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[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago (15 children)

Big day today.

Ol' girl is going back home after her 3.5 week stay in hospital. Was only supposed to be 3-5 days.

After seeing her everyday, all I can say is that she really shouldn't be (not in my control). Seeing her last night shook me a bit. Basically she's been refusing 1/2+ the food when there and also refusing supplements (like ensure, resource etc).

Problem is after her head strike a year ago she had a TBI which has caused what they call non amnestic MCI which is a fancy way of saying impaired mind but memory still there. Problem is the only way to slow it down is food and excersise, both of which are not going to be easy.

So taking off work for a bit heading over to p's to see if this will work. I'm not fazed by doing most of the stuff for them (cooking / cleaning / washing etc), really doesn't take much time. Ol' boy will get a cleaner in probably soon.

What I'm mainly worried about is that shift in personality over the last 3 weeks.

For example last night she asked me to turn the light down because she wanted to watch TV. So I did. She said 'that's great', goes around to the other side of the bed and snaps at me 'why is it so dark in here!'. That is not her.

I'm hoping getting some food in her after basically being on a hunger strike will ease that sort of thing up, but if it doesn't then we're in for a ride.

Guess we'll find out.

Thank you all reading this stuff. Not exactly light and airy.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

You are always welcome always to vent and just get it all out here!

It isn't light or airy, no, but it doesn't have to be. This is what is happening in your life and to you, and it is worth talking to people you trust - even if it's just this forum πŸ’œ I get the pain of watching your mum deteriorate, even though my experiences cause was different, and it isn't easy to look after them. The chores are easy, the mental energy and internal stress it takes to just be present and witness to it is draining. I'm so sorry you and your mum and dad are going through this right now, I hope your mum is able to settle down now she is back home and will accept food. Sending you all my love and good vibes, if I could give you some of my mental energy I would do that too πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I’m sorry to hear :(

I wonder if some kind of home support package might come in a bit sooner. But also I know there are many things not in your control and post-release care isn’t always great

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago

AAAARRGHHHHH!

Alarm didn't go off. Still somehow managed to pull off being only a couple of minutes late to work, but that was a major rush. Poor Mr Woof didn't get his morning walk. Not a great start to the day for anyone.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

No sleep !! But heading to the warmth !! I shall give everyone's regards to the sun 🌞🌞

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Good morning Seagoon 🌞

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Good morning 🎢

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

My neighbours 3 stories below me has recently had their first baby, and I'm pretty sure tonight's Sydney Road doof doof bars and clubs aren't the most favourite sounds for that babe - I can faintly hear the sounds of a baby crying over the heavy drums from the bar across the road 😬

I hope they can find a quieter place at some point for their bubs and their own sanity!

Edit: oh wow it's 4am lol incredible least I have no plans

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I think babies get used to background noises in their environment and they just generally cry a lot.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I hope so, I have no experience with infants or small children πŸ˜‚ I just hope the parents can get enough sleep, being sleep deprived is

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