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Growing up in the 2000s fucked my brain hard. The sexism, homophobia and racism coupled with the free-range parenting that was simultaneously neglectful while gaslighting everyone into thinking that it was too coddling, and an internet that simply did not give a fuck who it traumatized. All topped off with a resurgence of Western jingoism from the "war in terror".

The only good thing about that period was some of the videogames were okay I guess but only if you avoid ANYTHING remotely military flavoured. A lot of shit outside of Nintendo was afraid of colour and everything was that washed out brown. Just a miserable time. Everyone was so uncreative and the world had some fucked up Southpark brainworms.

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[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 days ago (3 children)

I just saw an extremely cringy post in the modlog that reminded me of how much I hated that whole Maddox edgelord garbage that was so popular online at the time cringe

The only thing I'm willing to give Maddox is that he liked Ikaruga, one of the greatest games ever.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 5 days ago

Elder scrolls n mgs 3 was peak fam

[–] [email protected] 34 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

I just want to appreciate that in the span of two years we have:

Y2K - Not a real threat but I was young and it felt like it could be real
9/11
Post 9/11 Anthrax

If you really want to be technical:

  • Bush stole the election
  • Y2K
  • 9/11
  • Anthrax

By 2004 we have the War on Terror. By 2007 we have Virginia Tech and the financial crisis. 2000-2010 was one hell of a decade.

That's not listing all the other stuff. Creationism in schools, Katrina, The Tsunami, Covid Part 1, Dotcom bubble, Enron, Columbia Shuttle Explosion. It just fucking goes on and on. It was a decade where decades happened. There was no social media to get a sense of 'The discourse" either. You just went off cable news, online news papers, blogs, and whatever shit your classmates/coworkers and parents were talking.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Don't forget Trump had a reality TV show where contestants had to win business mini games. It aired on the exact same network as Aaron Sorkin's The West Wing.

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[–] [email protected] 52 points 5 days ago (1 children)

It’s really impossible to overstate how much damage South Park did to an entire generation. To this day I see ripples of it. At the time I was oblivious, but looking back, god damn.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 5 days ago

The music was awful. Hip-hop was like the only genre not completely garbage, but then you still had bullshit like Eminem getting called the GOAT.

Also, what the fuck were we doing with our clothes? I miss how women dressed in the 2000s, but men? JFC we looked awful. You had either big suits, baggy clothes, triple popped collars, or Hot Topic poser gear.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 days ago (2 children)

You're not wrong but I will go to bat for Halo actually being cool and good

[–] [email protected] 22 points 5 days ago (4 children)

That franchise was pure War on Terror brainworms

[–] [email protected] 23 points 5 days ago

Yeah, they gave the aliens a weird and wrong religion

Put emphasis on how they were willing to die to kill us

The only good alien is the one who figures out his worldview was a sham

If it wasn't intentional, it was still gross

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[–] [email protected] 33 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Listening to Green Day drop the f slur, but against themselves sarcastically for opposing the Iraq War

[–] [email protected] 24 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (3 children)

Ngl I loved Holiday when I was a kid

"Hear the dogs howlin' out of key~ To a hymn called "Faith and Misery", And bleed, the company lost the war todaaaaaaay~"

[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 days ago

I've ripped off the opening riff a couple times by speeding it way up

[–] [email protected] 17 points 5 days ago

My most listened albums this year are American Idiot, The Black Parade, and The Rise and Fall of a Midwest Princess.

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 5 days ago

agreed.

however, counterpoint: zenith of French House/Electro

[–] [email protected] 27 points 5 days ago

Apparently the washed-out brown thing in games of that era was a way for developers to get around the graphics limitations of the hardware with “grittiness”.

Definitely agree that the War on Terror both destroyed political discourse for a decade and just fucked culture. Outside of a handful of anti-war protest songs (and some of that veered into lib territory), there was this general sense of avoiding anything spicy due to the War on Terror and “remembering 9/11.” Politically, we’re still dealing with the fallout of that as this belief of Dems that running candidates that are former military and/or CIA will win over swing voters is them learning all the wrong lessons from the Bush-Kerry race.

However, I don’t think free-range parenting was that pervasive, that seemed like more of a minority backlash to the more common helicopter parenting. What I would say happened then was the start of the “mommy wars” and the weaponizing of the “right” way to rear kids as a cultural/political football; that’s when the whining over “participation trophies” became a talking point. Which was toxic and hinted at how future online culture war slop would play out.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 days ago (1 children)

So many shitty movies at that time. It's probably part of the reason I don't care for movies much as an adult.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Watch "Swordfish" and have a good laugh

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[–] [email protected] 17 points 5 days ago

If you haven't, check out Remember Shuffle podcast, they're a favorite of mine and the subject of the pod is how much the 2000s sucked.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago (1 children)

This post reminded me of Porsche girl and how sociopaths sent her death photos to her parents for years with taunting messages.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Oh man you just reminded me of how people treated Brittany Spears when she shaved her head. It was so cruel.

[–] [email protected] 19 points 5 days ago

Women being called fat for literally not being anorexic. Bridget Jones was an movie entire franchise about an "overweight" woman.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 days ago

The body shaming back then was wild. I remember some Americans saying Shakira looked fat in her early breakthrough music videos lmao

[–] [email protected] 40 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (1 children)

Cringe culture (aka trans/homo/acephobia & ableism galore), South Park humour, everything becoming a COD clone, half of the media being arab/russian killing simulations, neoliberal realism and people still thinking capitalism works.

Yeah the late 2000-2010s sucked.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 5 days ago

Millennials have gotten shit for our 90s nostalgia but this is what we had to compare it to

[–] [email protected] 25 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (6 children)

Good things that came out of the 00s:

  • The Gamecube
  • The Gameboy Advance
  • The Ace Attorney series
  • Let's Plays
  • The last good Disney movies (yes it's me, I'm the weirdo who liked Atlantis)
  • Literally nothing else
[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 days ago

It was the beginning of the end for a lot of tabletop games (Warhammer, M:tG, Warmachine, D&D, etc). Around ~2014 a lot of them got more enshittified than they already were.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 5 days ago

Agreed. We got Wario Land 4 but at what cost?

[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 days ago (2 children)

The Melancholy Of Haruhi Suzumiya.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 days ago

FLCL; Fooly Cooly too

[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 days ago (1 children)

The only thing I know (courtesy of a friend) about that anime is that one of the early episodes apparently involves a false SV accusation as a plot point, which made me want to stay far away from it

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 days ago

Yes, although it's extremely minor and nothing about how it's presented is saying it's OK. There's some male-gaze stuff here and there, although it's definitely less bad about it than almost any other anime.

[–] [email protected] 27 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Treasure Planet, Lilo and Stich and Emperor's New Groove all slap hard

[–] [email protected] 22 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

Lilo and Stitch is my favourite Disney movie. I hope they don't ruin it with a live action remake

blob-no-thoughts

[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 days ago (6 children)

They can't unmake the original.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 days ago (1 children)

It.... Wasn't great. It felt pretty souless. My wife and I saw it yesterday since we have MoviePass and figured might as well. I'd wait for it to stream free.

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[–] [email protected] 23 points 5 days ago (1 children)

The last good Disney movies (yes it's me, I'm the weirdo who liked Atlantis)

wdym its literally an artistic masterpiece and a cult classic, all the gurlies nowdays thirst over the main protag.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Most of the characters were hot tbf

[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 days ago

True, Helga & Kida were both baddies.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago

yeah but the fact that the 2000s were still enjoyable despite all that stuff proves how much the 2000s rocked

[–] [email protected] 46 points 5 days ago (1 children)

i will never forgive cringe culture for continuing to make it hard for me to properly express myself

[–] [email protected] 27 points 5 days ago (1 children)

And it's making a comeback. I fucking hate people policing the most harmless shit while being so forgiving of actual bad things like racism and shit.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

Hey hey hey wait. Say what you will about buttrock but we got Live and Learn from it at least

no-copyright

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 days ago

City Escape too

[–] [email protected] 18 points 5 days ago

80s inspired buttrock isn't the same thing as Creed/Nickelback/Trapt/Puddle of Mudd etc. buttrock, quite possibly the worst genre of music to ever exist other than hair metal.

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