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For me, a few come to mind:

  • "You're imagining everybody in this story way more attractive than they actually were."

It was posted somewhere on one of those spicy subreddits under some affair threesome story. And it sort if clicked with me. Like look around, normal people on the street don't all look like supermodels. And supermodels don't lurk around in reddit comment sections. It really put things into perspective for me.

  • "Life isn't short, it's the longest thing you'll ever do."

It is a bit uplifting to realize that no matter if you have bad or good period in your life, it is only a short chapter contained in the longest time period possible for you to experience.

There were a few others that I probably can't remember of the top of my head right now.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 12 hours ago

The rarest Pepe of the all.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 14 hours ago

I am the Senate now!

~ Chancelor Palpetine

[–] [email protected] 2 points 16 hours ago

Every society is three hot meals away from chaos.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 17 hours ago

"You can be the juiciest, ripest peach in the world, but some people just funny like peaches."

"Hard work beats talent when talent doesn't work hard"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 19 hours ago

I was once asked why I don't participate in anti-war demonstrations. I said that I will never do that, but as soon as you have a pro-peace rally, I'll be there.

Yes, I know Mother Theresa isn’t well liked, and for good reason, but I like this quote. It shows you how framing your words and actions can impact how they are perceived by others. It makes you think.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 21 hours ago

Hope is not a strategy.

It's better to beg forgiveness than ask permission.

A human being should be able to change a diaper, plan an invasion, butcher a hog, conn a ship, design a building, write a sonnet, balance accounts, build a wall, set a bone, comfort the dying, take orders, give orders, cooperate, act alone, solve equations, analyze a new problem, pitch manure, program a computer, cook a tasty meal, fight efficiently, die gallantly. Specialization is for insects.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

"The purpose of discipline is to live more fully, not less"

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago

Hope is the first step on the road to disappointment.

Cynical is a word used by the frightened to describe the realistic.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

"Growing hurts... but it's always worth the pain."

-My sister

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

The only peace you will find at the top of a mountain is the peace you bring there with yourself.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

There's a guy on Youtube by the name of Chris Boden. Slightly controversial figure but he seems to mean well. A video of his that seemed to be venting/reconciling himself included the phrase

"So you wake up one morning in your impact crater and you start. Again."

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

the ironic thing about common sense is that it is not that common.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Sometimes life's a bitch and you keep on living.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

"The only person who won't fire you is you."

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

"Silence deafens everything." At first it seems counterintuitive, but being silent can "deafen" those around you (or society) to an issue or problem.

And my friends dad commented on his wanderlust need : "It doesn't matter where you travel to, you will never get away from yourself"

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

Confident, Cocky, Lazy, Dead.

The serial killer in the Tad Williams books, but it makes sense to me.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

"Let everything happen to you
Beauty and terror
Just keep going
No feeling is final."
-- Rainer Maria Rilke

This was used at the end of the movie Jojo Rabbit (one of my favorite movies btw). I often remember this line when I feel like everything is going wrong. It helps me hold on to hope.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Reminds me of bash.org RIP https://bash-org-archive.com/?top

  • "Where ever you go, there you are"
  • "We have just enough fuel to make it to the crash site"
  • "Ruh-Rouh"
  • "Deny, Deny, Deny - Until you believe!"
  • "A Rule without Enforcement is just wishful thinking"
  • "When life gives you lemons- BLOOD FOR THE BLOOD GOD"
  • "Ignoring a alert is the same as normalizing alerts, if it's important, don't ignore it, if it's not important don't alert for it"
  • "Follow the money" - Gripping Hand I think
  • "Premature optimization is the root of all evil" - Knuth maybe
  • "Once you know something is possible, doing it becomes a exercise in persistence."
  • "Science isn't what other people say, its what YOU can observe"
[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"There's no such thing as retard/idiot proof, only retard/idiot resistant."

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

'A business should never buy idiot proof systems they should just stop hiring idiots"

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

I don't have time for-/I didn't have time to-

What you are really saying is, "I didn't prioritize-" and that's OK sometimes. But be real with it. Sometimes it's OK to prioritize other things, but when you start rephrasing it this way, you realize that you may be putting yourself, your partner, your kids, your family, in second or even third place.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Rage, rage against the dying of the light.

The whole poem by Dylan Thomas is fantastic but that line in particular often pops into my head during difficult times, like these.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 1 day ago

This is my favorite reading of it. Gives me goosebumps. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ESWzPhZWYeI

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago

Maya Angelou: "Do your best until you know better, then do better"

[–] [email protected] 42 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Actually this one and I just saw it on Lemmy too. As a life long Trek fan I have this quote in my head quite often.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 20 hours ago

I love the French saying "C'est la vie".

Shuts down a lot of people nagging.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago

"The sun will rise and set regardless of your life""

[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Your dog might not be your entire life, but you are the entire life of your dog

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

That is exactly the same for your kids, it is not until their world expands a bit when they are 3-5YO; before that you are literally everything to them.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Thats a good one, also along the lines "In our dogs eyes we are the immortal elves."

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Yeah, that's a good one too.

Every time I think about how important we are to them and how loyal they are, I end up thinking about the "Jurrasic Bark" episode in Futurama 😭

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AK3PWHxoT_E

[–] [email protected] 14 points 1 day ago

Lol F you, I'm not clicking on that 😒

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

(breathe in)

Gusfraaaaaba.

(Breathe out)

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 day ago

β€œBe excellent to each other”.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"How active you are in middle-age determines how active you will be able to be in old age. And that applies to any given decade of one's life.

Meanwhile, on Lemmy, we got people whining about sore backs and knees once they turn 30.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 day ago

Work with elderly. Use it or lose it.

Amount of people who struggle to walk because they got in a wheelchair at some point is fucking high

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"Those who never try, never find out"

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 day ago

In a similar line, "the world belongs to the brave"

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I give myself a "Dammit, Steve" from Life Aquatic maybe twice a week. I'm a woman, and my name isn't Steve.

I've also got a lot of mileage out of, "everyone knows when you make an assumption, you make an ass out of you and umption."

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Similar with "get up, Trinity" from The Matrix's opening scene.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 day ago

Oh nice, I knew "when you assume you make an ass of u and me"

[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 day ago

The standard you walk past is the standard you accept

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