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Body positivity is such a strange concept to me. There's efforts to reclaim words while simultaneously calling them bad if used as an insult. Ideally, people wouldn't be offended by someone describing their body with common descriptors, but socially there is so much value attributed to certain body types that it's almost impossible to avoid having an emotional response of some kind to various descriptors.

For example, It's not bad to be fat, but calling someone "fat" is almost universally considered a bad thing. The same definitely seems to go for the idea of being "short."

I'm asking this question because I can't put my finger on why but something seems to be different about the use of the term "short" from the use of the term "fat." I think that part of it is how, to me at least, the term "fat" is so generic and hard to nail down to a discrete definition, implying that the word really doesn't have a clear connection to reality. On the other hand, height is a single-dimensional number. You either are above a certain threshold, or you aren't.

I recently learned that May 6th to May 10th is "short king week" because it's 5'6" to 5'10" which then prompted me to search for the origins of "short king" and apparently the person most-credited with popularizing the term is Jaboukie Young-White who claims the term was meant to include all men under 6 feet tall. The average adult male height is 5'9" leaving men considered roughly average to be called "short" which is still considered an insult by many.

I dunno. As a term that was intended to champion body positivity compared with how the term is actually used, what do you think of "short king?"

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

You have a great deal of value outside of how much money you make there are people out there interested in those qualities. I'm sorry you haven't noticed them yet, but they are out there. Try to keep an open mind and an open heart and you may find them and they find you sooner than you think.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 months ago

captain_aggravated is not talking about how he values himself. He’s talking about how society values him.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 5 months ago (2 children)

My hourly rate for day labor is $40/hr. I will not give you anything or do anything for you for free.

[–] [email protected] -2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Do you think forty an hour is a flex? That's like walk in off the street temp work that methheads and homeless people do lol. Even within the narrow confines of your pathetic worldview you are a complete loser lol.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Aren't we all?

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

You know damn well that's not what I meant and also that's far too low these days, you should ask for more.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Hey you're the perfect stranger asserting I have "value" despite having no possible idea what it might be. You might as well have said "Jesus loves you." It would be equally untrue and I'd know whose bullshit you're trying to get me to buy.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Lmao what trite contrarian bullshit, you yourself asserted your high value in this same comment thread.

Get over yourself.

I make more btw, cheers!

[–] [email protected] -2 points 5 months ago

I didn't assert myself as high valued. I asserted myself as non-free.