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[–] [email protected] 23 points 4 days ago (3 children)

The term ammosexuals comes up alot, and yes they festishize everything because they are so sexually repressed and frustrated.

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[–] [email protected] 42 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Depends what he means by that. Are some right-wingers fetishizing femboys? Yeah. Can we generalize this to apply to all right-wingers as people have tendency to do with this sort of things? No. Turns out that people are individuals and they have different preferences. Shocker.

[–] [email protected] 41 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I don't know if I would call it fetishizing, as much as it is denying their own homosexual desires because a lot of right-wingers are sexually repressed homosexuals.

"It's not gay if they look like a girl" basically.

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[–] [email protected] 24 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Imagine you're a horrible misogynist who has the drive to have sex with a woman, but you don't like the idea of actually having to touch one. If only there was something feminine but not a woman. Something that could understand a man in the way only a man can, but at the same time is not quite as strong and powerful as a man...

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

They're about as fetishized as cuckolding is in right wing circles. The way those dorks toss that term around tells me enough to know that a lot of them are harboring a deep-seated desire to watch some dude rail their wives like they never could.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

usually someone more attractive or well built too.

[–] [email protected] 96 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I don't think it's widespread or mainstream, but speaking as a femboy, we are fetishized a lot in general. Even normal people often just assume I'm hyperhorny, like the only reason I'm femmodeing is because I want cock. The creepy part about the right-wingers is they see us as "failed males" and specifically get off on the idea of asserting their dominance over us. There's also a lot of dehumanizing and degradation that I see those types engaging in, beyond the typical "slut" that normal people do. They want to sexually abuse and violate femboys to feel better about their own fragile masculinity.

I'm very glad I live in a solid blue state and can go out safely, I think if I lived in a right-wing state I wouldn't feel safe going femmode outside.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 4 days ago (2 children)

What is a femboy honestly? A straight? feminine man?

[–] [email protected] 43 points 4 days ago

Just an effeminate man. I don't know if sexuality has much to do with it, but I'd say the majority of femboys are gay/bi with a minority being strictly heterosexual. To be real blunt, imagine the exact inverse of a tomboy, and you're probably pretty close to a femboy. I like some p girly things, I like to wear skirts and dresses, but I also have a masculine side to me.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 days ago (2 children)

4chan has a lot of gay/trans porn for how right they slant.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

I'd say that 4chan is among the main reasons for many of my "weird" kinks and femboys absolutely are among those. Seems to align with my assumed political leanings too.

[–] [email protected] 56 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Yes - there is a lot that has been written about the homoeroticism of fascist movements. For years, it’s been a meme that “traps aren’t gay.” Nick Fuentes has sex with submissive puppy boys or something.

Fascism is libidinal. The Nazis who tortured gay men in concentration camps were also very eager to have sex with them. It goes back to Roman or even Bronze Age sexual mores, where sex is an act of aggression and as long as the “superior” is in the penetrative role, then it is okay.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Where can I find these submissive puppy boys? It doesn't seem like it should be hard to convince one of them to wear one of those rape prevention reverse condoms, just in case...

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Where can I find these submissive puppy boys?

blahaj.zone

[–] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago

You can also find catboys here :3

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 5 days ago

They definitely are, although the most fetishized thing by them is black bulls cucking white men. Seems easy enough to see their criteria is things that flare up their enormous sexual insecurity. Femboys stuff fits that criteria for some of them.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago

Oh hello again, cute cat profile picture that looks like a dick pic for a millisecond! Hope you are doing well! <3

[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Yeah for sure lol. It's kinda the end level of misogyny + toxic competive masculinity + extreme hetero sexual ideation. What else comes from that combo than "forcing weaker men to replace the role of women for your own desires"?

[–] [email protected] 164 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Everything is fetishized by the right, especially the things they claim to hate.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 days ago

Yup, as a trans person I have personally experienced this

[–] [email protected] 29 points 5 days ago

I mean it's the logical conclusion of "everything the right says is projection"

If a right winger wants to ban something you can find as a category on pornhub, that's what they've been clicking.

[–] [email protected] 76 points 5 days ago (2 children)

So much temptation, I must ban EVERYTHING that makes me horny!!!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 4 days ago

Mega Frollo energy

[–] [email protected] 46 points 5 days ago

I think it was Jesus that said, "It's better to ban an entire nation from existing than it is to work out your own sexuality with fear and trembling".

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