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Like, why is it so widespread, what causes it, what solutions are available, etc. I don't really know how to ask this question so I hope I'm making sense

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 days ago

Asking the big questions over here. You'll be rich if you find the answer.

[–] [email protected] 32 points 6 days ago (6 children)

Male loneliness is likely partially due to the same reason we are all here; this online outlet for social endorphins is why you were not building up a deficit over the last week and felt the motivation to finally call that person you were thinking about this whole time. That person was a passing thought, and the endorphins hit you might have received is ultimately less than you got from the austere but consistent dose you get from social engagement online.

The only problem is that you are not creating a meaningful personal social network in real life. When you really need such a network in practice, you face the reality of no one to turn to, or less depth and meaning to such connections. Real people are also complex and you must face the reality that no one fits your echo chamber bubble like a place like this. If you act like a down vote or stupid hot take comes across here to people in the real world... you find yourself back here with less options in the future.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 6 days ago (3 children)

People online can be fun and can't hurt you

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[–] [email protected] 64 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (6 children)

Toxic gender norms hurt everyone.

I think this is exacerbated by certain people online who want to capitalize on the issue and scapegoat others (see the manosphere and how they talk about feminism) instead of actually addressing the problem

Edit: a little plug for https://lemmy.ca/c/mensliberation

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[–] [email protected] 124 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (7 children)

Culture of excessive individuality and independence plus macho culture

Lack of intergenerational teaching and connections to help kids mature when growing up

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