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I wasn't buying myself jewelry because of something someone said to me once.
There was a blowout sale a few weeks ago at a department store that was going out of business. I couldn't say no to 70% off so I bought myself some damn jewelry.
Now I just need to convince myself I deserve to wear it. Baby steps.
Writing this out made me think about how the things people say to us can really become our own inner dialog about ourselves.
I have a long inseam and yet one of my exes told me I have "stubby legs" and that's all I see when I look in the mirror. That was also when I was in the best shape of my life. Good grief, what an asshole. Good riddance!
If I try to answer that, steam comes out of my ears and I get nowhere. So I imagine the question is "why does a friend deserve good things", and that leads me to think anyone inherently deserves good things, and from there I remind myself that I am included in "anyone" too! 😊
Oooh I like that!! Yessss!! ❤️
I'm in my 40s, I've scrimped and saved to be able to buy a house and kit it out. I've denied myself a lot to get where I am, so I deserve to treat myself now I can.
I've worked REALLY hard in the past, doing 2 jobs and doing hard jobs like chambermaiding. It's ok to be nice to myself.
Everyone deserves to treat themselves! I deserve the same kindness I'd show other people.
I'm in my 40s, it's ok to slow down and do less. Slowing down is a treat I deserve!
absolutely! You have worked really hard and more than deserve to treat yourself 💖