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Wasn't sure whether to throw this into an ask community or here, but ultimately chose casual convo because I am lowkey also looking for advice lol

I landed a job last week (hired me on the spot, did training 3 days later) as one of those people who stand outside shops/etc. asking people to donate to charities. Reputable charities for the record and without cash donations, so not some scam. But the way this is organised is miserable!! I literally get told where I'm supposed to go the night before I go there. I also get paid exclusively based on how many people I get to donate (this was not on the job ad on Indeed). The job itself is fine, is whatever, but between the chaos of having to schedule my day last minute and never being sure how much I'll make in a month... I need to hightail it out of here.

I get paid on the 15th of May, would it be inappropriate for me to quit right after? I'll give two weeks notice of course. My team leader has been super sweet to me and is already telling me I'm a natural and she wants to promote me inside her team... I did hint at the fact this is just a temporary thing for me and what I really want is an office job, but she keeps insisting I should stay and can earn a lot more here (and tbf she makes €3000/month). To be honest this whole structure feels very pyramid scheme-ish lol minus the fact people don't pay into it.

I'd love to hear your thoughts on this or any experience you want to share!

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[–] [email protected] 4 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Do people donate through the store paiement system? If so, it may be a scam based on tax evasion, depending on the country. In France for example donations to non profit lead to tax deduction. Big stores ask for donations at checkout. This way, they can deduct like 60% of people's donations from their tax

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

Not me, but I was assigned to train a new machine operator at a factory, and he lasted about 80 minutes. I could barely explain the scope of his responsibilities. He went on a scheduled break and then I never saw him again.

I didn't blame him, morale was low because of COVID and supply chain issues, and he started on a night shift.

[–] [email protected] 64 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

24 and a half hours. I showed up the first day and found out the training period was unpaid. They advertised $15 per hour W-2-style position, but when I showed up, they offered a totally different 1099 contractor position where most of my time would be unpaid. I went home and researched, and confirmed my suspicions that Vector Marketing was a total scam. I came back the next day and chewed them out in front of all the other trainees they were trying to scam.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 3 weeks ago

Personally, 6 months. Sounded great on paper and even today it sounds great, but I really didn't like it. Now I'm somewhere that sounds rubbish on paper and in many ways is, but I'm pretty happy.

Quickest I ever saw was when I did a 2 week school placement in an IT support company. The whole company was like 4 people including me. Back in the late 90's it was all reinstalling Windows, ISDN lines, that sort of basic IT provided in to companies. They hired a new guy and sent him off to install a couple of Windows PCs for some company. The next day he left as he was out of his depth.

[–] [email protected] 17 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) (1 children)

Not me, but I used to work a role at a company that provided IT services and hardware/support.

We had a team that sat right behind me, basically they supported customer accounts, and they got a new team leader/manager.

She came in on a Friday I believe and the rest of the team were out, Thursday night is party night so most people worked from home Friday.

The next week comes in, IT puts all her equipment on her desk, she isn't there. The next day or so comes around and she isn't there but her team is and someone else strolls over to chat. He mentions he heard they got a new lady boss, where is she?

I say she was in last week, I saw her.

"Is she a looker?"

... this bloody place. Asks nothing about her other than her looks.

Later that week IT comes along and collects her equipment, she had left in under a week. I have no idea what happened but that was the quickest I have seen someone leave and on average we had a very short staff turnover time.

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[–] [email protected] 18 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

For your issue, it is sane to wait until you get paid before resigning given the number of companies who routinely "forget" to pay the final paycheque and generally make it a pain in the ass to collect.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 3 weeks ago

Oh totally!! I don't have reason to think they would try to scam me but better safe than sorry

[–] [email protected] 36 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Started in the morning. Resigned by noon.

As far as I was concerned it wasn't a business I was working for, but rather a criminal enterprise (the crime being fraud), only a really incompetent one.

They were a "tech firm" but their product changed literally daily, depending on who they were trying to sell to. They had no actual product. They had a couple of programmers who would be told every day what the product actually was today who would gnash their teeth and cry. Then they didn't even have that much. Which didn't stop them trying to sell it anyway.

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[–] [email protected] 13 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Oh man sounds crazy lmao!! With how incompetent they sound I find it hard to imagine they lasted much longer after you left

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[–] [email protected] 6 points 3 weeks ago

Well done, good luck!

[–] [email protected] 15 points 3 weeks ago (2 children)

There is no inappropriate time to quit if you're not happy. Just be sure you're not happy as a very short time at an employer can look bad on your CV.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 3 weeks ago

Oh I won't add this to my CV at all lol so no worries there

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[–] [email protected] 21 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

In the places I have worked the first 3 months are generally a trial period and both parties can terminate employment at any time.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 3 weeks ago

This place is very upfront about the fact they expect people to quit since they mostly hire high school/university students (another reason I don't like it here, I'm in my 30s and older than everyone...) so that's good, my problem is that I'm unfortunately a people pleaser and hate the idea of letting my team leader down after she's been so nice to me haha. I know it doesn't really matter and it's something I just need to get over but it's easier said than done lol

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