this post was submitted on 10 Apr 2025
74 points (97.4% liked)

Asklemmy

47826 readers
1009 users here now

A loosely moderated place to ask open-ended questions

Search asklemmy πŸ”

If your post meets the following criteria, it's welcome here!

  1. Open-ended question
  2. Not offensive: at this point, we do not have the bandwidth to moderate overtly political discussions. Assume best intent and be excellent to each other.
  3. Not regarding using or support for Lemmy: context, see the list of support communities and tools for finding communities below
  4. Not ad nauseam inducing: please make sure it is a question that would be new to most members
  5. An actual topic of discussion

Looking for support?

Looking for a community?

~Icon~ ~by~ ~@Double_[email protected]~

founded 6 years ago
MODERATORS
top 50 comments
sorted by: hot top controversial new old
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

Pride and Prejudice

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

As my mom beautifully puts it : "I'm racist against idiots"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Alcohol Weed Lactose

Yeah I’m no fun.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

It's true. I've been getting back into religion just to pray that God makes humanity extinct.

"Instead of heaven on earth, they made heaven in hell"

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago

People being rude to customer facing employees.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

Chocolate! I have no idea why but if I eat more than a small bar of chocolate in a short time span I get this tingling sensation in my mouth, forehead and temples. It's not painful or anything just very weird and I've had it all my life. I've been tested for an allergy to chocolate and it came back negative!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

People unable to pick up sarcasm through text.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

People who think they’re an island. I don’t know how to describe it. People who operate like little effort should be expended on the fact that other humans exist around them and they’re part of society along with some responsibility for that society. Doesn’t matter if it’s stopping in the middle of a busy sidewalk in a group and blocking it, driving the speed limit in the passing lane, or utterly destroying the use of spelling, grammar, and punctuation in an online post forcing the reader to translate it into something meaningful. People unwilling to return the courtesies and efforts those around them offer by default.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

Starch. This limits what I can eat. Unfortunately I didn't know this growing up, so I ate a pretty carb heavy diet which caused health issues which caused me to be grouchy a lot. Took until I nearly 40 to figure out that I wasn't just an unstable asshole.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

_Everything _ for some reason I am super sensitive to drugs of nearly any kind

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

People who micromanage, either directed at me or someone else

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Wood in my mouth; I struggle with popsicle sticks and chopsticks as a result.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Noise.

The sound of other people eating.

Littering.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Coffee :(

The "virus wombo combo" of mono and COVID fucked a lot of things up permanently, but most of them have rebounded to an acceptable state. Whenever I drink coffee it fucks me up, even decaf coffee. Makes me feel tired as hell, stressed, overstimulated. It also seems to last for almost a full day. Drink coffee in the morning, and I have a big chance of sleeping badly.

Not that it's guaranteed to hold me back...

Every now and then the sane part of my brain forgets to pay attention and my coffee craving gets the better of me.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Do other cafinated drinks have the same effect?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Not nearly as bad, if at all. I drink a lot of tea on work days (probably over a liter) and have never had issues with that. I don't regularly drink energy drink or cola etc, but he times that I had them also didn't have the same effect.

While caffeine also doesn't necessarily make my body happy, I do think that there's something else that upsets my body when drinking coffee. Maybe something to do with dehydration or histamine intolerance. Idk.

Edit: hmmm but apparently black tea and green tea are also high in histamine and I drink a lot of that. It remains a mystery

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 weeks ago

Hmm, interesting, that is indeed quite a mystery.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

Intolerance.

Thanks karl popper.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Misusing them in what weigh? Like using an uncorrect word? Or using a word that has a different consternation than the one they meant to use?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Expanding the meaning of a word

For example, naming every person with a authoritarian ideology a nazi

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

Careful, they might call you a nazi for saying that

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 24 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Cars in cities.

You don't realize how insane they are until you spend time somewhere without them.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

I don't need to. I can feel the sweet death threat every time I cross the road on the zebra lines without traffic lights.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

People who chew with their mouth open. Looks and sounds disgusting.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

I have a nearly fully blocked nose, always have. As such I can’t really breathe through my nose at all (also my sense of smell is nearly nonexistent). I still eat with my mouth closed. It does take me a while longer though, since I basically need to stop eating in order to breathe. But I’d rather do that than the alternative, because I agree with you, chewing with your mouth open is disgusting and disrespectful.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

People who lack self discipline.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 weeks ago

Bullying, weather it is physical, intellectual or emotional...it just grinds my gears.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

Tequila, takes very little compared to other spirits to make me nauseous.

load more comments
view more: next β€Ί