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Malicious Compliance

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People conforming to the letter, but not the spirit, of a request. For now, this includes text posts, images, videos and links. Please ensure that the “malicious compliance” aspect is apparent - if you’re making a text post, be sure to explain this part; if it’s an image/video/link, use the “Body” field to elaborate.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

hah, this one is funny!

Also, echoing @[email protected]'s comment below (unfortunately you can't sticky comments on lemmy): comments that express hate towards any group are a violation of instance guidelines. BE NICE.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

What is protest part? Not sure it is malicious compliance either because contestant was not rebirthed as woman. Not that it's possible unless you are buddhist.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

I'd be more interested in protesting the fact that it's now legal to grope women in Italy.

The landmark decision involved a school janitor who jammed his hand into a 17 year old girl's panties.

Pick the hill you want to die on.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

I'm sure they care about both of those things.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago

"Why do this one good thing when you should be doing another good thing instead?"

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago

Ok sure. But it's not really an effective protest as they're fulfilling the requirement to enter the competition. Because the competition is steered by judges they will simply eliminate the trans men in the first round.

The rule is there to make sure the judges are not sexually aroused when they see a trans woman.

A greater means of protest would be if the non-trans competitors all quit the pageant. But their look is their only talent, so they won't.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago

This is a pretty awesome way to protest and show solidarity. These trans men are ballsy as fuck and I salute them.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Has anyone ever seen a "woman from birth"? Like a whole-ass adult woman popping out of somebody not appreciably larger than her? Ready for a beauty pageant at zero minutes old?

Completely independent of gender, people should know that "women" are adults and have zero overlap with "children" or especially "newborn infants".

Or is this a bad translation from the Italian?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

He is like: "I used the transphobia to destroy the transphobia"

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 years ago (11 children)

Mod here. Just want to openly and unequivocally state... I will remove your comment if you're transphobic. I will refer to trans people to let me know if you are being transphobic. I will ban you if you make an egregiously off colour comment. and I will take pleasure in doing this. Fuck your transphobic bullshit, go somewhere else. Nobody wants you here.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Thank you for not being reddit.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

What a hero

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Bruh, just do your job/hobby. Mods acting high and mighty is a big part of what made reddit so toxic.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

The good thing about Lemmy you can move to another instance with free speech.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago (1 children)

This is free speech. They get to say what they please. They are not free from the consequences of those words however. I, as a private citizen and not a governmental actor, can censor them.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

I disagree, free speech means the right to express any opinions and ideas without censorship or restraint even if you find them offensive.

You said you will remove any comment that is transphobic and ban if "you make an egregiously off colour comment".

That is not free speech, and it's ok. Your instance, your rules.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 year ago

Censorship and restraint from the government. This isn't that, so the consequences are not covered.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Free speech is about the government not being able to restrict your speech. Guess what? Lemmy isn't the government.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (2 children)

They can say what they want without restraint or restriction. They are not free from the consequences of their words.

They can say what they like. We can ban them if we don't like it. That's how free speech works in a consequentialist society (modern Western society is a synthesis of consequentialism and contractualism).

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

That's literally not free speech. If I say I like to eat broccoli every day and that people should try it for health reasons and you're some kind of carnivore mod and it tickles you the wrong way and you block me for it... That's censorship and the opposite of free speech.

You're telling me that you control the narrative. Now there's nuance to censorship for sure, but you're telling me that if you don't like what I say I'm out. I have to type within the confines of the bubble of what isn't too uncomfortable for you.

I say let the downvotes do the talking. If I go on the electric vehicles instance talking about how (non-ironocally) I love to roll coal and how that's what's keeping me from trying EVs, I expect to be downvoted into the shadow realm. And that's ok. What I'm not ok with is a mod assuming that my voice sucks and that I don't deserve to be heard. Maybe some smart lemmier(?) will point out some doodad that makes a brrr noise and shoots out some harmless mist or something.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago

You have the right to be an asshole. Mods have the right to ban you for being an asshole.

Making out that they're nasty for having some standards of behaviour in their area is calling good bad and bad good.

(Censorship is when local or national government put you in prison for protesting or ban your book or ban your ideas. That's when your free speech rights are being infringed.)

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

Censor and banning opinions and ideas you don't like is anti free speech.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

You were allowed to say it. I'm allowed to remove it. Welcome to the world. Don't like it? Leave.

But also: nobody in the world actually likes the idea of absolutist free speech. The founding fathers certainly didn't believe in such an idea.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Friend, I appreciate your mod efforts, and I support 100% what you're doing here.

Having said that, I think there is a misalignment in terms of free speech definitions.

What I think you're saying is that people are free to express themselves, and the government (in the U.S., Italy, Argentina, wherever) will not censor you for that. However, a consequence of that is that you can ban them. Fair enough.

But people are not referring to the free speech in the country, region or whether. They're specifically referring to the exercising of free speech in the community you are moderating. You're saying that "there is free speech here," then it follows that transphobic comments should be allowed (something I wouldn't like because fuck transphobes.) But since you remove comments that don't align with the community, then the community doesn't have free speech - and that's okay. I'm just referring to the contradiction: "you're allowed to say what you want, but I will ban you if you say this or that" - welp, that just means that "this or that" is not allowed.

I think that's what the other commenters are saying. They're not criticizing you for removing comments. They're calling out that removing comments (as a consequence of speech) and claiming that there is free speech, well no, technically it isn't.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago

This is my job: to make perfectly clear what is and isn't allowed. In no uncertain terms I will make sure this place is as free from transphobia as possible.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Uhhh???? Based??????????

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Fucking A right. n

You are amazing, brave people and deserve a place in society where you are loved . M

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago
[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Thank you so much!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 years ago

Cis guy here. Based mod.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago

God bless it I fucking love lemmy! 😄

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Thanks for everything you do to keep this community safe. I know it can't be easy.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

idk, I just got to yeet like at least a handful of transphobes into oblivion so.... was pretty fun.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago

It's important to find work that also nourishes your soul.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Elia Bonci, who also spoke to la Repubblica, said: “I took courage, used my deadname and signed up for Miss Italy because fighting transphobia is intersectional and even though I’m not a trans woman, I’ve decided to fight for their rights.”

much respect to all that followed!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'm confused. If they are using a dead name how are they not trans?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

They are trans men, who the organizers consider women as opposed to the trans women who can't compete because they consider them men.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'm gonna need a pen and paper for this one.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'll summarize:

  • The contest organizers don't accept trans women (AKA assigned male at birth, transitioned to female)

  • This means that they are being transphobic, they aren't treating trans women as women.

  • The person in the article is the opposite, assigned female at birth and transitioned to male. AKA a trans man.

  • This person is considered a woman by the beauty contest despite identifying as male.

  • He entered the beauty contest as a form of protest and to bring attention to the blatant transphobia.

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