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[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

This is really good advice. Your mom sounds smart.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 1 month ago

Sounds smart. Most burglaries happen by people you know.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 month ago

Mine still do, I still post.

[–] [email protected] 22 points 1 month ago

still relevant

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

Osint's a bitch

[–] [email protected] 57 points 1 month ago

It is a decent cyber security trick.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 month ago

Well besides the fact that AOL didn't work that way, I've never been "on holiday" in my life.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

hmmm, my family couldn't afford vacations. when we visited family out of state we'd always have someone house sit to take care of the animals. usually a neighbor.

being the youngest boy and the biggest lover of animals, i became the default to do that for out neighbors when they were out.

it was a lovely little neighborhood.

but also, back then social media was young and pretty much only young people were on it. for my parents to give me advice about what to put on my blogspot or Facebook would have made me guffaw. hell, correctly identifying the platform and that one could share vacation plans on it would have been a big ask.

[–] [email protected] 60 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Hm...

What if I post about going on vacation but what I'm really doing is setting up an elaborate system of Home Alone style traps? 🤔

[–] [email protected] 37 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

Thanks Obama.

[–] [email protected] 45 points 1 month ago (2 children)

That geoguesser guy in YouTube made a point to say this while pinpointing the exact location (down to the same table) of a photo a fan sent him while on vacation

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 month ago
[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Did the fan send the picture knowing who he was?

[–] [email protected] 21 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Still funny. Thanks for the clarification.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago

My mom use to say watch out putting a loved one in the obituaries because people will rob your house knowing you’ll be gone that morning.

[–] [email protected] 82 points 1 month ago (4 children)

She’s young enough to have been born in the social media era. My parents didn’t have to worry about posting because the internet wasn’t a thing back then.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 month ago

We had lights on timers. Neighbors took in the mail. Alarm system over copper phone wire. Low income 80s household.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 month ago (1 children)

My parents would make sure to suspend the newspaper subscription so it wouldn't accumulate at the door, indicating you have been away for some time

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 month ago

Or ask a neighbour to collect your mail, and take in your bins.

I used to use gpo timers to cycle my lamps to simulate occupancy, home alone style.

[–] [email protected] 47 points 1 month ago (2 children)

My mom still taught me this without using socials herself, the concept of not letting potentially malicious people know you're not home (by e.g. leaving your lights on) goes back further than the internet.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 month ago

yup, grew up always leaving a light on in the house when we were out. my dad always half-joked about putting "trash removal" signs on work trucks to keep people from sniffing around for tools to sell

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 month ago

My dad had a friend whose apartment would frequently be broken into. So he started leaving the TV on 24/7, and he never had a break-in again while he lived there.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 month ago

God I'm old

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 month ago

You guys got to go on holidays?

[–] [email protected] 84 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Can also post pictures of you on vacation when you're not. See who shows up the house.

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 month ago

This is brilliant

[–] [email protected] 207 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Honestly this is good advice tho. Wait until you've returned to post all of your vacation pics.

[–] [email protected] 111 points 1 month ago

OPSEC; operational security. Don’t tell people anything that they could use to victimize you. If you want to share, share things that won’t affect you (such as sharing after everything’s done).