Zero22xx

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Huh, in all these years, I thought "web 2.0" was just describing a new design style or monetization method or some shit. Had no idea it was referring to user created content. So thanks for the history lesson!

I definitely heard the term back then but yeah, I just assumed and never actually bothered reading up on it or anything.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 8 hours ago

Ah, there it is. It's pretty sad that I just knew from the moment I saw this headline that it would be more about bashing queer people than celebrating straight people. I actually commented about this in another thread earlier saying that I think if people need an excuse to celebrate and be merry that's great, but I hope it's not just a bigot parade. But even while I typed that, I knew that it was wishful thinking.

It's like all these people have is hate. Nothing else. Everything revolves around hatred. Can't feel good about themselves without tearing someone else down. It's not a "hetero awesome fest", it's just a "gay people must die fest." How surprising /s

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

Nice, thanks for the advice. So would Path of Thunder be a good place to pick it up again? That's more or less two months before Queendom and it looks like all of the shows leading up to it are touring shows like Stardom in Osaka, Stardom in KOBE etc.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 9 hours ago (3 children)

So, my big watch of Stardom failed and I'm thinking of actually just jumping in with the latest Queendom now. I find pro wrestling fandom to be a delicate balancing act with all of your other interests because of the sheer volume of it. Even when I was just trying to keep up with all of the WWE shows years ago, it was basically swallowing up all of my other interests and leaving no time for anything else. It's actually one of the things that attracted me to TNA, that there was only one weekly show and one big event a month.

So I got overwhelmed. And distracted with other things. And now I need to get back into this. Pretty sad to see that a couple of my favourites have left Stardom in the mean time though.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 9 hours ago (3 children)

Gotta love the grumpy defiant toddler thing that Trump has going for him there.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (3 children)

Not sure what we called it to be honest. I didn't even have a computer yet and mostly accessed from work. I'm talking the days when my haunts were the Mxit app on my dumb java phone, the chatrooms on the Offspring's website (somewhere around the release of Conspiracy of One), MySpace and a South African alternative scene forum called MakeSomeNoise. I think MySpace was just MySpace and didn't have a special term.

I used the internet as a kid in the '90s a little bit too, but that was mostly for finding cheat codes for video games back then.

Edit: also not sure I understand how "web 2.0" refers to forum sites and chat rooms in particular.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 12 hours ago

Me when I was still closeted to myself. I enjoyed / laughed at / guiltily identified with memes from the Reddit version of this community for a couple of years before realising why I enjoyed and identified with these memes so much. At that point, I thought my r/all feed was identical to everyone else's and that it was just something particularly popular on Reddit for some reason.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 13 hours ago (3 children)

Yeah, I'd say, if hetero people need an excuse to have fun and celebrate something, I'm all for it. But I have a sneaky suspicion that this is going just going to be used as a hatefest towards LGBTQ+ people instead. I would love to be proven wrong but I have a feeling that straight cis people who are open minded and accepting and not bigots, aren't the ones who feel the need to go "what about straight pride / international men's day?" whenever anyone else gets a bit of attention.

[–] [email protected] 73 points 13 hours ago (12 children)

And voting for people that will make everyone's life hell and ensure that no one else will ever get to experience the quality of life that they did.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Right winger: "Well if you weren't so mean to me, I wouldn't support people that want to turn women into property, make queer people's existence illegal, marry children and send them to work in the mines and hire white social media influencers over brown people with qualifications.

See? I'm actually a good person. But mean words are so much more unforgivable than rampant bigotry and hatred. So you forced me to side with the rampant bigots that hate everyone who isn't a white straight christian male. It's YOUR fault!

Also, these librul snowflakes have such thin skins."

[–] [email protected] 11 points 13 hours ago

Catholics don't have anything good to look forward to

Well you've still got children to prey on. So you've got that going for you.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (5 children)

I look back pretty fondly to the days when we didn't call social media "social media" yet. Seemed a lot easier to make friends back then and it was a lot more uh, social. Although even in the early days of Facebook, I made some interesting friendships that started as poking battles. Looking back now, those days were fulfilling something in me that I didn't even realise.

In the real world (especially fresh from school where you have to wear uniforms and boys have to have boy haircuts and girls have to have girl haircuts and everyone gets separated and categorised), I would always end up with male friends first. But my online self was making pretty much exclusively female friends. That other decades long friend I mentioned before was someone that I actually met in a chatroom on a South African app called Mxit lol. I honestly miss those days and a lot of the cool people that I was friends with for a while (GothMoth and isawred, if you ever happen to be here and scroll past this, hi it's me, Zaphod_Beeblebrox).

And apart from longing for the "good old days", I'm gonna say that ever since I had certain awakenings and started questioning things, from starting out terrified of saying the wrong things or being seen as an imposter or invader, I have found the LGBTQ+ community to be 99% welcoming, open minded, warm and friendly people. From the few communities I interacted with on Reddit to here on Blåhaj. I've come across nothing but encouragement and acceptance. And it warms by cold black heart. So to everyone on Blåhaj, even though I haven't made personal friends with anyone, you rock and you're all my favourite people. And it makes me kinda sad that I took so long to get here.

And one more positive that happened in recent times. You starting the Women's Stuff community. I was battling to enjoy Lemmy before that and you brought something that puts a smile on my face daily, even if I mostly just read and lurk. And your acceptance of non-binary people into the community means the world too. Small act, but it's something that brightened this confused individual that doesn't know where they belong's skies a little.

Edit: actually just realised that the moment I stopped making online friends was the moment I ditched everything else for Reddit lol.

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submitted 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

Watched this again yesterday and I think I liked it even more the second time. Honestly I've got Batman fatigue over all, especially grounded and 'realistic' Batman, but what makes this show particularly enjoyable is that it changes quite a few things up and leans harder into Golden Age Batman stuff than any other adaptation.

Not all episodes are 100% masterpieces but the overall storylines are especially awesome. I absolutely love this version of Harley Quinn and think it might actually be my favourite. And especially listening to the things she says in conversation leading up to her episode was awesome this time, knowing what's coming. A little disappointed that there's going to be a Joker in this universe after all but I hope that at least in this story, they flip it and make him a creation of Harley Quinn and not the other way around.

And the over all story of Harvey Dent of course is top tier. Also with the way it tied in with Jim and Barbara's ideological disagreement that ran throughout. And something that I didn't notice the first time but saw someone else point out, which is fucking cool, was that they flipped the evil and side of Two-Face here as well.

Harvey Dent wasn't really a good guy before the acid attack. He would just do or say whatever it takes to get more votes and get people to like him. He might've been good once but the life of shaking hands and smiling and kissing asses with no results clearly twisted him.So after the acid attack, whenever he's being apologetic and good, he turns and speaks with the side of his face that has been fucked up with acid. That's the personality that has learnt and is remorseful. But the 'evil' side of this Harvey Dent is the old Harvey Dent politician personality that has had it with this shit.

And just a quote that I felt especially hard this time from Batman: "You don't bend with the world when it goes bad. You push back."

Side note / suggestion: something I've always seen pro wrestling subs / communities do that works well, is having a general discussion thread pinned. Something that is still missing here vs Reddit, is a community for each show. It wouldn't make sense here right now because it would just make this place even quieter. But what was nice about them was having a place to post about them off season. I feel like a general discussion thread could work nicely for this kind of post.

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Self medicated (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

I don't know where else to post this. Definitely not casual conversation. Off my chest seems more like a place for when you've got something to say to everyone else. And I'm not really necessarily looking for advice. Pretty personal and about mental health and shit though. So if there's somewhere better, let me know. I just need to dump this shit somewhere.

Just went without weed for around two weeks. One of the longest stretches I've gone without for most of my adult life so far. And this particular time, it has especially made me realise and come to terms with the fact that whenever I've called it "medicine", I've only been half joking.

Because I unravel more and more, then facepalm when I've finally had my medicine and start thinking about how I've been feeling and acting out. When I've gone without for just a couple of days in the past, I've called it an addiction but this time the insomnia and lack of appetite ended in a couple of days but my everything else got worse and worse.

I become completely dysfunctional in the real world, and a feeling that I think I've realised is a constant anxiety. Or bottled rage sometimes. And an inability to even sit for long enough to watch something or play a game. That's when I start learning into the endless scroll of the virtual world hard.

And there I start looking for outlets for all of my rage. Not picking my battles but standing on my hill(s) and calling all challengers. I fight for things that I believe in and not just aimlessly but at the same time, I feel aware that I'm also doing it selfishly, so that I've got something to do with all of the continuous anxiety and unease and general feeling like shit.

And now I'm here. I've had my medicine and now I feel like I've been unhinged (more than usual), howling under a full moon that lasted two weeks. And now I facepalm about it, not for what I've said but for how and why and when. Maybe even who.

I don't have the means to get diagnosed with anything at this present point, but I'm fairly convinced now that one reason it's taken me so long to realise that not everything is ok; is because my continuous weed use has not only been alleviating things for me on a chemical level, it also makes it easier for me to pretend that all systems are running normally or that my specs are the same as everyone I have to meet and talk to. That I don't actually feel like a stranger all the time, even if I've known you for years.

 

Having just experienced my first comment removals without any sort of notification or explanation, I was suddenly reminded of how things went down on Reddit during the API thing and people's attitude towards it.

Do you know why the API thing failed to cause a mass exodus? Because the moderators were spearheading it. The same people that have been doing things like setting up automod with buzzwords because they're too busy collecting subs to control to actually do their jobs, and silently removing non rule breaking comments without notification or explanation, and being cold unfriendly dickheads whenever you questioned them; suddenly these assholes were asking us to all join them in solidarity and feel sorry for them over their lost modding tools in 3rd party apps.

And it made me realise that a good majority of these moderators that spent years on Reddit campaigning for less transparency and helping to turn it into the shit hole it is now, are probably here on Lemmy.

I don't know where exactly I'm going with this other than to say that I'm seeing things here with new eyes now. Just wanted to get these fun facts off my chest and remind everyone about who we're actually dealing with here.

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Decided to stay (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

There's no posting to your own profile here on Lemmy, so I hope it's alright that I use this space to just dump some shit that no one cares about.

I was going to migrate to mbin or somewhere with more features than base Lemmy, and I also wanted to be able to see downvotes, but I've decided that in spite of those things, I think I'll stick around for a while.

As far as Lemmy forks go, I think I'm just going to keep an eye on them for a while until they're a little further along in development and have more app support. I'm keeping an eye on PieFed in particular but for now, while I'm still new here, I think I'm going to stick with base Lemmy for at least my first year.

As far as downvotes go, I have realised that I just do not care anymore. And I like not caring.

So I can live with just not seeing downvotes anywhere in exchange for a good local feed that can teach me and keep me sane in these fucked up times ahead. And honestly, I've noticed that I even like the 'All' feed better here than when I was on world.

Thanks for attending my monologue. I might edit this with other random shit that has no place along the way.

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submitted 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 

I hope that this is the right place for this, please let me know if there's somewhere more appropriate because I'm not sure where it actually fits.

Let me just start this off by saying, I recognise that these are kids movies and I also thank these movies for bringing me back into the franchise and revisiting such a big part of my childhood. In fact what's great is that it's introducing a new generation of kids to it.

Just finished Sonic the Hedgehog 3 and after spending the last 6+ months (re)watching all the animated adaptations and (re)playing the games, I really don't think I enjoyed it as much as the first two movies. And I've realised that Sonic has actually been characterized pretty badly here and completely tamed and watered down. And even more so, I feel like this displays a larger problem in mainstream media right now.

Sonic in the '90s and 2000s:

Back in the '90s when I was a kid, we had two Sonic cartoons running at the same time. In both of them, Sonic was an anti-authoritarian "freedom fighter", trying to topple Robotnik's tyranny. One of them had little PSAs like calls to respect those who are different from you or warnings about scammers and false info. It was woke before woke was a thing. The other one involved Robotnik, the tyrant, stomping out free thinking by turning people into robot slaves. A not so subtle message.

In fact even without the cartoons, from the first game it's a pretty easy assumption to make that the little blue guy with the mohawk / spikes that runs around smashing machines and freeing the animals is supposed to be some sort of rebel. I promise that it wasn't too much for my little 7 or 8 year old brain to handle back then.

Then we get to the Modern era of Sonic, which gave us Sonic Adventure with wall to wall heavy metal and cool guitar solos. And little surprises like weed leaves placed in certain locations. And the defacto animated adaptation of this era was Sonic X, where Sonic blatantly shows no respect or even disrespect to authorities fairly regularly. But always with the message of doing the right thing. At one point, he inspires the 'freedom movement' which sees people quitting their jobs by the masses, dyeing and spiking their hair and just living their lives their way (I'd love to know where they got their income from though).

Sonic the Hedgehog movies:

Which brings me to these movies. I had fun watching all of them but now I am realising just how watered down and wrong a lot of the characterisation is. Instead of being about rebellion, it's about 'family'. Instead of heavy metal and weed leaves, it's top 40 pop and McDonald's references. Apart from an Easter egg thrown in here or there like a bone.

And I realised that the characterisation of Sonic, Knuckles and Robotnik are more like Sonic Boom than any game or other adaptation, except with all the adult references and humour removed. And Sonic Boom isn't known for its faithful representations either but still at least has some edge.

The Declawing of Media:

When I look around at the world today, I think that we need anti-authoritarian icons like Sonic the Hedgehog more than ever. But all of the movie studios and all of the artists are beholden to fucking suits that don't want to take any risks in case their precious money flow gets harmed.

And so we're left with a world where the art that used to inspire kids and teenagers to rage against the machine and keep it real has all become safe and boring and paint by the numbers. And so they're being attracted by douchebag podcasters that give them something to rebel against instead.

I feel like the Sonic the Hedgehog movies so far are a great representation of just how stale and corporate everything has become. I believe they call it enshittification. And I'm thinking that maybe Hollywood and the music industry are just as much to blame for the state of affairs today as social media. And not because of the wOkE agENdA but because no one has a fucking spine anymore and everything is trying to chase numbers on charts that go up and down. Enshittification is more than just social media design IMO.

 

It was suggested that I post this idea to the community proper. So I'm just copying and pasting the comment that I made, edited to make it clear which post I'm referencing (which is the next most recent post here anyway). I hope I got the link right in order to work with all of this federation mumbo jumbo.

I’m too new to be making these kinds of suggestions and I’m far from the moderator type myself but multiple times throughout this week, I’ve been thinking that it would be pretty cool if there was an AskBlåhaj. Or even just general Ask Lemmy based here, that could be asking for unwanted attention from shitty people on other instances though.

Not even 24 hours after seeing this post, I’ve seen someone else getting the snark and a non answer for a simple question. And also a Blåhaj user.

As much of a public bathroom as it could be, AskReddit was pretty fun for ‘silly’ questions and general chatting. And a nice place for new users to hang around and gain karma and confidence. But with the gatekeeper neckbeardy types around, maybe what it needs on Lemmy is to be in an instance with rules that promote friendliness and good vibes.

Just an idea to throw out there anyway.

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Mbin support? (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
 

I hope this isn't a question that's already been asked to death, in app search for "mbin" isn't all that helpful.

I'm still in the stages of looking for a permanent home here in the fediverse. So far mbin has really caught my eye because it's basically Lemmy+ for all intents and purposes (at least for mine). I'm not all that happy with what looks like the only Android app though.

So I was wondering if there were any plans to add mbin functionality to any existing Lemmy apps? Even if I used a Lemmy app solely for the 'Threads' or Lemmy section of mbin, then used the web page or only mbin app for everything else, I would be fine with that.

I tried to see if I could sign in with the app that I'm currently using (Eternity), with the kbin.earth instance and no luck. So obviously the API is just that much different.

Are any devs here thinking of expanding their apps in future? Or is there one I've missed? I've seen more than one app with the description "For Lemmy and the Fediverse", but what exactly is meant by "and the Fediverse" is unclear.

 

First the bugs:

  • Trying to edit the top tabs such as rename or rearrange seems to do absolutely nothing, although the changes that you make in settings seem to stick.

  • Changing the default server for the 'Anonymous' account also seems to do nothing. Once again, the setting does stick though.

Observations / suggestion:

I notice that there is a placeholder for 'multicommunities'. And I think I came across one or two other things that are placeholders / leftovers from Infinity. So it's all good, everything from app to the platform itself is WiP.

My suggestion is that for now, while we can't create or add multicommunities and have a bit of variety in our feeds, what about being able to add the local feeds of other instances? So that regardless of which instance I'm signed up in, I can have my Subscribed, Local, All tabs, as well as for eg. a 'World' tab, 'Blåhaj' tab etc. Is this something even remotely possible? Don't think I've seen other apps with this idea either.

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