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Is it normal for men to be propositioned by swingers, and what makes a man an attractive candidate to swinger couples? (lemmy.autism.place)

submitted 1 month ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I have been propositioned by swingers quite a bit. It's to the point that if a couple is nice to me, I start getting suspicious. This has happened with acquaintances, long-time friends, people I've met at a party, co-workers, and even strangers at the beach. Three times that I can remember off the top of my head, they propositioned me and my girlfriend at the time (separate girls many years apart). Is this a normal thing? What about me could make me attractive to swinger couples?

I'm a cis-gendered straight male. As far as physical attractiveness, I would say I'm slightly above average based on what women have told me and how they treat me.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

But … but my grandma’s specialty was pineapple upside-down cake??

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Didn't you think it was weird, that she would go to "play golf", but never bring any clubs?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago (1 children)

She had a magnet on her fridge that said “I’m done with love. Fortunately there’s still sex”

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

lmao I’m also remembering she had another one that said “Sex is my favorite sport. It’s free, it’s fun, and you don’t need special shoes”

Grandma!