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Take a holiday there as a family for several weeks. Get out of London and see some places. See how your family enjoy their time there. It’ll give you all some perspective.
I've been there many times. My father is from there. I'm a citizen. Enjoyment isn't an issue. This is about my daughter's safety.
But since I've never been there to live with a school-age kid, that's something I could use some advice on. Of course, I'm reading up on it as well, but I wouldn't mind some pointers on this specific issue.
I live here too but I don’t have a personal perspective on the kind of move you’re thinking of making.
What I can suggest is there is plenty of data to help you inform your decision.
Here’s a map of crimes in the UK so you can input a place you’re thinking of moving to and what the crime rate is like in the area (and the nature of the crime).
Guns aren’t a fear here. Yes you can get a shotgun or an air rifle but no automatic weapons, there’s a lot of regulation, checks, and requirements. Even with gangs in major cities, you’ve not much to fear about. And even knife crime pales in comparison to the states. I’ve lived in some of the most dangerous areas and I’ve been fine. With a young woman in your family, common sense, staying to well lit areas etc and they’ll be fine.
Schools are inspected by a government agency called Ofsted so you can look to what specific area of a place you’d want to move to to be in the catchment area of a decent school.
The government department, the Office for National Statistics, has a map that shows where areas of household deprivation are by percentage of population in the area. In general, the higher the percentage on the map, the more affluent the average person is in an area. This correlates with crime so you would be better to find a less deprived area if you’ve a young family.
Flooding can be a risk so you can look for long term flood risk areas here and historic flooding areas here.
And naturally, it would be best to look for a job first as, especially if you’re looking at senior or executive positions, the org may help you with visas and relocating.
Thank you for all the helpful links! I appreciate it!