Kirbywithwhip1987

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Grandfather(80) lives alone in village, the house he's living in is 60 years old by now and in the process of decay, for years every time it rains, it's leaking from the ceiling, there are constant problems with electricity and times when the fire almost started since the fuse and cables are directly under the worst leaking place and toilet bowl doesn't work, not to even mention pipe problems. Considering that house is in the recess ground, every time the rain gets harsher there is a risk of flooding so the porch needs to be built. We tried to paint over it and fix the holes but to no use, every time it rains it just gets ruined yet again. This is from 2023, now it's miles worse.

Besides the old small furnace he has no means of warming the house which means that during the winter, it is almost impossible to live there normally and there is no isolation. The only other option he has is the other small house in the yard which is almost 200 years old and almost completely collapsed on it's own with no toilet or anything, it is just a shed for old stuff by this point.

It needs to be renovated almost from the ground up along with isolation, pipes, walls, porch, heating and complete rebuilt of the ceiling which wasn't even made correctly in the first place when they built the house.

They estimated that renovations and everything in total will cost about 30,000$, we managed to accumulate 10,000$ with the help of family and neighbors, and we're aiming to do it by the end of summer considering that the ceiling alone probably won't last another winter and we don't want to leave grandfather in that for another year since he has nowhere else to go.

https://ko-fi.com/kirbyf1987

I'll be setting the starting goal to 5000$.

Thank you in advance to whoever has to help, it really means a lot.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago

Brate u redu je, ja sam isto iz bivše Juge ali delom Srbin, Crnogorac, Bosanac i Makedonac tako da imam skoro od svakog po malo ali uvek samo kažem da sam iz Jugoslavije kad me pitaju stranci.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago (4 children)

From where are you and is it as bad as Eastern Europe and Islamic countries?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago (6 children)

Yeah and honestly if there was a non-asexual LGBT cousin, I'd definitely advice them to just run as far as possible from Eastern Europe and Islamic countries in order to have a normal life because one thing I learned is that you can have most based people imaginable in every aspect who will still act exactly as my great-great-great-grandfather from Victorian times as soon as LGBT is mentioned.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 days ago (8 children)

I honestly don't know what the reaction would be if some cousin turned out (non-asexual) LGBT, maybe they would either try to be polite in front of him or ''pity'' him.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 days ago

I think these types of parades are mostly from Germany and USA where they quite literally have fetish parades and stuff, the problem is many people equal all parades to those.

As for Muslims, they unfortunately always have to go in more LGBT friendly countries, happened in Bosnia but especially in North Africa since there really isn't any hope unless you're asexual. And again, even socialism didn't fix it in many countries so idk what will at this point.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 days ago

Yeah she knows about like Rome and Sparta, but has a big deal of parades and it being shown or 'forced' in public. And yes, she hates is in general, including for straight people, so beyond like a wedding kiss, she'd be against it.

She hates parades because she hates ''seeing people walking half-naked in streets'' and sees no point in it in the countries where they got their rights. Everyone sees it as western thing since the west advocates for it(not for the reasons they think) and most parades and organizations either come from the west or are western aligned so that definitely doesn't help.

It has always been like this in Eastern Europe in general, doesn't have anything to do with right wing nor communism and politics since it was exactly the same in Yugoslavia.

My mother knows about it but she always says that biggest victims of Holocaust and WW2 as a whole were Slavs and other people of Eastern Europe, Chinese, Jews and Roma and doesn't even mention LGBT since she pretty much shares Stalin's opinion about it

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Yeah that's exactly the way everyone looks at it, as western stuff which started to come here after communism, plus the fact that American ambassadors participated in street parades few years ago where people were quite literally half naked doesn't help.

What's the situation in West?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 week ago

I know, and about that, my mother always thought that only straight and asexual ''is normal'', even before me and liked asexuals since she has quite a dislike towards public sexuality, so there isn't any progress made there.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 week ago

My mother already had a flat which my grandparents got for free from Tito.

 
 
 
 
[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

'Assholes' as in? Because asshole can vary from just casually being a dick to being a racist rightoid.

The latter will be extinct, the former pretty much never because it has nothing to do with any ideology.

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As an asexual, I've already talked about how frustrating it is to see how everything's sexualized, but I wanted to talk about other specific stuff and I'm sure other aces will agree with me.

It's honestly so annoying that 2 people of either gender can't be close together without other people thinking that they're totally married or in a relationship and shit. This happened to me personally already, some absolute sickos paired me and my sister after seeing us for the first time just because we were sitting together. I've also had many friends of opposite gender and same thing happened to my brother also, we couldn't even hug our friends without getting the looks

My mother(who is straight and also finds this annoying) talked to us about this and said that this became even worse during recent years and that especially before people used to be a lot more closer with each other in friendly relationships, kisses and hugs were normal friendly gestures. Also for example, she slept(key word: slept) in the same bed with her friends of both genders during high school on sleepovers and she isn't bi, same thing with me as an ace.

Eastern Europe is another special case for close relationships and gestures in terms of hugging, kissing etc (cough Fraternal kiss cough) and some older people especially are so used to it and is completely normal for them.

Allos are generally so annoying about this, they'll watch a movie and see 2 completely random characters and then talk on and on about what would be if these 2 got in a relationship, even if the characters just stood in the same room next to each other or the media is not related to romance at all.

I mean, they sexualized fucking vampires over time, as someone from Balkans, this irks me on so many levels because these things were disgusting non-rotting corpses which spread plague, transformed into shit like bats, insects, rodents etc and drained people. Like no sir, if they were real, they wouldn't be interested in any kind of relationship with you, they'll see you as bloodbag and drain you dry if you didn't already die of plague they brought beforehand.

Same thing goes for many other things which allos sexualized or see in sexual way, be it friendly gestures, closeness with family and friends or just generally normally being together or spending time with someone. Real life isn't a drama TV show where everyone's cheating everybody and sleeping around with anyone they know or meet.

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