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If an apartment has high ceilings and big rooms it gives me anxiety. I'm not sure if it's because I tie it to traumatic experiences of what.

In my big apartment that I rented I felt awful and had anxiety. It also has light colours everywhere.

The little one felt cozier and had darker colours.

Has anyone had a similar experience? I don't know what to do cause I'm stuck in the bigger one until the lease is up

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[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 3 days ago

avoid ceiling lights. keeping lighting closer to eye-level can help make the space feel way cozier, so try floor lamps and desk lamps.

i once bought a random led light bulb for my desk lamp from a dollar store back when i was in college, and that thing was just bright enough to light up a room while still keeping it cozy. loved it to bits.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

Check the color of your lightning. Sometimes you get that awful blue white cold light. Go and get yourself a nice bulb with an orange red tint to it, nice and warm light.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Hang a tapestry above you across the room

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

And then imagine what is creeping around, above that tapestry, waiting to get you while you sleep.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

Oh man, you should try my parisian flat then

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

If you can, put things on the walls - you can get cheap paintings from charity shops, posters etc

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I want to but il have to set one up in every room idek how that would work

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Community (s3e14) had some good info on where to start

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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Add stuff. Plants, furniture, art on the walls, and rugs. Bare rooms feel bigger.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

There's tons of stuff it still gives me anxiety it's wide and open and white

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Add more color. Paint your walls if you're allowed to.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (2 children)

I'm scared and idk what colour would work.. maybe like a very dark blue accent wall for the bedroom?

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

Darker colors make it more cozy. Light colors make it feel more like a hospital. Green, brown, sand colors, dark blue, dark grey maybe. Just slam something on the wall and check how it feels. You can always paint it again.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago

That's the neat thing about paint. It's very easy to change the color if it doesn't work out.

If you want commitment free pizazz, find some removable wallpaper in a cozy color.