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To me it feels like a matured Reddit. (At least most of the time 🙃)

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[–] [email protected] 34 points 1 year ago

More depressing news and Linux enthusiasts.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I miss the content and niche communities of Reddit. Remember you can still be in both as long as you'd like. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Edit: I also am sad that big news events like the Superbowl don't have nice vibrant live threads. Hopefully we have more good content for non Linux peeps.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago

I like it. It's a bit smaller, but that means I can actually read through most of the comments. It's very slightly left of me, which creates good food for thought as well.

It does run of the issue of having a heavier tankie and "both sides bad" presence, but that's preferable to the alternative. I also like that I recognize some users.

Most importantly? I feel like I'm contributing to a conversation here. On Reddit it was just like shouting my opinion into the void.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Compared to Reddit

  • too small. Most communities I’m interested in have too little activity
  • more wholesome. More than once I’ve been shocked at answers that were nice instead of snarky
  • too many UI bugs and unstable, yet somehow much less buggy and more stable than Reddit ever was
  • if you don’t feed the trolls, they go away quickly
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Agreed on point 1 the answer is we all need to create more posts. We can't expect others to do it for us.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (4 children)

Hey in the spirit of the third point, I recently learned that if you put four spaces at the end of a line, you can then do a line break and it'll treat it as a real new line, instead of just moving your second line to the end of your first.
See?
Like this.
Pretty cool stuff.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Actually, reading these comments, this place is starting to feel like reddit.

There's absolutely nothing more Reddit than people on Reddit complaining about Reddit and how everyone else on Reddit is shitty and unreasonable (without supplying any context).

So yeah, it seems Lemmy is right on track.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

I have ended up in a "view all and block" mode rather than a "subscribe to a curated list" mode because of the smaller community. That means I need to block a lot more communities I am not interested in and users that are just... Outside my window of civility or politics that I can handle. Raging tankies, for example.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

My impression is it's got promise but there are a lot of issues that aren't being acknowledged.

The way the federation works on Lemmy has some serious flaws that, until they're addressed, Lemmy will never work nearly as well as reddit did at aggregating content and cultivating a shared community.

That said, it's working fairly well for what it is, it just needs to grow.

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Maybe it’s because there’s less comments, but it’s felt needlessly hostile. Even a small disagreement leads to this weird ‘well you’re obviously a fucking idiot that has nothing worthwhile to say’. I didn’t have that impression when I joined post API BS, but now that I’ve noticed it it’s hard to ignore. A lot of people just reading what they want to read, and drawing conclusions that don’t relate to the immediate action.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (5 children)

That’s unfortunate, because it’s the opposite of my experience. Maybe I just don’t care, and/or I’ve gotten better at spotting the warning signs of trivial bullshit and then ignoring it.

The trolls feel like insecure outsiders who haven’t matured enough to “get” Lemmy. It’s like they know they aren’t taken seriously, and want the imaginary clout they had on Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I get that, and I do my best not to feed the trolls, but it feels like they’ve been growing since I first joined. But just because I ignore it doesn’t mean I don’t notice it.

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[–] [email protected] 28 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I feel like half of the people on here are 45yo Linux sysadmins, and the other half are Germans

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

The sheer quantity of German memes never ceases to amaze me.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

Yeah, my level of German has increased just reading them all 🇩🇪

And I like their pasta thing

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (6 children)

Link? What’s their “pasta thing”?

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (3 children)
[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I’m not convinced of that. I know more female users of Lemmy in real life than I know male users, and I’ve seen other women on here plenty.

I think some people are assuming that all the Linux nerds are men, when there are a fair number of women in there who just aren’t identifying their gender in a post about ProxMox.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Idk i might be a women. All these other dudes could be women as well. Why does it matter anyways.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I don't really care about the gender of commenters on here as they are literally just walls of text and nothing more to me anyway.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Very few women => discussions relevant to women are sparse => I have to go to other non-lemmy communities for such discussions

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

True ig, but if you also post the stuff on here then it'll be all the more reason for other women to come here 🤷

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I find it more neckbeard than Reddit, and I mean that in the most offensive way. Reddit was big enough that there were lots of places they either didn’t participate or were so rare as to not be annoying. They’re everywhere here on the big, fully federated servers.

By the same token, the semi-federated, more restrictive instances (yes, I mean beehaw) are actually quite nice places and really does feel like a mature place to casually discuss things.

In general, though, lemmy is a desert or ghost town of vibrant niche, non-IT focused communities with regular participation.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

How are we defining "neckbeard" here? Actual assholes, bigots, angry hateful people? Or we just using that as a catch all for tech enthusiasts? I see a lot of conflating between the two.

The tech crowd is always there first. They're the early adopters, so yeah, place is gonna have a lot of those. That was true on Reddit in its early days too. That goes hand in hand with a move to a decentralized platform like this. I'm continually puzzled by people that seem to think this is unusual. We came here to escape a centralized, increasingly walled and corporate controlled space...so yeah, lots of tech enthusiasts, FOSS-heads, and Linux users will be here. Where else would they be?

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It feels like 20 year olds.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

That's funny, I'm 20 and to me it feels like mostly 45 year olds lol

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

It’s a bit like you read a news story about something that happened in Australia, and all the comments are about second amendment rights and the Supreme Court. So pretty much normal Internet.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

It'll be interesting to see what happens on as the election season heats up in the US. Are smaller communities subject to astroturfing?

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago (7 children)

My overall analysis is positive. Not a full perfect score, but better than Reddit. (Note: ++/+/=/-/-- indicated in comparison with Reddit, not in absolute terms.)

  • [++] Migrating to avoid bad admins works great in practice. And it imposes a limit on how shitty any admin team can be, as nobody wants to see mass exodus from their instances.
  • [=] Your typical Lemmy moderator is as clueless as the Reddit one on things like transparency and nurturing a good relationship with the other users.
  • [--] Mod tools? Which mod tools?
  • [-] Overall less content, even if you're in an instance that doesn't defed other instances willy-nilly. It's still enough to keep you entertained across the day, as casually glancing across threads.
  • [++] The userbase used to be better, but it's still leagues above the one in Reddit. Your typical Lemmy user seems way more eager to understand what others say, abler to follow a simple reasoning without "I dun unrurrstand" tier idiocy, and less eager to boss you around with uncalled advice.
  • [=] Same fucking love for genetic fallacies here as in Reddit.
  • [-] Witch hunting is actually worse here than it is in Reddit.
  • [-] As well as intrusive political discussion in non-political posts and communities.
[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 year ago (6 children)

A genetic fallacy is a claim that something is true/false based on its origin. It's a catch-all term for ad hominem, appeal to authority, appeal to novelty/tradition, etymological fallacy, so goes on.

Users in both Reddit and Lemmy really, really love to engage in this fallacy. I don't know why, but if I had to take a guess, it's because taking into account the origin of a claim in a non-fallacious way prevents them from voicing certainty on a matter, and plenty here/there have an irrational hatred against doubt.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Seems to me that for validating information on subjects that one isn't an expert in, source would be important.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Ah interesting, never heard that term. I was thinking it was believing that x race has a smaller brain or something, but I was gonna say I hadn't run across too many white supremacists on lemmy.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Yeah, the "genetic" there isn't related to our chunks of DNA, it's there for "origin". Think on it as "the fallacy of the genesis of the argument".

When it comes to racism Lemmy is way better than Reddit, since the typical user here has better reading comprehension. In Reddit you can outright say something racist and nobody will bat an eye, as long as you avoid easy-to-spot words like slurs; here it doesn't work. Same deal with transphobia, misogyny etc.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

I'm still put off by the sheer lack of comments on some communities like the main videos community on lemmy.world, where videos that'll have tens of thousands of comments on Reddit will have 100 votes, but 1-2 comments.

I miss a lot of niche subreddits like /r/HajimeNoIppo, /r/BJJ, and /r/IBS, but I can live without. What would be great is if the big communities had more engagement.

There also seems to be a lot of duplication of communities across instances. While I get the whole decentralised thing, it's pretty pointless to not have a mechanism to merge/join communities across instances that have the same topic. Why should lemmy.world and kbin have two competing pro-wrestling communities when neither gets a lot of posts/comments?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why should lemmy.world and kbin have two competing pro-wrestling communities when neither gets a lot of posts/comments?

This wouldn't be an issue with more users overall, but more importantly, it's not "competition". I agree there should be something to help meld together similar communities, but what we don't want is there to be only one community. That was a huge problem with reddit: there was typically one sub, and that sub was as only as good as it's moderation, while none of the alternative subs would ever seriously grow. So terrible mods were entrenched in the big subs, while no one would ever get directed to the alternatives.

Hell, you want to talk about /r/videos, the moderation over there was absolutely terrible. They removed videos for any reason they felt like and curated a toxic community. But no alternative videos sub could ever take off, because /r/videos was always there, taking the traffic.

We don't want that here.

Communities need cross posting but they absolutely don't need consolidating.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Overall it's ok. The quality of the comments on articles is way better.

The worst part for me as I've detailed in similar threads is that the goldrush to claim all the popular subreddit names makes all those places feel hollow. Most have very little in common with their namesakes and are "anything goes!" communities which leads to homogeny. This is made worse by the internet's apparent need to copy every post from reddit

The other "issue" I have is that with federation comes cross posts and that means seeing the same thing 5 times in a row while browsing All. I don't blame the posters here but it feels like a missed opportunity to properly implement crossposting (like....one post, multiple comment sections)

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