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[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 weeks ago

That also bothered me about LOST. Well, that and the fact that the obese character stayed just a obese while being stranded on an island on a fish and fruit diet.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I feel part of the reason pads are discluded would be the same reason taking a shit is. It's basic function that adds nothing of plot or interest if included, unless it was an actual plot device. Like bears that are attracted to periods. The other tropes though I agree with, and have commented on previously when watching movies. Even non-apocalyptic when women wake up in bed with perfect hair and makeup makes me laugh.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I guess we have to watch people take a shit too, every episode.

I only disagree with the middle comment. You can see the image I linked OP it's fucking exactly the complaint here lmao.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago

They don't often show people scavenging toilet paper or toothbrushes either, it's just something they skip, not necessarily people not knowing how to write women

[–] [email protected] 26 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

The trope that bothers me is when they make the single minority character also the lead female character and also the gay/bisexual character.

Conveniently squeezing all the required diversity into one convenient character.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago

As always, no such thing as a bisexual man.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Yep! Extra points if she's not white

[–] [email protected] 7 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

That was what I meant by "Minority"

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 weeks ago

Ahhh sorry Delphia missed the word in your comment

[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

Sure ok but if they made movies with stats without make up and hairy legs and gross teeth, all about finding hygiene products in post apocalyptic society... not many people world watch it.

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[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

There was a really good Swedish detective true crime drama with the lead female detective or anyone wearing makeup. Yeah they looked wrinky as shit, and yeah they still looked beautiful. It gave the show an open honest feel.

Hairy legs can be bypassed by just having a scene showing a little normal leg hair from time to time with shaved legs from time to time. The audience will figure it out.

Gross teeth I'm not sure what you mean by this. Yes they won't have perfect american overly whitened tictacs, but have you never met someone with dull crooked teeth and still thought they were still pretty?

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

I might be wrong and I’m happy to be corrected here. Isn’t it possible to stop getting your period because of high stress on your body? I would guess living through a post-apocalyptic situation might merit that level of stress. But I could be wrong; I have a pretty cushy life all things considered so it’s not like I have direct experience with this kind of thing.

[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago

Humans lived in an environment similar to a post apocalyptic situation for 1000s of years and still reproduced just fine. I'm not saying it isn't a thing at all, but I don't think it would be common or widespread.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I'm not an expert either but yeah stress and poor nutrition can mess up your cycle but I don't think indefinitely.

As in, you might not have a period for several months but sooner or later your endometrium will shed.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 3 weeks ago

Endometrium shedding and taxes, like I always say.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 weeks ago

I recently got one of those IPL hair removal machines. Hopefully it'll remove body hair permanently 🤞

(realistically it'll get rid of most of it, and grow back slower)

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 weeks ago

Tbf the jackets are usually oversized but the rest is true

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