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[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

Good night everyone. ๐Ÿ˜˜

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

so many hugs, just reading your experience made me cry

It's on my watchlist now๐Ÿ’—

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

And about still missing him.

that's because you remember the good times you had together.

so don't feel guilty , hugs

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago

1 doz pies made. That's good for a few days and then I can freeze some too

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 8 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

I love this advice. So much of what we hear at schools and in the workplace and society in general is that people can be only one thing. To be many things , but mainly being your own true self following all your dreams and talents , is a really good thing. ๐Ÿฅฐ

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 9 hours ago

So many hugs.

It's him, really, None of what he did and said was anything like what a friend does. Not even a good ex friend would ever want you to fail.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 9 hours ago

that looks lovely ๐Ÿ”ฅ๐Ÿฅฐ

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I wish, I have so much to do. Gotta finish cleaning up the cat bathroom , got a few loads of washing to fold and put away, pies to make for dinners and lunches and I want to start on my sewing.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 14 hours ago (2 children)

But I have no dick???

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 14 hours ago

That is a lot of chilies ๐Ÿ”ฅ

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

I agree and insecurity is crazy. This guy has a phd in sciences. What would it take to make him feel secure.

I suppose I can answer that. Controlling and keeping intelligent women in their place.

So why doesn't he marry uneducated women? I suppose because it makes him feel smart to control a smart woman and he wouldn't feel smart to control an uneducated woman.

Always, always there's an undercurrent of physical intimidation in these cases. ๐Ÿ˜ก It's subtle tho.

[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (8 children)

So I went to see friends last night, I always look forward to seeing the wife of the couple, she's becoming a good friend and I hope I am a friend to her. The guy is a childhood friend of my husband.

And the guys grew up being the smartest person at school and they are both pretty successful in their sci or math respective fields.

here's the thing, the men both treat me like an idiot, or should I say, they both expend quite a bit of energy to keep me in my place

and I really don't give a shit,

but I noticed the guy treats his wife just as poorly as he treats me, worse since it's all the time. At first I thought it was just explaining a difficult scientific subject but it's everything she does.

She's a highly educated and experienced lawyer who is fluent in 3 languages. She's no idiot. And even if she was you don't talk to people like that.

It just saddens me.

and doesn't surprise me, rude men tend to hang with other rude men

all I can do is continue be a friend with her

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