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Let me preface this by saying I am a man, and smoked a little too much, so I'm sitting here thinking... what is or was the original purpose of a bra? Weight support? Vanity? Covering the nips so people's eyes met your eyes and you can have a normal conversation? Like what's it all about?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago
[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 months ago
  • sports: chest binding
  • aesthetics: style choices
  • modesty: cultural views
[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I am someone who has had very large breasts and fairly small breasts in my lifetime. When my boobs were big, wearing bras was manageability and comfort. They were heavy and hurt my back and were always in the way. In addition, it was hard to do any sports or be active without being, what I called, double strapped: having a bra with a sports bra over the top. This is how I got through high school.

Now that I’ve both had a breast reduction and lost a lot of weight, my boobs are smaller and I don’t wear a bra often. When I do, it’s a vanity thing, I think my boobs look better under some clothes when wearing a bra, and a utility thing, like when I’m working out or doing something strenuous. Also, I wear one when I’m at work because it seems more appropriate.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

Make:

  • Bouncy things less bouncy
  • Pokey things less pokey
  • Gravity less gravit-y
[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm thinking this guy has never seen real tits in real life, a teenager, or both. Or just blazed, that I can respect hahahah.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (1 children)

I got stoned enough to forget my age a few months ago… not like for a moment… I consciously focused on it for 15 minutes, couldn’t figure it out, kept pondering the rest of the night and couldn’t remember until the next morning…

I am old enough to occasionally forget my age, not to literally not be able to recall it… so I can empathize if bro is just waaay too stoned to comprehend the concept of a bra haha

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

I just figured it would be an entertaining and informative topic haha

[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I have never needed one for support, but for the past 20, 30 years the US has had some sort of weird rule that only smooth lumps are professional, no hint of actual breast shape. That's easing in non-professional public life, finally, so I don't wear one a lot of the time, but at work wear something with light padding to make that weird Barbie doll lump shape.

Sports bra for running, yes that serves a practical function - holds the boobs still so they don't bounce and hurt. So if one is more endowed and bouncing in everyday life, I imagine that a bra with structural support would be more comfortable than nothing.

I really wanted to answer that the point is right at the front of each cup!

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 months ago (1 children)

It's definitely a me problem, not a you problem, but I do find nips distracting. I'd like to get better at not being distracted by visible nips and I'm here for that journey.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 months ago

I'm okay with being distracted.

If a woman wants to wear a short, short skirt to work, or no bras, then so be it. I will probably stare when no one is looking, but I will for sure remain professional otherwise.

What's the difference between this scenario and having a mesmerizing painting in the common area.

Shit, I'm objectifying women!!!

Let's just say that a dude with a good pair of biceps would be equally distracting, and I wouldn't have an issue with that.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I'm actually quite interested in dress history. I'm an engineer at heart and clothing is fundamentally also an engineering problem (and design of course). It's an area of engineering that was always dominated by women and you can sometimes see the novel approaches that brings.

For example historical corsets were actually quite comfortable when fitted right. One reason why is actually breast support. Predecessors to the modern Bra did exist but were not in fashion as a more compressed looking bust and later a shaped silhouette was in fashion.

Also it's cool what tricks one can use to form the silhouette without extremely compressing the waist (which is how many modern people often think is the function of a corset).

I recommend Bernadettes channel on this topic: link

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

I saw the picture first before reading your comment and thought it was from her channel. Bernadette is awesome.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 months ago (1 children)

bras were a cheaper alternative to corsets. and yes, they were popular and not as oppressive as hollywood would have you believe, and they were considered good for back support. Bras didn't need nearly as much metal or time. And since they were cheaper, they were more common. At least, from things I've heard elsewhere.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 months ago

Can confirm that corsets can be comfy, and particularly good for back pain.

I’ve also actually had a doctor recommend I wear a corset, lol. (Cardiologist recommending abdominal compression to help me black out less.)

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