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[–] [email protected] 12 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Ah It doesn't matter what gender any person is, but if two people have a strong bond, and one of those people has a strong bond with someone else too, an unfortunate part of being human is that there's only so much of one person to go around. Can't spend all your time with everyone. You have to pick someone. I know a magical man like that, there's not enough of him to go around. Everybody wants him. He has to pick someone. Otherwise the best he can do is have parties all the time so everybody can be around him all the time.

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

For manhwa readers, Antagonist's pet is so much this!! Arth's okay, but they did Rebecca dirty. :(

[–] [email protected] 75 points 1 year ago (11 children)

I absolutely find it annoying when romance is prioritized over friendship but this isn't quite what queerbaiting is. At least, not on its own. Two same sex/gender people being very close and sharing a strong connection or even having some romantic undertones that never become "official" isn't automatically queerbaiting. Those things can happen in real life without those relationships being or becoming romantic. Queerbaiting is when the writers/showrunners purposefully insert romantic subtext into the story and advertise it as if it will become canonically romantic with the primary intention of gaining more lgbt viewership, while never actually following through on those implied (or even occasionally explicitly stated) promises. The way it is presented and marketed is an important part of what makes it a problem, hence the "baiting" part. There's nothing wrong with keeping a relationship ambiguous, or portraying a platonic relationship as being as deep, important, and emotionally intimate as romantic ones are typically portrayed without making them romantic, but if you try to manipulate or outright lie to viewers to make them think a relationship is going to be something it isn't in order to gain their viewership and support, only to pull the rug out from under them, then that's when it becomes sleazy, especially if you're taking advantage of the fact that they're a marginalized and under-represented group desperate to see more people like them in media.

I know this is just a joke comic so "it's not that deep" but I see a lot of people online who misunderstand what queerbaiting is and accuse shows/series of queerbaiting unfairly so I thought I'd bring it up.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (9 children)

That was a very interesting read. Do you have any examples of queerbaiting or portrayed relationships that are commonly mistaken for queerbaiting in shows? Being a very boring stereotypical heterosexual, I've never paid attention to that, and I admit I haven't heard the term before today.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago

I think the above comment was kind of blowing the comic out of proportion—I mean it’s a 4 panel comic it’s obviously not going to be able to give great nuance but I think it’s easy to read it as “proper” queerbaiting.

Anyway, the Wikipedia page has a good list of examples if you’re interested in mainstream examples.

Ones that stick out off the top of my head I’ve personally watched were Sherlock, and Teen Wolf and Rizzoli & Isles to a lesser extent.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Queerbaiting

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[–] [email protected] 29 points 1 year ago (2 children)

You me an everything to me.

Keming is hard.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Does it count as kerning when it's hand-written?

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Do you mean Kerning?

But by spelling it Keming you’re making a meta joke?

This is some level of obscure typographical humour that I’m surprised so many people get.

Am I just a word format humour Luddite?

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago (1 children)

There was (is?) a subreddit called r/keming about bad kerning.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What’s a subreddit? Is that like a community?

/s

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 1 year ago

by spelling it Keming you’re making a meta joke?

Yes.

[–] [email protected] 20 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What kind of top is the one our blue girl is wearing?

[–] [email protected] 23 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) (1 children)

probably layering a spaghetti strap cami over a tshirt

edit: if you’re also curious about the necklines, the tshirt is crew and the cami is sweetheart

[–] [email protected] 19 points 1 year ago

Username checks out

[–] [email protected] 15 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Blue Eye Samurai, where the mc binds her chest and hides her neck, talks about being born different from everyone else, and insists on he/him pronouns. Then the producers are like "yeah she just pretends to be a guy because it makes her life easier".

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I can think of literally zero examples of this. Apparently I'm watching the wrong shows? (Or perhaps, the right shows?)

[–] [email protected] 4 points 1 year ago

Just rewatched Bridesmaids and it fits this pretty well.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 1 year ago

Now THAT is TV!

[–] [email protected] 16 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hey op, who is the comic author ?

[–] [email protected] 17 points 1 year ago

Blobby and Friends :)

[–] [email protected] 10 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I also hate the ones where they develop a chemistry but then never go anywhere besides being friends and the story ends when its so clear they are developing to be more than friends

[–] [email protected] 25 points 1 year ago

Hey, save some representation for us ace folks. Not every show/movie needs to have the main character smashing pissers with someone. Let close queer platonic friends just be what they are.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 1 year ago

Which Love Actually sub-story is this?

[–] [email protected] 26 points 1 year ago

I don't know why, but I read her voice the same as the hydraulic press guy saying "what ze fuck"

[–] [email protected] 130 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I love that she has a blob fish friend just sitting there.

[–] [email protected] 36 points 1 year ago

Kilroy the Blob Fish

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