Summary:
On June 28, 2023, Nepal’s Supreme Court ordered the government to temporarily register same-sex marriages. This was hailed as a historic decision, and the country made headlines registering its first same-sex marriage in November 2023.
However, despite the court order, queer couples still face significant bureaucratic hurdles and discrimination when trying to register their marriages. Many local government offices either reject applications or are unaware of the procedures.
For example, the couple Sushila Ramtel and Pramila Tamang faced harassment, rejection, police intervention, and family opposition when trying to register their marriage in Sindhuli. Their struggle highlights persistent resistance and ignorance among local officials.
The Department of National ID and Civil Registration does not have official data on queer marriages, and provisional registrations are not fully integrated into national databases.
A directive from the Ministry of Home Affairs allows local bodies to register same-sex marriages in separate books with provisional certificates, but many officials remain unaware or refuse to comply.
Bureaucratic inertia and moral policing by local officials cause delays, harassment, and extra costs for queer couples. Unlike heterosexual couples who can register marriages quickly without legal help, queer couples often need advocates and spend significant time and money.
Provisional certificates lack full legal recognition, especially for binational couples seeking marriage visas or other rights. Inconsistent forms also force queer couples to pick gender roles that erase their identities.
The government has started training local officials on same-sex marriage registration, but efforts remain limited.
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