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Womens weekend positivity... why do you deserve to treat yourself? (lemmy.world)
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We often find it hard to allow ourselves good things, or think we're not worthy of them. But we do deserve them!

Instead of thinking of reasons we don't deserve things, lets think differently. Why do you deserve good things?

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 11 hours ago (1 children)

I'm in my 40s, I've scrimped and saved to be able to buy a house and kit it out. I've denied myself a lot to get where I am, so I deserve to treat myself now I can.

I've worked REALLY hard in the past, doing 2 jobs and doing hard jobs like chambermaiding. It's ok to be nice to myself.

Everyone deserves to treat themselves! I deserve the same kindness I'd show other people.

I'm in my 40s, it's ok to slow down and do less. Slowing down is a treat I deserve!

[–] [email protected] 5 points 10 hours ago

absolutely! You have worked really hard and more than deserve to treat yourself 💖