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I use it literally everywhere out of habit, I got made fun of for using it when pulling out of my moms driveway once lol

The only reason I won't possibly use it is when I'm in a turn only lane at a red light and don't want to listen to it for 3 minutes

Most people I find only use it 75% of the time at best.
I'm 2.5 years into driving and am curious if it's just what semi-new drivers do or if I'm the odd one out.

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[–] [email protected] 152 points 1 week ago (11 children)

Always. Driveway? Blinkers. Parking? Blinkers. On an empty road with no one in sight? Believe it or not, blinkers.

It's a muscle memory. When you get used to using them, you just do. If you have exceptions, you might forget it when it matters.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (3 children)

Always use the blinker. Remember it's not a request, it's a warning. The only time you might not is if you have to make a sudden emergency swerve and don't have time and need both hands on the wheel. In this case, survival should be immediately followed by an apology wave.

When changing lanes in fast traffic, using the blinker will usually cause the car next to you to speed up. This is a feature, not a bug, as it opens a space behind them into which you can stick the nose of your car, ahead of the guy following them.

Adding in: if you routinely drive with your lights on, you will find that little extra visibility makes people slightly less likely to cut you off or more likely to let you in. Sometimes they don't mean to be assholes, they're just distracted, and being more visible helps. If you consider that "dingdingding" a reminder to lock it, it will turn off the lights and be safe.

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 week ago

...how else would people around me know what direction I'm about to move 2+ tons of metal???

I can't stand how often I see people changing lanes or taking turns with ZERO blinker usage. Selfish short sighted fucks.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

I use it everywhere because it signals intent. You never know when someone might pull up fast or walk into your blind spot. This is the only indicator they have that you're about to pull into traffic, or change lanes.

[–] [email protected] 30 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I don't drive a BMW, so yes.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

"Every important sideways manoeuvre" is what I learned from my driving instructor. I sometimes even feel a bit bad when I forget to use my indicator.

Can I make a small complaint here that the 3 blinks your car does is way too short to start and finish most actions?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

If you're making a turn push the lever farther and it will keep blinking until the steering wheel starts to return to center. If you're just edging sideways into the next lane, a little flick will give you the few seconds of blinks and stop, because the wheel doesn't turn enough for the other system and you might not realize it's still blinking mile after míle.

I do wish the blinks were a faster tempo, more chances to alert others quickly.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 week ago

I use them all the time. Pisses me off when other road users don't. They're called indicators here in the UK and apparently if you pass an advanced driving test and get an advanced licence you don't have to use them all the time, particularly if there's no-one around to see them. Advanced courses are about thinking rather than being on autopilot, and so indicating out of habit suggests you're not paying attention to what's going on around you.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Would you use your blinker in a car? Would you wink at your lover, from afar? Would you twerk and dimple, or is that too far? I don't know how to rhyme this anymore, ABLAR.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Even when I’m a pedestrian I fucking hate anyone who doesn’t use a turn signal. Usually I’ll yield to cars because they’re faster, and as an impatient person myself I wonder who’d want to wait six years for someone to walk across whatever but I can’t do that when the idiots don’t use their turn signal.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago

Always always signal your intention. I heard a woman complaining that her new car had lane control, which forced her to indicate when changing lanes. "It's so annoying, I mean it's obvious I'm overtaking, I don't need to indicate!"

Also, as a frequent pedestrian I appreciate when drivers and cyclists indicate and judge heavily when they don't. So frustrating to be waiting to cross the road and someone turns without indicating.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 week ago

I’ve only been driving for 33 years, but I try to signal every turn.

Because the signals are for those situations where you don’t see something you should have AND those situations where someone else didn’t see something they should have.

Takes a flick of the pinky to do something that could save you thousands of dollars and wasted time, or even save someone’s life. So why not do it?

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Mirror, signal, manoeuvre. This is the way.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You forgot the part where you turn your damned head and look beside you.

Please tell me that's just an oversight, and you're not one of those.

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[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Yes. You're supposed to use it anytime you're about to turn or change lanes, including if you're sitting in a turn lane at a red light or backing out of a drive way or parking spot.

Not doing so makes you a road hazard.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 1 week ago (3 children)

In the Netherlands you don't need to signal when you pull back in after overtaking in the middle lane.

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[–] [email protected] 56 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

Using it 75% of the time is harder than using it all the time, because it means you’re consciously thinking about it each time instead of doing it reflexively.

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

I got made fun of for using it when pulling out of my moms driveway once lol

I believe the socially acceptable retort is "if you don't like my driving, you can get the hell out of the car. If you're staying, you can shut up"

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 week ago

Until humans invent mind reading and we can all do it easily without a moment's hesitation, I will be using my turning indicator. Only idiots make fun of signalling.

[–] [email protected] 66 points 1 week ago

Other drivers cannot read minds, so use the blinker.

Its why it's there in the first place.

[–] [email protected] 72 points 1 week ago

I use it all the time and I judge people who don't.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 1 week ago

You don't need to sit at a light with the blinker going. I just put it on before the light turns green, or right before I start moving.

[–] [email protected] -4 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Area dependent. Blinkers get in the way if you live somewhere like India or San Antonio

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Even if you and everyone else drive like a maniac, you should use your blinkers. In fact, especially.

Keep in mind, using the blinker isn't asking permission. It's a warning.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

In India, they’re still useful; just make sure you use the horn too.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago (2 children)

There are only 4 ways to communicate in a car what your intentions are to other drivers. Left blinker, right blinker, brake lights, and the finger. 5 if you count flashing brights but I'm convinced most people think it's just a fuck you for having headlights that are too bright, which might be the case, but I'm usually telling you there a pig ahead.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I read that last bit as "warning you that you might hit a large meaty object," but then I realized...I was pretty much right.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago

Confession: I use indicator lights so much that I sometimes use them in very tight turns

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

Basically everywhere. Not always when pulling in my driveway if no one else is around, but I’ve certainly seen driveways where you might even use it pulling out. I don’t use it pulling out of my driveway. It’s rare that I not use it otherwise, though. Very occasionally I’ll think I’ve put it on but discover while turning that I didn’t have it on. Might be my ADHD causing that.

[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 week ago

Turn signals are not optional.

[–] [email protected] 79 points 1 week ago

Yeah. Whoever made fun of you is an idiot.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

If you habitually use it on simple or clear turns or empty roads you will habitually use it when there are people around. That's a good habit to have.

Lights on always and signal whenever you're deviating from your current lane.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 week ago

Over 15 years driving, here. I use blinkers all the time. I feel weird if I change lanes without a blinker, even if I know for an absolute fact there's no one around me... Or even any that can see me. And I mean, I'll even use it when I do a little road rage for people camping in the passing lane and I pass them on the wrong side, cutting a little close when returning. That being said, a driveway is something I'd make a joke about among friends. It wouldn't make me judge you as a driver. I'd use the rest of your driving as my judgment material.

My 2 cents on a topic you didn't ask for: Do not hold down the passing lane. It makes me a little irrational, but only with a totally clear line of sight. There's plenty of dumber morons that suck at it, so camping sprinkles a little chaos into the hierarchy of the lanes. It does not matter how your speed compares to the limit.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What kind of person shits on another for using a turn signal? My guess is it is someone who forgets to use it frequently.

[–] [email protected] -3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

It was out of his moms driveway lol I would have made a joking comment too. I use my blinker basically everywhere but I guess there could be more traffic by his moms driveway. 😉

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I don't drive a BMW, so yes, I do use my blinker.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I was just talking about this with a friend. I think bmw drivers driving like douches is maybe the most accurate stereotype I know. It is shocking how often I see a car driving like an asshole and it ends up being a bmw.

Most stereotypes are hilariously inaccurate but that one seems pretty legit lol

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

I’m not perfect, but my signals pretty religiously… and I’ve been driving for almost 30 years.

I’ll ride with my dad sometimes though… and in his old age he won’t always use his turn signals. Never has, actually. I always get onto him, and he gives me this shit-eating grin and says “it’s on a need-to-know basis.”

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