I think politics as a team sport is spot on. When your favorite sportsball team wins you don't actually win. Nothing materially changes for you. You are not part of the team and the team does not care about you or need you. You're unrelated entities. The people on the team get some benefits from winning but the only benefit the spectator gets is the satisfaction that their team won.
It's kinda funny how libs think this is how it should be. Voting is useless as an activity if your team winning doesn't actually make a difference, just like rooting for your favorite team.