video games adding a kinetic aspect only amplify the problem. Now you're "juggling" an extra thing (manual control inputs). And the fun is that the sights/sounds/engagement all point you in the same direction - often with a gameplay loop that provides stimulus reward on continuous interaction. Normal life doesn't provide that. Perhaps it shouldn't, because the sensation overload can (and often does, via F2P games) be so easily exploited.
Funny thing is, sometimes I'll do this out of the blue days later and my wife picks up on it immediately.
That’s just how brains work, nothing to do with neurodivergent.
Let me tell you how my mum's brain works:
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Me: "So how was your day?"
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Mum: "We had a session with Sasha and the report she mentioned to Jenny my boss, cos the whole department was axed, as you remember the last election, and maybe you should start looking for a job around there, and so the report came back empty and...."
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Me (used to her tangents), a report was made between her and Sasha, given to Jenny the boss, but the report was ignored and sent back, most likely due to lack of personell because the department was axed by the Tories in the last election, and she fears it might happen to me too and that I should look for a job in that potential vacuum.
I need you to interpret my thoughts too
To be honest, I talk like this too when I'm under duress or havent quite processed something - jumping from fragment to fragment to try and keep the whole in mind.
As my understanding of my day-to-day has increased and my work and life have somewhat settled, I'm able to better predict and summarize things that happen to me using my day-to-day as a stable baseline to reference from:
I can tell you the important bits because I'm aware of what the humdrum bits are.
I think my mum's world is way more stressful and uncertain than mine is, so her mind tries to capture everything because it has no stable reference to build from
This extends to being an expert in your field as well. We've done an experiment and the result is both incredible and obvious. To me.
The struggle is then to connect and explain these things I am seeing to other people who are themselves also extremely intelligent but don't have the same exact brand of autism.
same exact ~~brand of autism~~.
information set. You are describing knowledge, not process.
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