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I'm an adult male who works downtown near a pretty nice park. Now that the weather is getting better, I'd like to get outside at lunch and work on juggling.

I've never done it because I don't want to the the weirdo that's juggling in the middle of the day, but I don't really have any other time when I can practice in an open space.

Would it be weird if you were in a park and a grown up man was there juggling?

Edit: Thanks everyone for the words of encouragement. It probably says a lot about what I think about people who choose to mind their own business while engaging in things they enjoy in their spare time. I've learned a lot here. There also doesn't seem to be a juggling/flow arts Lemmy community so maybe that's something we can do.

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 days ago

the fact that you're doing it during lunch makes it not weird, IMO, because that's just the convenient place and time to do it.

it would be weird (not bad) to leave home and go to the park to do it

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Maybe refrain from using running chainsaws, but apart from that the park sounds like a great place to practice juggling!

Also, people doing their best to get better at their hobby are the most interesting people.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago

Wondering if it's weird is weird. Go enjoy your park.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

i am not even sure how that is wierd

just go juggle, wtf lol

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I walked through a park just a bit ago and there was a juggling group performing. There's also a person in my city that hula hoops continuously while dancing all over downtown, often on rollerskates. It's all a delight to see in our typical modern hell scape, even if they weren't good at it, I enjoy people having fun.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

On posts like these, the question to ask yourself is "if I saw a video on the Internet of someone being a dick to a person doing this thing, would they look like an asshole?" If the answer is yes, then it's fine to do.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago

That's a great trick

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

Depends on what your jiggling

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I've seen bagpipers doing their thing in random parks. Alone, with a bagpipe, standing in a field, practicing. Bagpipers who needed the practice, btw.

I thought it was cool. Nobody seemed to mind.

You do you!

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

Yeah but that’s kind of arguable. Bagpipes make a lot of noise so it’s just understandable there may be some objections. I love it when a piper is down the street so you can hear the music echoing through the buildings, but it is loud and may not be for everyone

Juggling is no different than the yoga or tai chi class in the next open area. There’s no impact on anyone sharing the space, except possibly some social conventions. Just do it (be careful not to put a coffee mug out or you may get donations)

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

Dude fr, just juggle. I learned to juggle a few years ago and was hanging out juggling by a coffeshop and met another, much better, juggler and we juggle for a while.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago

I live near a big public park and it would be strange if there wasn't someone juggling there on a sunny day.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

I live in Chicago near a park and every now and then I’ve seen someone juggling there. I’d say it’s out of the ordinary but not in a bad way; it’s unique. Still a fun hobby and you’re not hurting anyone, so go for it!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 weeks ago

Everything's weird.

As long as you're not actively hurting someone, do what you love.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago

It's possibly the least disruptive thing you can do that may also entertain some passersby

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

If you're good enough at it you might make some side money, win-win imo.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

Seems fine to me. I'd rather someone juggle than loudly play some instrument.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago

As a professional juggler I say go for it! That's where I practise and never had any bad experiences in public parks.

True story: I used to worry so much about what people thought. One day I did an experiment, dyed my hair lime green and went around to the shops, library etc. Nobody batted an eyelid and I realised it was just me.

Nowadays I do "weird" things in public every weekend, and people usually pay in advance!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago

Does it matter?

I don't mean that in a dismissive way. Actually think about it.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 weeks ago

Nope, that is what third spaces are for. :)

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

If someone sees you and thinks "wow look at this weirdo" it's on them, not you. And in truth they're probably just jealous of someone that's having a good time :)

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

Plus, don’t read into that unnecessarily. It could be someone seeing you and thinking “that’s unusual. How cool!”

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago

I mean, if you take "weird" to mean "abnormal", then yes, it would be very weird. You will likely be the only person juggling in the park. But weird doesn't mean bad - just different.

On the other hand, your coworkers probably spend their lunch breaks eating McDonalds and scrolling IG in their cars. Juggling in the park sounds like a way better use of your time.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

You juggle all you want in any park. Just don't make it weird. Of there are tombstones in said park, it's not for juggling.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago

Sounds really cool. Weird? Not at all.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago

I don't think so, but people might stare a bit if you do it in a busy place of the park.
I would look for a place with a bit of quiet. I saw people do a variety of things in parks. When they choose a quiet place, I'll assume they want peace for there outside hobby and give them that.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 weeks ago

It's weird to juggle anywhere, but you shouldn't let that stop you cause everybody's weird in some way or another and that's fine. A park seems like as good a place as any.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 weeks ago

Absolutely not weird, and any normal adult would just walk by and think hey cool.

Unpopular opinion time, the only people, and I mean literally, the only people that are even suggesting it's weird or thinking other people think it's weird, are the sweatys that have never actually been to a park, or understand the dynamics of park people.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Love that one 😄 Yeah maybe some find it weird. 😊 Go for it!

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

It won’t work on all people, but it will work for the right people!

I mean, if a person has the urge to juggle in public, it means they want to be seen and maybe connect with randos over it.

That’s wholesome AF

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

There was one guy in my classes during undergrad who rode a unicycle while playing guitar. He did this everywhere he went. Cool guy. Very level headed and down to earth, just quirky.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago

i can assure you, if I could play the guitar while riding a unicycle, you'd never see me do anything else, ever again. and i do know how to ride one.

Thats an insane level of skill, guy's got the right to brag.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Weird as in outside of the norm? Sure, just a bit. Weird as in dangerous or creepy? Not in the slightest. If I were out for a walk and saw someone juggling at the park, that would make me happy. I wish I felt as comfortable to do things outside.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

It's also within the realm of things you wouldn't be that surprised to see.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 3 weeks ago

Seems about the kind of activity people tend to do in parks.

Unless you're causing harm to other people, what someone might think is rarely a good reason to not do something you genuinely want to.

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