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97% sure someone posted this at some point, but I think it's been a while... ββ οΉβ β
Im not fem and i feel like this so many times. What i fear most, much more than rejection is overstepping social lines. Also if youre a woman pls make the first move, its extremely hot if the guy is a switch i can tell you that lol.
I can make this easier, at least for anyone interacting with me:
If you're reading this, you - yes, you - have my full and explicit permission to compliment me, flirt with me, or ask me out. I am extremely good at saying no if needed and promise not to be offended if you make the first move.
Also you're cute π
Is it bad that i kinda read this like a llm preprompt? Except for people, and to be honest im kinda here for it. I kinda feel bad for bothering people, and this "preprompt" kinda opens the door for conversation
I kinda feel bad for bothering people, and this "preprompt" kinda opens the door for conversation
That's the idea! :)
I'm glad it's working, I was worried it wouldn't. Bystander effect and all that.
They shot every shot at once, this strategy is crazy
I'm aggressively poly so, yeah. I'm constantly shooting all of the shots.
If you'd like to say what kind of polyam?
Relationship Anarchy
~~Basically I do what I feel, don't like labels, and won't ever ask anyone I'm with to restrict themselves on my account~~
Edit: You don't need me to explain XD
Was looking through your post history and you seem really cool!
π Yeah, we are well versed in R.A and glad others are too and practicing it!
Awh, thanks, we appreciate that!
Samesies!
OMG! We're both poly?
What if we kissed ππ
Jk... unless?
I have one question for you: girls?
Among other people π
I can see the pronouns in your username. I wouldn't be flirting if I wasn't interested
The answer to that question better be "Just want to have fun".
The answer is "Absolutely"
99% sure that's pretty normal for healthy minded people, men, women, trans, non-binary etc.
Making the first move is taking a risk: aka being vulnerable. It's when they don't respond enthusiastically and you don't stop that it's a problem.
It is normal to feel some degree of trepidation when taking a risk: aka being vulnerable, but I don't think its a stretch of the imagination to assert that it might be more stressful if you don't have a firm grasp of neurotypical social graces and nonverbal communication.
As an autistic person, what has worked quite well for me, though takes getting used to, is very transparently communicating about intentions and consent. It can seem quite intense but it does mean everyone knows where they stand and where boundaries lie.
No worries I will make the first move
Pawn to e4
Checkmate.
Your move.
π
Mate? That's very forward and a primal way to put it but hey why not
We're demi and enm so we kind of just become friends with people and hope it works out.
This. I'd rather die alone than risk even the slightest possibility of making someone else uncomfortable.
why yes I am in therapy how did you know
Yeah the fear of imposing on someone. There are plenty of assholes, but lots of perfectly nice people just communicate what they want/need/feel and itβs okay. Not just talking about dating.
Then whenever you take your risk and do it, and get rejected, you retreat back to try it again in 6 months.
Edit: I have zero problem and welcome people being honest, and adjust accordingly. But when I try to do that it rarely works the same way. Could just be how I communicate, but it is a struggle.
I feel the exactly the same but am not in therapy. ... Maybe I should consider therapy.
Same.
This is how I figured out I was Aro/Ace.