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[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (2 children)

You need to talk with her, be open address your fears and how you feel about the situation. It will be difficult to address, it needs some delicate wording.

By this I mean make sure that you don't blame her for having the pain, it is not her fault to feel it. It is understandable that she needs someone to rely on, but not at the expense of your own happiness.

There is the chance that she will feel attacked and mistreated. That is a risk when discussing any issue. It is best when you tell her that lately you feel exhausted, you wish you could help more but that you cannot. And that you guys need to find a way to deal with it together. It seems to me she is craving / needing the security and someone to rely on so when discussing the issue ensure her that you are there, you are not removing yourself.

It is also worth noting that you have had time to think about how you feel and what it is that bothers you, she did not have that luxury. For her it will be the first time, that she hears about that. Give her the time she needs, it will take time to adjust, to figure out what she is feeling and how to address the changes that are necessary.

Lastly, if you two can't discuss an issue within your relationship in a civil manner it begs the question, is there a point then? Over the years there will be more issues that have to be discussed, problems need solving and if communication fails then there is more hurt coming.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago

To be fair, they do use the same language often enough when reporting about police shootings. Which does not make it any better though.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 day ago

Agreed on Jia being first. Second for me would be Nikki.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago

The second is best

[–] [email protected] 3 points 6 days ago

Same, never heard of it before this post.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (5 children)

Tbh both. I gather from posts around the issue that Denuvo sucks ass / is not that popular. So now I wonder, why choose to include something that is apparently unpopular and why do people think it is dumb to include.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Whats the deal with Denuvo?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Imagine the carnage, if the headline was correct the way you read it first..

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

A bit harsh to call out the poor admins like that, don't you think?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 week ago

The 'I'm sorry' stuff gets even more on my nerves when I set 3 base rules for the whole session and it has forgotten about them in the very next prompt.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

I get why, there are a lot of trash reviews on the side / in the store. I am going to miss it though.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

All the time on science memes, try going back to 'best of all time'. It can also make modding on mobile quite a pain, when you as a mod can't see the post. Though the failed to load media is, what I have heard not due to the app itself but that the link in the post is broken and the app just has not indexed the post yet. Which is why other apps may show the post correctly because they indexed it before the link broke. However I can not remember where I read that. So it might be completely false.

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