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Born in 01. I’m excited to be 24 and have a celebration with my girlfriend and family, but I feel OLD.

What is the cutoff? When do you stop being a young woman?

(I was going to say I wish I was still around 10 years younger when I realized that people born in 2011 are going to be/are 14 and not 5.)

Other edit: It’s been almost 8 years since my Sweet 16. Holy crap. My sister was 6.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 month ago (3 children)

0 to 30: young. 30 to 60: middle age. 60 to 90: old. 90 to 120: ancient.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

Yes. You're still young enough where you don't seem out of place going to bars every friday night, and hanging out of the tops of limos going WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO as the limo drives down the street. The driver isn't annoyed that you're not acting your age. The driver is annoyed that his job is basically glorified babysitter on wheels.

But as a young woman, you need all of the advice. You need to do all the things. See all the stuff. And my advice is to do nothing. Relax, don't do it. When you want to go do it. Relax. Don't do it. When you want to come.

All the advice. None of the advice. Do everything. Do nothing. Life is all about making decisions. Some decisions you'll love having made. Others you'll later regret. Life is all about finding the road that leads to self acceptance and inner peace.

But shoot it in the right direction. We're making it your intention. Live those dreams. Scheme those schemes. Got to hit me with those laser beams! Ow ow ow! Laser beam me! 1, 2, 3, 4

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 month ago

As someone in their 30s, you are a young woman

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

Leornado DiCaprio says you got 1 more year!

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Young and old is relative. I side with those saying young is until 40, then you're middle aged.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

I'm 43. I say I'm old, but I don't actually believe I'm old.

Don't convince me otherwise.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

M26. I feel old as shit and it's only gonna get worse. A lot of it is your attitude and environment, something i'm struggling with rn. You can still be young in your 60ies if you have wonderful people surrounding you.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

For me (male) even turning 30 didn’t feel “old”; in my mind that was still basically in my 20s. When I turned 31, though, it hit me. Of course, it’s still not old, at most middle age, but hard to say you’re “young” anymore. But hopefully that means mature. You still have a lot of your energy and health, hopefully, but now also hopefully have a better understanding of what to do and how to make the best use of your life for your goals.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I'm 58. You are a young woman.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I have children older than you. It's a matter of perspective - I think anyone under 50 is young, and no doubt in 10 years time I'll think the same of anyone under 60. I don't feel that I really grew up until I was well into my 30s, and my career didn't really get anywhere before I was 40, but now before I know it I'm retired. Relish your youth - it'll pass soon enough!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

Not a woman but I just turned 41 recently. Here’s the secret to life from here on out:

While your body keeps changing (slowly) your mind really doesn’t. So you’re going to feel the same as you always did! This is pretty cool!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

It's all relative. I'm 62 - from my perspective you've only recently gone from being a girl to being a woman, so for sure a young woman. Of course in ten years I'll be 72 and you'll be 34, and I'd still call you a young woman.

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[–] [email protected] 43 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I'd say anyone under 30 is "young".

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I mean anyone before 40, really. Once 40, you're middle aged.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (3 children)

The "young adult" category is usually cut off by 30, though, according to Meetup groups and age-restricted social groups I've seen online.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 month ago (2 children)

18-24 usually gets grouped together for census and survey stuff so you got a good year left in the tank before you're part of the 25-44 crowd

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago

And a decade or so before your targeted ads switch from fast fashion, adventure holidays and entertainment to things like lawn care products and orthopedic footwear.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 month ago

😮‍💨

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago (2 children)

anyone born after 2000 is young in my book.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 month ago

I used to think that but for "anyone born in a year after my birth year", but now I look at some such people and realize that all people eventually turn older. :/ OP is a lot younger than even that though.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Thanks! I’m still young!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (7 children)

Yeah, come on, of course. "Young" = no one would question the chromosomal health of your baby if you chose to have one right now. So it's in the 30s when that starts to get shaky, but certainly not the 20s.

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