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Let me preface this by saying I am a man, and smoked a little too much, so I'm sitting here thinking... what is or was the original purpose of a bra? Weight support? Vanity? Covering the nips so people's eyes met your eyes and you can have a normal conversation? Like what's it all about?

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[–] [email protected] 35 points 2 months ago (3 children)

I wear a bra because I feel weird when my tits are bouncing freely in public, or when I know that others can see my nipples. I don't think there's anything inherently wrong with going braless, but I definitely have been conditioned to feel weird about it, and it's hard to shake.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 2 months ago

Have you ever tried running balls free, same idea.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

You mean where the tassel goes?

[–] [email protected] 72 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (7 children)

Edit: context: a big part of it is weight support.

I’ve got a childhood friend who got a reduction because she had back problems after she went through puberty, and it basically led to her having chronic pain for a while in college. She’s WAY happier at a C-cup than whatever size she had before.

Edit: curious what the downvotes are for. This is absolutely a real thing. Downvoting me for sharing a thing that real people actually struggle with isn’t going to make them struggle with it less. And on the hunch that the downvotes are dudes: if you have a female partner, or a female friend who you can ask these sorts of things to, ask them to confirm that it is real, and they will be happy to.

[–] [email protected] 58 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

Probably because it does nothing to answer the question and the only relating component is that you're talking about boobs.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 2 months ago

I intended on tying that into weight support, but I suppose that wasn’t terribly clear

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 months ago (1 children)

My favourite part of threaded platforms is the arbitrary and tangential discourse

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I wouldn't have brought it up if they hadn't asked 🤷‍♂️

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 months ago (3 children)

Upvoted, friend. And happy your friend is doing better and is happier, but if a C is her happy place, how big were they? That sounds sucky

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 months ago

People down voting you? Do they not realize this is a serious medical condition and does create back pain?

Horny porn brain mfers who don't know how women's bodies work.

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[–] [email protected] 58 points 2 months ago (6 children)

I'm a 36G and wear the bra because it's super annoying to have them sway when I walk. That's the main reason for me. I find it more comfortable to be braless, but I really shouldn't do it in public. It's attracts more attention than I usually want.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago (2 children)

This is why I prefer winter, I can wear my bulky coat and go as braless as I want, despite the 40J I'm suppose to wear

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[–] [email protected] 45 points 2 months ago (1 children)

So there is a fascinating historical rabbit hole here that I went down a few years ago. I think it is Nicole Rudolph who did a deep dive video into the history of bras and other shapewear. If you smoked a lot and like history I recommend it.
Bras and similar garments give the proper ‘shape’ for the clothes and cultural norms of the moment, and give people comfort and support if they need it. Lots of people need something sturdy to keep everything in place, but it’s also still a very grey area of social acceptance to choose not wear one.

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[–] [email protected] 75 points 2 months ago (3 children)

My titties hurt when they bounce too much during hormone shifts. Plus the nipples are really irritating in A/C when they stiffen and feel wormy (dunno how to describe, like a small boner demanding attention) and I also accidentally scratch them without a bra to cover them. Was especially important to have some sort of coverage when I had piercings in them because I almost tore one out brushing my hair. Never healed right after that.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 months ago
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[–] [email protected] 22 points 2 months ago

Can't speak for all, but back pain and comfort. Also, large breasts can have difficulty getting air under there which can cause irritations. Sometimes it's just to keep your breasts off your stomach. I wear sports bras and have "special" bras, but my hatred of bras has really dimished when I accepted sports bra life.

I also just don't like them "loose?" Like, I don't want to bend over and have them go awol, even if I'm at home. Also, can store stuff in the bra and I have dropped my phone on the floor thinking I had a bra to catch it 😭

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