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[–] [email protected] 38 points 1 day ago (10 children)

At this point we have to contend with small wins like Die Linke getting almost 10% of the vote in Germany, Elon Musk getting bullied out of politics, and Carney winning in Canada.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago (1 children)

If the cure to existential dread is turning 40, it can't come soon enough.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 days ago (2 children)

I turned 40 this year. Sadly it hasn't helped my existential dread at all.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago (2 children)

It all goes faster downhill.

Happy 40th!

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[–] [email protected] 38 points 2 days ago (3 children)

I think they've got it the wrong way around. The under 40s have a chance of rebuilding after the war. Yes, there are hard times ahead but they are young enough to come out on the other side.

At 49, I'm quite sure I either won't make it through the coming storm at all or at least won't be able to enjoy the aftermath for long once things get better again.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 days ago (1 children)

The under 40s are going to be the ones fighting the wars, as always. Even if there is an other side for humanity after what's coming, no one alive today will ever have a peaceful life ever again.

[–] [email protected] 28 points 2 days ago (4 children)

I'll take prison or a bullet to the head before I decide to fight for a nation that has pulled the rug out from underneath me.

I hope more young people see it this way, maybe we'll actually get to a point where we can watch all these leaders duke it out in person because no one will fight for them

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago

Wait til they hand you the gun, play good boy til they let you touch the weapons

Then, aim them at the most superior officers possible and open fire indiscriminately

You do the world a favor and are likely to have your end come suddenly from a direction you don't see

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Expectation is the main ingredient to disappointment. All you have to do is lower your expectations to where the bar is, so when good things do happen, it'll feel better when they do.

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[–] [email protected] 61 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (7 children)

Well, interestingly, gen z men are the Trumpiest demographic:

https://www.axios.com/2025/04/11/american-gen-z-podcasts-trump-harris

I guess the meme still holds true, but their concerns about the future are very different. TBH I can totally understand them becoming disillusioned with other old politicians following old voters who will just “do nothing at let it all happen.”

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago

See 'normative alexithymia'

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

They misattribute monetary policy that bids up home and asset values using cheap debt and facilitates massive bailouts with federal government policy. The CPI doesnt include asset prices so cheap debt can flood into asset prices without slowing down the devaluation of their salary, it also does subjective inflation deductions to goods based on perceived quality changes, and excludes much of the shrinkflation thats happens to goods and service quality.

Something as basic like getting support for a flight is now talking to a chatbot with perpetually larger than expected call volume, you pay extra for seating, you pay extra for baggage; and your seat is so small now you also may as well be standing. Free range chickens used to just be called chicken, and eggs could be eaten uncooked since they werent swimming in ecoli, but according to the CPI you're significantly better off now; so the nominal value of a boomers house is now worth significantly more due to all this perceived wealth.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Who are the positive role models? Weve got all these young guys watching sniveling cucks like andrew taint

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[–] [email protected] 46 points 2 days ago (11 children)

I know a surprisingly large amount of MAGA/Trump adjacent fans because of my type of work.

  • They're all single dudes. Maybe divorced. Maybe never went on a date.
  • There's Joe Rogan involved.
  • After a few beers, they all will unprompted share their views on Jews, blacks, trans, lesbians, or some other racist shit then back off and pretend it's just a joke.
  • Tell them anything involving empathy "Sorry your dog died" is met with silence or coldness.
  • They all don't give a shit about anybody else besides themselves. And often see themselves as the victim. "Oh Trans person was brutally beaten? Yeah it's a violent world like one time some guy threatened me gotta stay strapped."
  • They may not like Trump's antics. But to them, the Democrats aren't helping THEM. Remember that lack of empathy?
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[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 days ago (2 children)

But are they actually trumpy? Or tatey which happens to support Trump right now

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Tate will probably be the next leader of the Republican party

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago

It's easy to paint a picture on a blank canvas.

[–] [email protected] 82 points 2 days ago (1 children)

This is the saddiest shit ever. Young men being angry at the « Men » will vote for the men that will sold them to the bone mill in a heart beat.

There’s a Turkish proverb : and the forest vote for the axe because they where made of the same wood

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

What a great proverb. Thank you for that.

[–] [email protected] 93 points 2 days ago (1 children)

A while ago, I was talking to my mum and offhandedly said that I'd have to move north at some point in my life, due to climate change. For me, that's just a given, with record hottest summers coming in regularly and current summers already incapacitating me for weeks at a time.

But my mum's reaction was basically "What's this about now?". She's lived in her childhood town or close-by for basically her whole life. And she's old enough that she doesn't have to worry about the aftermath. But yeah, that was still brutal, how different our realities were in that regard.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago

The Upper Peninsula is starting to look quite nice this time of year...

[–] [email protected] 149 points 2 days ago (4 children)

I'm over 40 and struggling not to conclude life on this planet peaked 30 years ago

[–] [email protected] 34 points 2 days ago

The dream of the 90s is alive in Portland.

Put a bird on it.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Hey, at least you got to enjoy humanity's peak as a teenager. I was a kid, so I never got the chance to fully appreciate the 90s. My memory of almost anything pre-1993 is incredibly hazy. My strongest childhood memories didn't take hold until the decade was almost over.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 days ago

Lucky you. I got at best the earliest of the 2010s...

[–] [email protected] 79 points 2 days ago (6 children)

The 90s were seriously such a bop.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 days ago

That was 10 years ago.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 days ago

You might even call it an Mmmbop.

[–] [email protected] 58 points 2 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 19 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

At this point we can only hope the Matrix is real and they reset this simulation soon because what we're seeing are the side effects from the uprising outside.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 days ago

9/11 was suppose to be the reset point, but the simulation kept running for some reason.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Look at the bright side: every day is the best day of the rest of our lives!

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 days ago

Translation: every day will be worse than the last until death. I agree.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Is that from "Everything is Awesome" from the Lego Movie? Movie now seems much darker.

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