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In other places on around the web, (chiefly /r/RedditAlternatives) whenever Lemmy is brought up, invariably I see the exact same complaints from brand new accounts.

Lemmy is too complicated, it wont gain traction, can't figure out how to use it, can't log in, etc.

Now, I'm definitely more tech savvy than the average redditor, but I just don't see the complaints. You can go to any Lemmy site, instantly start doomscrolling with a familiar UI, and sign up on all the instances I've tried has been frankly more simple than making a new reddit account. The only real complaint I have is the generally smaller volume of users and posts.

My only thought here is the words like federation and instances getting people hung up. Maybe join-lemmy.org being a highly ranked site is doing more harm than good by creating an additional barrier to the instances and content.

Ideally, the first link someone sees when googling Lemmy would be a global feed on a fairly generic instance, with a basic tagline akin to 'front page of the internet.' End users don't need to care about the technical details, at least not until they're interested in the platform.

So is this "Lemmy is too confusing" sentiment even real? And if not, what motive would there be to astroturf this?

If it is a real issue affecting would-be users, how can we address it?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I gave up on Reddit a few months back, but to say that Lemmy is as simple and intuitive as reddit just isn't true. I only use Lemmy now, and it's not very convenient, but I get the highlights from the news, which is all I really wanted.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

I also gave up on reddit a few months back and it’s basically the exact same experience, it just takes some set-up (just like reddit did, remember? 10 years ago when you made an account, remember that?)

the biggest difference is reddit was infested with generative bots later in its life than lemmy.

Now that I mention it, I haven’t seen any lemmybots 🤔

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

I don’t think it’s probably being bottled. I think there are just a combination of people who would rather be unhappy where they are than face a bit of resistance getting themselves out of their rut and people who are fanatically devoted to legacy social media due to sunk cost and have a hard time abandoning their decade old accounts. So whenever the topic comes up they are happy to trash Lemmy rather than improve their situation. They are on Reddit alternatives sub for a reason but they won’t get off their ass because nothing is perfect enough for them

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I came to Lemmy after being permabanned on Reddit, and I didn't have any problem signing up, logging in, or using it.

I also miss the smaller crowds, but I don't miss the pages of puns, shitposts, trolls, 4Chan refugees, contrarians, novelty accounts, bots, Russian Propaganda Farmers, etc. I do miss the active forums for some of my favorite subjects, like guitars. The few forums that exist are very quiet, with posts every few days, weeks or even months, instead of constantly, like Reddit.

I find it much better for politics, if for no other reason that we can talk openly without getting suspended or banned.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

For sure, people who play guitar (and my other big hobbyi trail riding) typically won't be this privacy focussed, so I need to go back to Reddit if I want discussion on that outside of real life. There's other website forums for those at least.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I miss the days when reddit was full of tech-minded people (back when they had to compete with Digg). These days it's full of normies, and normies tend to be fucking idiots. Just look at any YouTube comment section, which is filled with them.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 day ago

As the saying goes, the average person isn’t very smart, and by definition half of the population is even less savvy.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I just tried to use Reddit with a new account. After spending about a week in it, I suddenly noticed that all my comments and postings received no upvotes or downvotes.

That's right. I was shadowbanned, which is to say that some part of the Reddit system (AI?) decided that I need to be put into a cage that I don't see, without telling me that it happened. Perhaps I was "evading a ban" or something. I don't think I did anything to deserve it, and the reddit admins don't answer to queries about it.

So yeah, Lemmy is infinite times better than Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

I don't think Lemmy is too confusing to use but I do think it's poorly explained. Most people new to a server are only looking at two things:

  1. Overall content on the front page and how effective its filtering is.
  2. A topic specific community they are interested in.

But when they begin see the content can be vastly different from server to server and the topics they care about can be split into many communities on different servers they aren't sure how to access what they want and lose interest.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 days ago

I used to think I want as tech savvy as the average reddittor, then I saw this shit and made an account. It wasn't super streamlined, but most definitely manageable if you've done anything more advanced than click a link in a verification email.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 days ago

join-lemmy.org could show the posts from all, with a big join button at the top. The introduction page can be shown if somebody presses the join button.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

yeah, the ui sucks ass if you dont use an app

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Really? When I have posted comments on /r/RedditAlternatives about Lemmy being too complicated and that it won’t gain traction, I’ve been getting downvotes. Despite saying I use it.

Concepts like federation and instances are definitely part of the problem. Reddit is quite easy to understand. Make an account on the website (or not), go to /r/all or type in /r/whatever, and away you go. Lemmy is not that easy to understand. Many people that could be interested in Lemmy don’t have any idea what the different instances are or which they should use, so they just give up.

Lemmy doesn’t need to take off like reddit did, but those touting it as the next big thing are being very optimistic. The barrier to understanding is just too high.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 days ago (2 children)

People just install Voyager and use it just fine. Some of them don't even know what instances they're on

[–] [email protected] 1 points 1 day ago

This is my point when it comes to federation stuff. You don't need to understand it at all to use Lemmy. Join and start scrolling just like you would on reddit

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

That is probably the right way to get people started, assuming they want to do their browsing on their phone. The barrier to entry for those who just download Voyager is so low that it might help make up for a lack of understanding about other features. Then they just have to get over there not being an active community for everything under the sun.

Personally I find it worthwhile just for the extra civility there is here in the comments and the peace of mind I get from knowing that I’m probably interacting with real people rather than bots. Maybe those benefits of using Lemmy could be emphasized more than the benefits of instancing and federation.

[–] [email protected] 29 points 3 days ago (3 children)

Just a reminder that Reddit was once difficult for people to understand.

To be honest though, I'm a bit disappointed by the other users here. The quality of comments is really poor, both idiotic and adversarial. I'm talking fox news comment section level.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago

That's weird because people here are super fun and clever according to my experience. Of course the debates are seldom in-depth but it's still interesting and eye-opening for the most part.

I would love to create a group chat to analyze right-wing rhetoric, underline its hollowness passed the racism and ethnocentrism and generally talk about books that are interesting. Social emulation to go further in political science as a passion ! I need to make that group someday

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Just a reminder that Reddit was once difficult for people to understand.

I honestly don't believe this at all.

Snapshat was popularized by a generation that grew up only using apps, and it was designed to be obtuse, mysterious and difficult to learn in comparison to other apps as a feature. It grew regardless.

To be honest though, I’m a bit disappointed by the other users here. The quality of comments is really poor, both idiotic and adversarial. I’m talking fox news comment section level.

Yeah so is reddit. The best moderation and engagement in fediverse typically exists in the highly moderated communities that people constantly complain about not respecting their freeze peach and antisocial tendencies.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 days ago (3 children)

I've been seeing waaaay too much unwarranted vitriol and anger in comments lately, for things that really aren't that big a deal (like Linux vs windows) and I find it disappointing. As a community we should want Lemmy to grow, and yes that does mean we will get more "normie" posts, but imo that's good and if someone doesn't like it they can use more niche community spaces, which there will be more of with a larger userbase.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

lemmy, reddit and such types of forums are literally made for this kind of discussion.

i do agree people should tone down with the unjustified anger a bit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago

for things that really aren’t that big a deal (like Linux vs windows)

LOL, Linux vs. Windows flame wars are literally as old as the World Wide Web, and UNIX vs. DOS flame wars are even older than that. Welcome to traditional Internet culture, undiluted by normies.

(Also, I would argue that copyleft Free Software vs. proprietary software riddled with spying, ads, and other user-hostile dark patterns is a way bigger deal than you're giving it credit for, but that's a topic for a different thread.)

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 days ago

Push back when you see it. Remind them that we have a chance to reset, and they don't have to act the same way here that they did on reddit.

[–] [email protected] 35 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Reddit at this point a psyop for multiple different countries, political parties, celebrities, influenzars and such. US, Israel, China, Russia, India, Pakistan, and others have Internet task force to push propaganda and limit negative PR.

Votes aren't public in reddit and is a great cover for hiding any coordinated influence. Keep creating new accounts, make it seem natural by posting on random subs, use old accounts for posts/comments and new accounts for votes. To an unsuspecting user, nothing seems out of ordinary.

On ActivityPub all votes are public and manipulation can be detected or analyzed now or in future. Instance admins could check this and see a pattern. And there are many many many instances, so any one might run into something.

Also mod logs are public in lemmy, unlike reddit. Censorship from mods and admins are already a constant cause for drama but makes it a lot more transparent for the community.

So it's less influential. So, they try to dissuade people from making Lemmy and Mastodon less interesting.

I'm not saying it's not possible here, but it's too early and needs a lot more work than reddit. People already do not interact with users from instances they dislike. You already see some patterns in how users of instance behave and avoid them.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Although since Lemmy votes are public, it does take some restraint to not message people that downvote your comments/posts and ask them why.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (4 children)

You can see who voted your comments? How? I don't think I can.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

I think mbin makes all votes up or down public. So maybe he’s on an mbin server instead of lemmy

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago

There is one server implementation that shows it to its users. I forgot its name though.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I didn't realise it's only visible to server admins. I run my own server, and it seems like server admins can view the votes on any comment, not just comments on their server.

What I haven't checked is if non-admins can load the vote data, and it's just the button in the UI that's hidden.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

They're visible to all the server admins. The difference is that anyone can make their own instance and connect to the network as an admin

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