FelizTheCat

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My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

Thank you so much, that makes complete sense

I’m good friends with the person I bullied in high school. AMA. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

Usually we just talk about life and whatever. I reconnected with him after finding his profile online after he messaged me.

I’m good friends with the person I bullied in high school. AMA. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

He calls me one and he's nice to me, so possibly

I’m good friends with the person I bullied in high school. AMA. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Definitely not. Even if I thought he was annoying due to his autism and such, I grew up and it's definitely not his fault how I chose to react to his autism

I’m good friends with the person I bullied in high school. AMA. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

I'm straight

I’m good friends with the person I bullied in high school. AMA. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] -3 points 1 week ago (4 children)

I mean, I've talked to him in high school about how he was so annoying and I defended people who bullied him, but since then, we haven't talked about that. I don't like engaging in deep discussion, unfortunately

transmasc, felt dysphoria ever since around age 7-8. ama. in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What exactly did the dysphoria feel like?

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I’m good friends with the person I bullied in high school. AMA. (thelemmy.club)
 

I bullied him back when he was in the closet/a girl in high school for being nerdy. As we grew up, we became friends and I discovered he was a guy now. He’s pretty cool :)

My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 week ago

Yeahhh, hopefully we can still be friends

My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 week ago

Thank you 🙂

My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 week ago

I'm sure it will. I'm now friends with the girl I bullied in high school, who is a trans man now.

My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 week ago

She said we probably wouldn't talk for a while and she needs to process things, but she understands

My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite? in c/[email protected]
[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Thanks! This resonated with me

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My (F) partner (MtF) recently came out as trans. I'm not into women, how do I be polite? (thelemmy.club)
submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
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I'm not really into trans people, so I only date cis men. Not trans men, not nonbinary people, and not women of any kind. However, my former boyfriend is now my girlfriend, and IDK how to tell her I don't like women without her taking it the wrong way.

I wrote:

Hey, L,

I know you're probably asleep, but I kind of needed to talk about something. I want you to know that I fully support you coming out as trans. I think it's good that you're finally your true self. However, I wanted to say that I'm straight. I'm, unfortunately, not that into women, which you are. I'm sorry, it's just my preference. Know, please, that we can still be friends and I can support your true womanly self along the way, but I'm not interested in women and I can't keep dating someone and lying about how I feel.

I hope you understand, E 🙂

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