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[–] [email protected] 67 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)
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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

This is a really bad definition because it very obviously excludes people who transition to women later in life.

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[–] [email protected] 87 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Born with the intention of holding eggs? Do they not know what the word intention means?

[–] [email protected] 55 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (7 children)

$20 says it implies "intended by god".

These asshats tend to try and hide their religious bias, but it comes out like this every now and then, and they often don't realize.

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Sounds like a problem for their doctor or a scientist, there isnt anywhere else it would matter about their biological status. So a woman is someone that says they are a woman.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

trans people who want to update their sex in their passport, birth certificate drivers license etc are wild to me!

...that's an exaggeration; it's a much more complex issue that often involves public safety in ways that don't affect me as a FtNB. If I go into a women's bathroom people mostly just squint at me and if I went into a men's people would probably mostly do the same. And if they did accost me in the ladies' my plan is to show them my vagina then cry and ask how many women with their breasts surgically removed and no hair do they plan to do this to?

but somewhere deep down I can't help but to think gender markers should never have been on government documents to begin with. the government doesn't need to know what genitals I had when I was born or anything about how that may or may not have to do with the life I'm living now. massive governmental overreach if you ask me (and the bathrooms wouldn't be an issue if Americans had real bathroom walls and doors where you can't access others peeing like that anyway.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

"It's complicated" is probably better for doctors and scientists. The other day I was filling out a "women only" medical form and about half of the questions were relevant to me.

And for a scientist, what exactly are they studying? For social science or psychology I'm an outlier no matter which gender or sex box you put me in; for reproductive stuff I'm closer to male but still somewhat of an outlier (because hormones); for various other medical things I'm closer to female (hormones again); neurologically idk, but there's evidence trans people tend to not match their AGAB here.

But yeah, normal people shouldn't care about any of that when just talking to me.

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[–] [email protected] 49 points 2 weeks ago

Huh, then menopause it's the moment when a cis woman turns into a cis man? No wonder they are super upset about the whole thing. The more you know, the full cycle of manhood is more complex than you know.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 weeks ago

The US seems to have an eggsistential crisis.

[–] [email protected] 25 points 2 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 63 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

I just intentionally ate 2 more eggs then normal today. What's going to happen to me?!1 am i going to get gregnat

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

This is the same way i got picante too

[–] [email protected] 18 points 2 weeks ago
[–] [email protected] 30 points 2 weeks ago

I'm sorry you found out this way. Prepare your preganante fund

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago

“What's up fuckers hey check out this woman I found, isn't it such a woman? Look at her wow! Plegghh what a gal. Anyway, love to stay and chat but I saw some trash outside that looked delicious. Smell you later, deliberator.”

[–] [email protected] 32 points 2 weeks ago

Went to shop today to buy egg specifically til I am woman amazing

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

So as long as i have the intention to hols eggs i am a women or when people stop being capable of producing eggs they automatically get a raise for becoming a man?

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

No, no. You have to be born with the intention or capability. If you did not intend or were able to hold eggs at birth, then you're not a woman.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

tbh I don't think most babies intend for anything the moment they're born

[–] [email protected] 15 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Proximity to egg is inversely proportional to salary

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

With eggflation, salary can also be paid in eggs Sometimes I wish I could delete comments on Lemmy

[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

you can (and should) delete your own

[–] [email protected] 3 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

You can't delete comments, it just shows as deleted and if you quote it you can read the original comment. You have to edit the comment and then save it and then delete it.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 weeks ago

That's because your client is caching it.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 2 weeks ago

Nah it's a relevant comment lol

[–] [email protected] 34 points 2 weeks ago

Behold, a woman

[–] [email protected] 42 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Modern day Diogenese over here

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