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The rarest Pepe of the all.
I am the Senate now!
~ Chancelor Palpetine
Every society is three hot meals away from chaos.
"You can be the juiciest, ripest peach in the world, but some people just funny like peaches."
"Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard"
I was once asked why I don't participate in anti-war demonstrations. I said that I will never do that, but as soon as you have a pro-peace rally, I'll be there.
Yes, I know Mother Theresa isnβt well liked, and for good reason, but I like this quote. It shows you how framing your words and actions can impact how they are perceived by others. It makes you think.
Hope is not a strategy.
It's better to beg forgiveness than ask permission.
A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.
"The purpose of discipline is to live more fully, not less"
Hope is the first step on the road to disappointment.
Cynical is a word used by the frightened to describe the realistic.
"Growing hurts... but it's always worth the pain."
-My sister
The only peace you will find at the top of a mountain is the peace you bring there with yourself.
There's a guy on Youtube by the name of Chris Boden. Slightly controversial figure but he seems to mean well. A video of his that seemed to be venting/reconciling himself included the phrase
"So you wake up one morning in your impact crater and you start. Again."
the ironic thing about common sense is that it is not that common.
Sometimes life's a bitch and you keep on living.
"The only person who won't fire you is you."
"Silence deafens everything." At first it seems counterintuitive, but being silent can "deafen" those around you (or society) to an issue or problem.
And my friends dad commented on his wanderlust need : "It doesn't matter where you travel to, you will never get away from yourself"
Confident, Cocky, Lazy, Dead.
The serial killer in the Tad Williams books, but it makes sense to me.
"Let everything happen to you
Beauty and terror
Just keep going
No feeling is final."
-- Rainer Maria Rilke
This was used at the end of the movie Jojo Rabbit (one of my favorite movies btw). I often remember this line when I feel like everything is going wrong. It helps me hold on to hope.
Reminds me of bash.org RIP https://bash-org-archive.com/?top
- "Where ever you go, there you are"
- "We have just enough fuel to make it to the crash site"
- "Ruh-Rouh"
- "Deny, Deny, Deny - Until you believe!"
- "A Rule without Enforcement is just wishful thinking"
- "When life gives you lemons- BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD"
- "Ignoring a alert is the same as normalizing alerts, if it's important, don't ignore it, if it's not important don't alert for it"
- "Follow the money" - Gripping Hand I think
- "Premature optimization is the root of all evil" - Knuth maybe
- "Once you know something is possible, doing it becomes a exercise in persistence."
- "Science isn't what other people say, its what YOU can observe"
"There's no such thing as retard/idiot proof, only retard/idiot resistant."
'A business should never buy idiot proof systems they should just stop hiring idiots"
I don't have time for-/I didn't have time to-
What you are really saying is, "I didn't prioritize-" and that's OK sometimes. But be real with it. Sometimes it's OK to prioritize other things, but when you start rephrasing it this way, you realize that you may be putting yourself, your partner, your kids, your family, in second or even third place.
Rage, rage against the dying of the light.
The whole poem by Dylan Thomas is fantastic but that line in particular often pops into my head during difficult times, like these.
Maya Angelou: "Do your best until you know better, then do better"
Actually this one and I just saw it on Lemmy too. As a life long Trek fan I have this quote in my head quite often.
I love the French saying "C'est la vie".
Shuts down a lot of people nagging.
"The sun will rise and set regardless of your life""
Your dog might not be your entire life, but you are the entire life of your dog
That is exactly the same for your kids, it is not until their world expands a bit when they are 3-5YO; before that you are literally everything to them.
Thats a good one, also along the lines "In our dogs eyes we are the immortal elves."
Yeah, that's a good one too.
Every time I think about how important we are to them and how loyal they are, I end up thinking about the "Jurrasic Bark" episode in Futurama π
Lol F you, I'm not clicking on that π’
(breathe in)
Gusfraaaaaba.
(Breathe out)
βBe excellent to each otherβ.
"How active you are in middle-age determines how active you will be able to be in old age. And that applies to any given decade of one's life.
Meanwhile, on Lemmy, we got people whining about sore backs and knees once they turn 30.
Work with elderly. Use it or lose it.
Amount of people who struggle to walk because they got in a wheelchair at some point is fucking high
"Those who never try, never find out"
In a similar line, "the world belongs to the brave"
I give myself a "Dammit, Steve" from Life Aquatic maybe twice a week. I'm a woman, and my name isn't Steve.
I've also got a lot of mileage out of, "everyone knows when you make an assumption, you make an ass out of you and umption."
Similar with "get up, Trinity" from The Matrix's opening scene.
Oh nice, I knew "when you assume you make an ass of u and me"
The standard you walk past is the standard you accept