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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

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  2. The entire showerthought must be in the title
  3. No politics
    • If your topic is in a grey area, please phrase it to emphasize the fascinating aspects, not the dramatic aspects. You can do this by avoiding overly politicized terms such as "capitalism" and "communism". If you must make comparisons, you can say something is different without saying something is better/worse.
    • A good place for politics is c/politicaldiscussion
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[–] [email protected] 79 points 4 weeks ago (10 children)

Any time you hear Republicans argue 18 year olds shouldn't be able to vote, and they want to increase the age to 21/25, tell them "OK - then anybody over 65 isn't allowed to vote either."

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago

I wish I could do that with my own and from what I can tell my algorithms don't even put them in as much as other folks.

[–] [email protected] 21 points 4 weeks ago (9 children)

no, WE THE PEOPLE should have global networks that simply remove that kind of brain rot and delete the people that perpetuate it.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago

The squad has taken care of the hacker

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

Maybe I'm crazy, but I don't think we should kill large amounts of people just because they follow a different political ideology than us. 🙄 We have to be better than these extremists to truly show them a better way...

[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (3 children)

... I think he meant delete accounts, not delete actual people, but I could be wrong lol

Edit: nope, dude's just an asshole lol

[–] [email protected] -2 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

there's only one way to fix idiots and sociopaths.

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[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

If so, I don't think they would have 2 different verbs: "remove that kind of brain rot and delete the people that perpetuate it."

EDIT: Not to worry, they clarified by doubling-down on their holocaust argument.

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 weeks ago

I would whole-heartedly support this.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 weeks ago

Lol. What controls?

[–] [email protected] 36 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

I just keep their Facebook accounts logged in on my phone. Every few months, I will go onto their profiles and unlike pages like "Wear your poppy with pride" and deradicalize their algorithm. Poppies for British boomers on Facebook are like Elsa and Spiderman on YouTube for babies.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 weeks ago

Facebook slowly pushing more shit and you shoveling the shit away. Nicely done!

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

How are poppies radical on Facebook?

[–] [email protected] 16 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

Because the wearing of poppies has become synonymous with the now defunct BNP and the rest of the British right wing for a lot of us.

You can thank Stephen Yaxley-Lennon for that.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (2 children)

That's a bit silly. The symbol has existed as one of remembrance for over 100 years. We shouldn't let fascists take claim of it

Although I take this to mean that the 'poppy pages' are actually fronts for bigotry?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

Of course it's silly.

It's also silly that people get upset at a bunch of Asian countries who still use the swastika. But a lot of people outside the cultures instantly think of Nazis.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

Correct.

They are where you'll find the deeply ignorant, xenophobic, Daily Mail readers frothing at the mouth and red in the face with anger over how "forriners" are lazy criminals that come here to claim benefits for them and their 16 kids, while simultaneously stealing all the jobs and homes from "hard working British families" (read: "British benefit claimants out of work and living in grothole housing owned by a local slumlord").

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

So, you mean like childish controls?

[–] [email protected] 52 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (5 children)

I constantly refer to my parents and in-laws as children. Why? Because they behave exactly like my 11 year old. They have no critical reasoning skills, no emotional intelligence, are easily offended, and can not be reliability left on their own without screwing something up.

At some point around retirement age, humans seem to cognitively revert back to children and those of us in middle adulthood are left to parent our actual children and our childish parents.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 weeks ago

At some point around retirement age, humans seem to cognitively revert back to children and those of us in middle adulthood are left to parent our actual children and our childish parents.

Is this true, or is this just (mostly) boomers?

[–] [email protected] 27 points 4 weeks ago

Unfortunately I think that's just our parents and not all old people. My parents are the same way, but it seems to me more that maturing is a choice and active process that requires effort, and many people are unwilling to put in the work and vigilance required and it leads to the above

I don't think they're children, I think they're selfish lazy assholes, but the result that they need to be treated like children is the same

[–] [email protected] 17 points 4 weeks ago

At some point around retirement age, humans seem to cognitively revert back to children

I haven’t seen that happen to everyone I know around that age. Many still have their wits about them and see the current state of affairs as a clown show. Some are even out here on the streets protesting.

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[–] [email protected] -4 points 4 weeks ago

You know, in many EU states we have secrecy of correspondence laws. It's illegal for third parties to read your messages without your consent. This includes parents and children

[–] [email protected] 112 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

My mom mentioned that my dad has been watching some concerning (in her words, "annoying") YouTube content lately. Last time she said that it was America's Got Talent, but this time it's white men arguing with cops. I visited and asked if he would show me. He jokingly said "are you gonna violate my rights?" And I very seriously said "yes. I need to make sure it's not Jordan Peterson or Joe Rogan or someone even worse". He got a little bit offended and said "you know me better than that, I'm smarter than that". But the thing is, you start by watching something innocuous like some idiot sovcit arguing with cops and the algorithm pipeline feeds you nazi shit from there and you don't even know it.

For context, my parents are the kind of leftists that don't know what leftists are. My mom calls herself a bleeding heart liberal, and my dad sees the media say things like "radical liberals" and jumps up off the couch screaming "you bet your ass im a radical liberal!" But they're left of liberal, they just don't have the language for it.

I'm not worried that my dad is gonna seek out nazi propaganda, im worried it's gonna find him anyway and I want to throw his phone in a lake.

Maybe shower thoughts wasn't the right community for me to have my existential crisis. But I wish i could block "sovcit" on my dad's phone and "trad-anything" on my mom's phone, not because I think they're dumb (okay maybe a little) but because this shit is so toxic and intrinsic and scary and my parents are so dumb.

Take care of yourself and your loved ones xx

[–] [email protected] 11 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

Must be nice to have parents that haven't turned out to be fascist sociopaths.

[–] [email protected] 49 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (3 children)

I was interested in Diablo IV when it was released which, after a few videos, led YouTube to recommend Asmondgold. I watched one or two of his videos and the next thing I know my feed is full of maga and manosphere trash. Most of it had innocuous titles and thumbnails but a few minutes in I was being bombarded with lies, bad faith arguments, logical fallacies. Don't even get me started with where funny Garand Thumb videos will lead. All I could think of was how Al Queda and ISIS recruited people with videos posted online.

EDIT: For the most part, I liked Asmondgold, but the algorithm leads from him to very dark places.

[–] [email protected] 18 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

Same thing happened with me and Shadiversity. I like medieval stuff and fantasy so i thought he’d be interesting.

Noooope. Just another fash scumbag.

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[–] [email protected] 15 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (3 children)

Imo Asmongold is good to mid, until he starts getting political, then it plummets into awful. Also yeah I think the garand thumb to far right pipeline is very real, the guy is actually quite extreme iirc.

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[–] [email protected] 19 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] [email protected] 146 points 4 weeks ago (5 children)

If you set up parental controls on your parent's devices I can guarantee they won't find a way around it.

[–] [email protected] 37 points 4 weeks ago (3 children)

They will, usually by accident. Source: my father in law.

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