Intro and Context
Midwest.social is my homebase, but I have two other accounts in different instances. Both accounts are in instances that are federated with this one.
I started a genre film community about a week ago. Yesterday, I logged in to my other instances to see what the community looks like from a non-moderator perspective. They all look different, depending on what instance I'm viewing the community from. Screenshots below:
Screenshots
This is the view of [email protected] from this instance. This is how I'd expect it to be seen by anyone that midwest.social is federated with. Is that not correct?
For context, all the comments in the stickied post are from individuals belonging to other instances with which midwest.social is federated. In fact, there are comments from lemmy.ml folks, and I think there's one from somebody in sopuli.xyz. That may be relevant because of what I see when I go to my lemmy.ml and sopuli.xyz accounts.
This is the view of [email protected] from my account on lemmy.ml. Only three posts show up. The comment counts and upvotes are different.
The one on top with zero upvotes was actually posted from the pictured lemmy.ml account. The middle post is supposedly a stickied post, except it's not stickied when accessed through lemmy.ml. Also, none of the comments appear. Not even my own test comment.
The "subscribe pending" business is new. Several days ago, it said "joined" over there. When I try unsubscribing and resubscribing, I keep getting the pending nonsense.
This is the view of [email protected] from my account on sopuli.xyz. All the posts show up, but the comment counts and upvotes are different.
The "subscribe pending" thing here is the same as it is with my lemmy.ml account. It wasn't there a couple days ago, but now it is. Turning it off and on again doesn't do anything.
Questions
Only one question, really. Is this as odd as it seems to me? Okay, two questions. Can someone explain why it looks different, based on which instance I'm accessing the community from?
Hey there! FYI I really appreciated this comment. The response to my comment here convinced me that Lemmy isn't really the place for me. I popped back today to look something up, and I wanted to make sure you got a friendly hello after seeing your response.
I totally agree with everything you said. Having shared practices for remembrance and an established "typical" way to demonstrate care for deceased people is a significant part of maintaining social cohesion and so useful for giving individuals an outlet for grief.
The way an entire industry has emerged to capitalize on loss and paij sickens me, but that part is a whole different conversation.
My education is in archaeoligy, and my primary interest was American deathways. I've probably spent more time thinking about contemporary death rites and remembrance than I've thought about anything else as an adult.
Anyway, I hope you're well! Keep on being a cool person.