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From a UN Development Programme statement:

In 62 countries, consensual same-sex sexual relations between adults in private are criminalized, with 12 of these countries even imposing the death penalty for such relations.

The 2025 edition of the Rainbow Map has been released:

https://rainbowmap.ilga-europe.org/

Here were some key findings:

  • Conversion practices are only banned in 10 countries.
  • 6 is the number of countries where LGBTI people do not have any protection from discrimination.
  • Belgium, Bosnia and Herzegovina, Denmark, Finland, Greece, Iceland, Montenegro, Serbia and Spain are the only countries that have full coverage of SOGIESC in their anti-discrimination legislations.
  • Hate crime and hate speech on the grounds of sexual orientation, gender identity, and sex characteristics are prohibited in Belgium, Denmark, Greece, Iceland, Malta, and some regions in Spain and the UK.
  • Marriage equality for same-sex couples is only available in 22 countries.
  • 18 is the number of countries without any legal protection of same-sex partnerships.
  • Trans parenthood is fully recognised only in 8 countries.
  • Only Germany, Greece, Iceland, Malta, Portugal and Spain prohibit unnecessary surgical or medical interventions on intersex children.
  • 11 countries still don’t have any legal or administrative procedure for legal gender recognition.
  • In addition, Bulgaria, Hungary and Russia have laws that make legal gender recognition completely impossible.
  • Only in 12 countries, trans people can have legal gender recognition based on self-determination.
  • Freedom of assembly and association for LGBTI communities are restricted or under attack in at least 14 countries.
  • Sexual orientation and gender identity are qualification criteria for seeking asylum in 27 countries. Intersex asylum seekers are protected in the law only in 6 countries.
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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 hours ago

Thanks so much for posting this! WomensStuff is 100% committed to LGBT inclusion. We are women only, and trans+ women and non binary are totally welcome here. Homophobia, transphobia, biphobia and gender critical is not. 🏳️‍🌈🌈🏳️‍🌈

[–] [email protected] 17 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

I dont get why so many people hate me just for wanting to be alive

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

What you have to understand is if they have been hating you for no reason this entire time, all the hatred and hand wringing about whether you deserve basic human decency must always for them be threatening to collapse into the question "Did I waste my short precious life nurturing an ideology of hate that only hurts people most especially myself?".

These people see it like they are running from a herd of charging, angry bulls and they are afraid to think about that in this metaphor the herd of angry bulls is clearly their conscience chasing them out of town.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I know kittenz, it's hard to get your head round

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 hours ago

LOVE
IS🏳️‍🌈
LOVE

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Small victory: In my state, we won a crucial state Supreme Court seat despite illegal voter bribes from Elon Musk, which means I don't have to move to stay safe for at least two more years. Fingers crossed for the governer election.

It's been a hard year, but we'll make it through. Don't lose hope and stay safe.